Why do people in China have to buy a house? No one can avoid this reason.

Buying a house gives people a sense of security

The sense of security is a problem that everyone will encounter, and it is also a problem that everyone in China is thinking about at present. Even without serious thinking, the sense of security has been affecting us. At the same time, the issue of security is taboo, and no one wants to face it. The best way is to solve it from some aspects before we realize that the security is not high and we don't have to face it.

I have a divorced male friend with children. He recently met a woman who made him feel good and offered him a condition: a house and a car. It is estimated that most women will have such requirements, which is reasonable. The point is that my friend has no idea of buying a house for the time being, because he thinks renting a house is the same. My friend thinks that in a big city, a good house needs 1000000+. I don't have such financial ability at present, but I hope to have a better living environment. I can rent it150,000-200,000 a year. If I want to change, I can always change to another house. Moreover, the money from buying a house can be used for other investments, and you can also have more freedom to choose your own lifestyle. This is everyone's values and attitude towards life, which is understandable. But that woman just wants to buy a house. The implication is that if she doesn't buy a house, she will consider whether it is necessary to communicate.

I tried to discuss this problem with my friends. Women's choice of men is to choose the best, which is biological instinct. To some extent, this is the same as that of female animals in the animal kingdom who choose males with strong ability. Houses and cars can prove whether a man has the ability to get more resources in society, which is a symbol of his ability. Therefore, both men and women, such explicit materials as houses can prove their abilities. Of course, a man's career and other types of wealth can also prove his ability. And women choose a strong man, which is in line with their biological instinct and psychological needs, except those women who have the "Notre Dame" complex. Such psychological needs can be externalized into a concept and universally recognized values, mate selection and so on.

Generally speaking, men need to prove their abilities, and women choose men with strong abilities to experience safety. In the cultural atmosphere of China, this also solves the "existential anxiety" of men, because only those who perform better than others are valuable and more recognized by others. Otherwise, a weak person will be left out and abandoned by his parents. In China, housewarming is similar to a ceremony to prove one's ability.

Buying a house is a symbol of ownership.

Erich Fromm, an American psychologist, divided people's attitudes towards life into two categories: possession and existence. In the crowd, people who take possession as their attitude towards life process account for the majority.

The instinctive motivation to live is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. It's just that pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages are two different directions Pursuing profit belongs to active and independent creation, and avoiding harm belongs to passive response. In this way, people's attitude towards external things is completely different.

In China, people's subconscious fear of lack of resources was formed in the changes of past dynasties. In other words, a few years ago, most people used to eat unsaturated food and wear warm clothes. Because of the bad man-made or natural conditions, they once formed an inner panic about the means of subsistence, which formed a strong desire to own materials abroad. Just like a starving child, when he grows up, he will have more things to make up for the psychological black hole he once lacked.

Possession is more important than anything. And it has more possession, and you can also feel superior in the crowd. This is also in line with the values in China culture: to get ahead and worship one's ancestors means being bigger than an official and having more things.

In addition, in China, individuals are subordinate to groups, which is the source of more self-worth. In such a value system, what belongs to "self" is not very important, and the concept of self will be interpreted as "selfish" or "alternative". Under such a system, it is difficult to stick to yourself and risk being marginalized. Therefore, since possession is the attitude of most people, the way of possession seems to be more recognized by the public. I possess, so I exist; I am who I am because of what I have. Since buying a house or speculating in stocks is a national topic, it will be more meaningful to participate. No matter what one's ability is, it is very important to take part in group sports.

In psychoanalytic system, the house will point to the symbol of the mother's uterus.

A tourist told me a dream, dreaming that he was running in the wild, and it was scary to see thunder and lightning outside. When she found the house, she suddenly felt less afraid. This dream can be understood from several levels, one of which is: it is dangerous outside, I will get hurt, and if I return to my mother's womb or fall back to my baby state, I will be protected. The visitor's problems are emotional relationship and fear of intimacy, which comes from the trauma caused by her young mother's improper treatment. She was brought up by an indifferent mother. However, in the 1960s and 1980s, their mothers were generally very busy and gave little emotional support to their children.

Many people's inner understanding of the house has already surpassed the place where they live and reached the psychological level. China people's attachment to their mothers is very strong, and we can all feel their praise and maternal love for their mothers and be moved by them. The image of the mother is more about taking care of the child and sacrificing herself to meet the needs of the child, which means that the mother represents care and can rely on. This is a retrogressive need. I have a friend who created the concept of "China Giant Baby". He believes that most people in China are huge babies psychologically, and the emotional relationship with people and society is more like the emotional relationship of "looking for a mother".

Unconsciously, returning to the house is like returning to the state of being taken care of: stable and satisfied. How to look at your house seems to be another topic.

The house has always been real estate. Although the property right of the house is only so many years now, buying a house and land is a tireless pursuit of many people all their lives. This concept still holds true in today's society. This is a continuation of the concept, which has been rooted in the deep minds of China people. The words that the older generation "cares" about the younger generation are "buy a house?" How big is the house? I will settle down when I buy a house. " The house has a lot to do with mental stability. I'm afraid of instability.

In reality, the house may mean hukou and student status.

The class concept in society has existed since ancient times. Social class was once expanded and weakened. Weakening is only the surface consciousness, and in the deep consciousness, class has never disappeared. With the development of society, classes began to be obviously stratified. The life of the middle class with a house and a car is as enviable as that of a former soldier or white-collar worker. The process of urbanization means that many rural areas are disappearing, so it is inevitable to buy a house in the city. In big cities, in order to enter the hukou, many people are encouraged to buy houses with the help of the whole family, which is similar to investment immigration. However, China's educational resources have been in short supply, and the degree rooms in school districts are hot. A few days ago, the sky-high price in Beijing was 5.3 million yuan, and I bought a 12 square meter degree room. What kind of influence will such information have on the public? The degree is difficult, at all costs; If power resources are insufficient, a degree room is a good choice.

In many ways, the topic of universal sexual intercourse seems to have a growing trend.

Today, I passed the real estate agent at the entrance of the community and saw a price increase sign on the intermediary's housing information. This is a marketing tool, similar to hunger marketing and panic marketing. It seems that there is no such shop after this village. Once this marketing method is widely adopted, it will cause people's inner anxiety. How many people have the motivation to buy a house in this marketing method?

The favorable national policies have indeed stimulated people who need more than just houses to invest in real estate. In one stage after another, the wealth story of getting rich by investing in real estate is also stimulating people's sense of loss and desire. Since then, the house has become one of the things that may become rich overnight. We have been compared since childhood. I can do what others can do, and I want what others have. When you meet a colleague or friend who earns money from a house, maybe many people are not envious and appreciative, but deeply lost and jealous.

One of my visitors once asked me why others can make money by lying down while I need to work hard in the company and earn less than those people. Yes, psychological imbalance has prompted many people to join the ranks of buying a house and waiting for "lying down to earn money". In addition, now the bank loans you to invest in real estate.

In China's family, people have a strong demand for "absolute" fairness because of some traditional ideas (also because of fear), such as son preference, so others have it, and I want to have it, for fear of losing some opportunities that should not belong to me.

On the whole, once buying a house rises to psychological needs and investment needs, the pace of buying and selling a house will not stop. At the same time, the increasing number of singles and high divorce rate will also promote the demand for real estate. A house with three people may evolve into two or more houses with three people.

It turns out that in many people's minds, the house is not only a residential value, but also an investment product: I want to see if I have such an investment vision. The value given to the house is getting higher and higher, so the house price is getting higher and higher. After all, value and price are often positively related.