Reading notes on learning from Jewish mothers how to love their children

If you love me, let me take responsibility. A few days ago, I read an article - "What's wrong with "Chinese-style maternal love"". This article is divided into three parts, which touched me the most. The second part is "Learning How to Love Children from Jewish Mothers". The general content of this part is as follows: Sarah is a Jew born in Shanghai and has two sons and one daughter. Later, Sarah got divorced and moved to Israel with her three children. When she first arrived in Israel, Shala made a living by selling spring rolls. She was used to thinking like a Chinese mother. She believed that no matter how hard it was, the children could not suffer. Later, the neighbor's aunt said to Sarah's eldest son: "You are already a big boy. You should help your mother instead of being like a waste!" He then said to Sarah: "Don't think that you are the mother of the child after you give birth. You This is not loving the children, but harming them!" Later, all the housework in the family was done by the three children... Later, Sarah's two sons became famous diamond dealers.

After reading this, I thought: Our parents should really learn from Jewish mothers, let go and let their children have their own adventures. If you want your child to become an eagle that fights in the sky, you must let your child leave the arms of your parents. Only after going through wind and rain can we become stronger!

In a casual chat, I told my mother about the article "What's wrong with "Chinese-style maternal love"". When I said that the three children make breakfast every day, my mother suddenly said: "Then their mothers are not afraid of burning them?" It is such a simple sentence, it is like thousands of mothers in China The epitome of loving children. Whenever a child does something, their first consideration is not how much knowledge or perception the child can learn from the matter. Their first consideration is often whether the child will fall or touch them while doing this. It is precisely this approach of parents that leaves us with no room for free control. Similarly, if our parents don’t give us the opportunity to exercise when we are young, we will encounter more ups and downs when we grow up.

"Chinese-style maternal love" really should not continue. Just like Shala in the article, what he said when his children were successful and famous: "Being soft-hearted is harm, being cruel is love. Whoever dotes on his children will one day bandage their wounds."

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