Idiom: The story of a man who left his wife at home.

You made a mistake. Of course you don't know: P is not a disciple, but an immigrant. This idiom comes from the book Confucius' Family Tales, which is the third volume and the thirteenth sage. There is a short passage in it: Ai Gong asked Confucius, "What have I forgotten so much that I emigrated and forgot my wife?" Confucius said to him, "This is not enough." Besides, forget it.

Gong said, "Can you smell it? Confucius said, "Xia Qi, a former scholar, was a son of heaven and rich in the world, and forgot the way of his ancestors. Break its code and abolish it.

World sacrifice; Waste on lewd pleasure, indulge in wine; Courtiers flatter and guide their hearts; loyal

Lu Aigong asked Confucius, "I heard that some people are so forgetful that they are forgetful.". The world rules Jay, but there is one country. It's called forgetting me. Confucius said, "This is not ridiculous. What is even more ridiculous is that even Lu Zigong, who is his own, said, "Can we talk about it? Confucius said: "After Xia Jie owned this country, he forgot how his ancestors passed it on to him. He broke the laws of generations, abandoned the ancestral temple and only cared about pleasure and drinking. He also let the treacherous court official flatter his mind, but let the loyal minister even dare not say anything. It was not until Xia Jie was killed by everyone in the world that the idiom was explained in the third volume of A Young Scholar Qionglin (an ancient book similar to a code): "When you emigrate, you forget your wife, and don't try to ridicule others. "Basically, this means that people are careless and lack tendons, but in fact, it is more serious to accuse a person of carelessness, but it is not just a matter of forgetfulness and lack of tendons. It is a person who indulges to the point where he doesn't know what to do. But I think it is ok to simply describe "a careless person who always screws things up" "