More and more people are unmarried and have no children with double income. How will they support the elderly in the future?

I am a staunch unmarried person. Of course, everyone has their own ideas. Getting married and having children has its advantages, but everything is not absolute, and each has its advantages and disadvantages. Next, I will analyze why I don't get married and have children:

First, it is too expensive to get married and have children. It is better to spend this money on buying a house and a car, which not only meets the needs of life, but also meets the psychological needs.

Second, most people in society are ordinary people, and they are hard enough. They have to get married and have children to increase their burden, and then let their children suffer with them.

Third, for whom people live, a person can live a selfish life and have a responsible family, so they are either rich or expensive and grow old quickly after marriage.

Let me talk about the issue of old-age care first. The era of raising children for old age is over. Get married and have children just to support the elderly? Next, let me talk about my opinion:

First, getting married and having children is stressful, and it is easy to get sick. How many people die suddenly before they are old, everywhere.

Second, having children is an investment in itself, and it is a long-term investment with great risks. For example, the child died before you. Isn't Shanghai just a girl jumping on a viaduct? ) there is a daughter who is married far away, and there are still fewer people who have forgotten their mother's son after getting married?

Third, when you are old, if you are really paralyzed, don't say that there is no dutiful son in front of your hospital bed for a long time. Even if you really have a filial son who comes once in a thousand years, it will be uncomfortable to be paralyzed. Get the rat poison ready quickly.

Fourth, in what age, the pension economy is so developed, and old people are everywhere helping each other to enter nursing homes, so they won't feel lonely, at least there is no generation gap.

Finally, it is true to make more money. If you have no money, raise your children to prevent old age. If you have money, people who serve you will line up. At least young and happy, to say the least. The saddest thing is that when I was young, I worked hard to support my family. I have never lived a good life, my old children are unfilial and have no money. Isn't that even sadder? This is the most common in rural areas, especially with many sons. All the money is used to build a house for his son, so brothers will kick the ball if they want to support the elderly. )

I'm Dink, and I'm very headstrong. /kloc-went abroad in 0/997, and returned to Shenzhen for seven years in 2000. In 2007, because my mother left, only my father gave up American immigration and returned to Tianjin. I was 37 when I got married in Tianjin. I thought that no one would help me take care of my children completely, and I would just raise them for the rest of my life. After 20 years of hard work and huge expenses, I'm not sure whether the children will be filial, and I'm not sure whether the old man and I will fall down before the children reach adulthood. This will lead to a new elevator room with a big yard, three cats and two dogs, many flowers, fruit trees, several turtles and a lot of fish, and a lotus pond outside the yard for the comfort of my old age. Now I have planted water lilies and raised koi fish! I don't know, but as I told my elder sister-in-law when I first got married, no one could have imagined that China would develop like this 20 years ago. After that, the pension system in China will be improved a lot! Therefore, we have now improved the critical illness insurance, and there is almost no need to worry about seeing a doctor. There is no pressure to ask the cat to tease the dog every day (the old people on both sides are gone), and I live very comfortably. I don't regret Dink and enjoy it!

I'm Dink. I am 47 years old and have lived with my husband for 27 years. We think about providing for the aged every day. The older you get, the more you should think about this problem. I seldom think about this problem before I am 30. Our plan now is to exercise more and study more. The future is the era of the Internet. Shopping, eating, going out for medical treatment and all kinds of services should be available online, as long as they are not senile. Today, I also saw a 92-year-old grandmother trading stocks, which shows that people's potential is unlimited. We all have pensions, some savings and a little investment. No children, no need to help anyone, just take care of yourself.

After production automation, the factory does not need too many workers, and the country will vigorously develop the service industry. Population aging and pension standardization are the general trend. The first choice is to support the elderly at home. If you have limited activities, you can live in a nursing home. Our next generation has so many only children. Two people take care of four old people, and maybe two or three children. There's too much pressure. Times are different, there is no need to be bound by tradition. There must be more and more people going to nursing homes. The environment of nursing homes will get better and better in the future. Some people say that children will not be abused when they go to nursing homes. It is true that human nature is complex, and everyone has good and bad, but who will benefit from blindly spreading this negative energy? Everyone has an old day. If you and I both work in nursing homes, will you and I abuse a weak old man? We are full of confidence in the future.

