Is it worthwhile to immigrate to America for children?

Immigration is really not just for children.

In our circle of friends, there are several dinks. Whenever we are busy for our children, they are enjoying life happily. They are also migrant workers who work to earn money, but they are completely free after eight hours: skiing, rock climbing, fishing, diving, shooting, hunting, boating, sailing, photography, writing, calligraphy and so on. Life is not lonely at all.

Of course, I'm not advocating double income no kids's lifestyle-I'm a mother of two myself, but it does make me think, is there something hidden behind the appeal of "for children" that we should consider from our own perspective? Immigration, the biggest leap in life, should be budded from our own inner analysis, right? ……

Maybe, you want to change your existing pattern?

What is the pattern? Materially speaking, it is also a common saying of China people now, that is, which cities do you live in-are the people around you strangers like metropolises or gossips like small counties? Is your humanistic environment a competitive atmosphere with a high vision, or is it a contented state of a frog in a well? Anyway, you just want to change and jump out of the established framework of your ancestors.

Jump from where? Since it is jumping, don't forget that you can jump further and cross the ocean! China is as far north as Guangzhou, but there are so many cities in the United States, Canada and New Australia that can satisfy your dreams! ..... To put it bluntly, the house price in China can let you settle in almost any city in the world, and there is no shackles of household registration to limit your mobility. Besides, what's more, isn't it more desirable to go to a place where you can enjoy many ethnic groups, cultures and customs?

Perhaps, you long for a slow life with a rich heart?

For more than 30 years, everyone in China has been on the road to a well-off life. Now it seems well-off, but you suddenly find that people are only satisfied with a well-off life, and they are obviously winking at you at the level of "Zhongkang Dakang Dakang". You said that there is no limit to the pursuit of material desires. You said that people should have spiritual sentiments and spiritual beliefs. You said that you should read more books and think more when you have time ... But when everyone worships millionaires, when others are chasing after each other, how can you not die under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums? How can I be quiet and not impetuous? Can you still build a paradise leisurely?

Go abroad and visit European and American countries. Maybe you have a chance to find your inner self. Maybe you can slow down and think about it: what kind of life do I want after being pushed by the trend?

Perhaps, you are tired of the torture of secular ideas?

You are proud of the world, pursue true love, and don't want to give in to reality. You'd rather be a high-quality leftover woman, but many people will speak ill of you behind your back, reveal your privacy and find fault with you. Yes, few people have the courage and courage. In China, women don't get married. What's the matter with you?

You are enterprising, and you work hard only to make the people you love feel your dedication. It's a pity that you still can't afford a house, so you can't get married-so you can't get married, so your mother-in-law can only call her aunt-because that's how happiness and a house are tied together in this society.

Can immigrants afford a house? Of course not. But no one will interfere with your freedom of love. The concept of "boys are CCB and girls are China Merchants Bank" is not popular. Men plow and women weave, and men and women are equal. Renting a house or buying a house can be a wedding room, as long as you work hard.

Maybe you just want to win the initiative as a parent?

When your child got 93 points and you felt good, the teacher told you that the average score of the class was 98.5 points, the colleague told you that his child got 98 points, and the neighbor told you that her child got 99.5 points! Hum, a few minutes is nothing, I don't want to hear it! But in the dark, you have been torn by the spell of comparison. Should I praise the child or scold him? Should I give in to my grades or protect my children's self-esteem? Alas, you are still a parent, obviously a puppet to discipline children for grades. How many rights do you have as a parent?

Maybe, you just want a free sky?

Turn on the computer, all kinds of search words are banned, all kinds of world websites are blocked, and all kinds of sensitive issues are shut down. Your brain is numb, isn't it? You can scold mistress and thief, but you can't scold zf. You can praise the motherland, mountains and rivers, people's heroes and the great Chinese dream, but you can't praise Locke's people-friendly style. ...

Maybe you just want to be a good person?

In China, it is common for men to socialize outside and often don't go home for dinner. The lack of fatherly love in the process of children's growth has also become a social phenomenon. It doesn't matter whether a man hurts his wife or not, what matters is whether he can make the apprentice; Whether a woman is happy or not is not in her heart-she would rather cry in a BMW than laugh behind a bicycle.

And emigrating abroad is equivalent to entering a school that reforms men. Whether driving a BMW or riding a bike, just be happy. No one in this society envies you or dislikes you, so your wife won't push you too hard. On the contrary, she wants you to spend time as a good companion-with the children. European and American men can work hard outside and wash dishes at home; Climbing up can repair the roof, and underground can repair the pipeline; Snow can be shoveled in the front yard and vegetables can be planted in the back yard. Men who love their wives will be less sociable, and men who are afraid of their wives will be blessed. Western society is also such a custom. Look at those handsome stars in Hollywood. How many are not good fathers? Others and foreigners are pursuing the original happiness of "wife and children fever"!

Perhaps, you also have a chance to interpret a dream?

We have always said that we should encourage children to pursue their ideals. In fact, we also have dreams. After emigrating, you have completed the basic task of fighting for your father. How can the future of the second generation be better than the first generation? So, we might as well make our dreams come true.

Perhaps, your major in college is not what you like, and immigration gives you the opportunity to reposition yourself and make you do better in your new job; Perhaps, you are a good craftsman, willing to soak in the garage to play with your craftsman table, and the repair level of the vestibule backyard is not lost to professional technicians; Perhaps, you can own a boat going out to sea, or a lakeside holiday house, or a forest farm and so on. Because those patents are not either rich or expensive; Perhaps, you can retire early, but not with your grandchildren, but with a camera on your back. Perhaps, you will influence the next generation and help your children become ambassadors of charity aid in Africa, instead of trivial people who only focus on annual salary. ...