The future is unknown. Facing the future with a firm, brave and calm heart, nothing is impossible. Live in the present and talk about tomorrow!

I don't think the problem of providing for the aged can be solved by getting married and having children.

I watched the news before. An old man gave birth to five children, and no one raised them when he was old. He let her live in a pigsty and finally starved to death. When he died, half his body was eaten by himself. What's the use of having children to prevent old age?

The family next door to my house, the elderly at home are paralyzed, in a wheelchair and taken care of by an aunt. They usually ignore it, but complain about sending the elderly to nursing homes. Is the old man's heart not cold?

My grandmother gave birth to six children. Usually there are no children around, and she can meet once in a while. She raised her youngest son's children alone in the country. The youngest son who was in the most pain directly said that he had no money and died when he got sick. Having given birth to so many children, my father always takes some money. Fortunately, my grandmother is in good health. Before her death, she was able to cook and take care of herself, and she didn't want to burden her children. Almost no children.

My grandfather is also a few children. No one can take care of him when he is old. The youngest daughter-in-law only cares about the food around her. My grandfather wanted to hang himself by wearing it.

In today's society, everyone is under great pressure. In order to support the elderly, you should also consider whether your child can always be with you, whether his other half will fully support you, and whether the other half can accompany you for life and support each other. ...

Take care of yourself and take good exercise so that you don't have to be dragged down by others. You can move, eat and drink, Lazar can come by himself, and then a group of old friends can go out to play and find some hobbies. This kind of old age is very good, as long as your heart is full and happy, it is much better than relying on others to support the elderly.

When I can't handle eating and drinking Lazarus myself, I think I will choose to go quietly. It's too dignified to live like that. I have to wait for death.

Finally, if you want to support your old age by getting married and having children, remember to educate your baby and let her marry a generous and filial man, otherwise it will be useless for you to have a joint team.

In today's real life, there are indeed more and more people who are unmarried and have no children with double income. Although it is not popular, the number of such people is indeed increasing.

It is not difficult to see from the questions raised in the topic that people who like this topic are very worried about how unmarried and childless people with double incomes can provide for the elderly.

But the subject, to put it bluntly, I think you are really worried about eating carrots, worrying too much.

In the real society, it is a fact that more and more people are unmarried and have no children with double income. It is true that when they get old, the pension for such people will become a very realistic problem.

However, this question, do you doubt that these unmarried people and people with double income and no children will not know that it will be difficult to provide for the elderly?

If you really think so, really think so, then you are all wet. We are now unmarried people or people with double income and no children. They all live according to their own hearts, and will not be influenced by the secular world or bound by their families. In short, we all live for ourselves, not for others.

Therefore, if you carefully observe and study, you may find that these unmarried people or people with double incomes and no children are often very independent, opinionated and have distinct personalities. They have their own way of life and way of dealing with the world, and are not affected by external factors.

Just like the fashionable network celebrity said, where are you, where is he; Whether you like it or not, he is like that. I think this sentence is very suitable for most unmarried people or children without double income.

Also, there are pension institutions all over the country, which are very developed. Even if these unmarried people or children with no double income are old, they can easily find where they want to go.

Having said that, you're not worried that unmarried people or people with two incomes and no children will be left unattended when they get old, are you?

Actually, there is no need to worry. In fact, the reason is very simple. If they were really afraid that they were old and had no one to support them, and they were really worried that it would be difficult for them to provide for their old age, then they would have been married or married long ago. They will not watch their youth fly by and become unmarried or dink people.

In fact, among these unmarried or childless people with double incomes, except for a few who still hate marriage or don't want to get married, most people live a quiet, casual and comfortable life and live their own independent life leisurely. As for providing for the aged, they may not have planned it at all.

It is precisely because of this that I feel that the subject is really worried about this problem. It is really the emperor who is not in a hurry.

Now these unmarried people and childless people with double incomes are living so freely. We ordinary people who think about our lovers, children and grandchildren and daily necessities all day should be well-advised to walk past them quietly, leave them alone, let alone worry about how to support the elderly in the future.

Call me unmarried and double income without children. How do they support the elderly? I think people start saving money when they are young, and it is no problem to provide for the elderly. When they were young, they were working all the time, so he wouldn't be distracted. Therefore, unmarried people and double-income childless people have money when they are young, so don't squander it. Think about it. People who get married and have children can't save money. Even if they have a few dollars, they will spend them on their children. When they are old, they are not so happy. Because they have no money, they say unmarried people. There is no problem for them to provide for the aged. As long as you can move, you can not leave the nursing home, or you can hold a group to support the elderly. Well, the saddest thing in life is getting old, so everyone should make plans for themselves, that is, they must have financial strength, because you have money, and it is ok to hire a nanny!

I'm not unmarried, I'm Dink. For various reasons, I don't want children. As for providing for the aged, it is good to rely on yourself. When I was young, I worked hard, saved money and paid insurance on time. Retired, have their own savings and insurance. I don't plan to support the elderly in first-tier cities, and the cost will be much lower. I want to live in the suburbs of an ordinary city. I have a small yard, all kinds of flowers, walking my dog and walking. I have a good life. I don't intend to live to be 90 or 100. If I get seriously ill, I may choose euthanasia. I hope euthanasia will be legalized in China.

When I was a child, Dink was called a five-guarantee household, which seemed to be a village committee to help the elderly die and the house was owned by the state.

Two female students, born in 1968.

The welder in a railway locomotive and rolling stock factory pays all his monthly salary to his parents and lives in the dormitory of the factory with his parents and brother. There are two and a half houses: one for her parents, one for her brother and half for her. After her brother got married, she shared a room with her little nephew.

Her parents died one after another, and she never got married. She feels at home, nephew 19 years old. She retired at home at the age of 45 because of rheumatoid arthritis. It turns out that her salary is for her parents. After her parents died, all her savings were gone. The two sisters chip in some money every month to send her to a nursing home. In the first quarter, they sent her in a wheelchair and bought some pickles and daily necessities from the nearby supermarket. She said: the food that the old people eat is too bad to be used to!

One is in a textile factory. After marriage, her husband has been ill. While taking care of the patient, he also fell and his head was not so bright. After her husband died, she was also sent to a nursing home by her three sisters, and shared a dormitory with her classmates in the same classroom for the rest of her life.

Whether you are unmarried or dink, the economic foundation is the most solid:

Being sick and hospitalized, no money is enough; It's inconvenient to move, please hire a nanny, the price is low, and no one comes.

Buy commercial insurance and endowment insurance, or buy Hong Kong overseas endowment insurance ~ ask for money;

Do a good job of financial allocation for more than 10 years in advance, accumulate enough savings, and fight inflation ~ ask for money;

The insurance company launched the "house-to-house pension insurance". Old people with more real estate or special circumstances apply for a fixed fund subsidy every month after retirement. After the old man dies, the house will be publicly evaluated.

Buy multiple properties ~ ask for money.

Senior nursing home, intelligent and all-round care, full-time care for 1 3 people, more money!

Dink with good economic conditions, another world;

One of the leaders of our company, the Dink family, the wife of a university professor, is nearly 50 years old, and her clothes, accessories and even nails are all copies of girls born after 00. Time's meat cleaver seems to be insulated from her.

Speaking of dink, it's simple:

I don't want to give all the quality resources at home: husband, money and energy to my children, especially the most precious time.

In her words: I don't have enough good things myself, poor thing. Let me have another child to rob me, idiot!

Japan is deeply involved in the aging crisis, and some politicians say that "it is selfish not to have children", which has caused an uproar. The Prime Minister said: I choose whether to have children or not, but we should create a social environment suitable for those who want to have children.

Unmarried people live alone, while people with double income and no children live alone. Social development keeps pace with the times. In the future, everyone will go to social welfare homes when they are old, and it is not bad to integrate into a group to provide for the elderly!