How do remarried couples get along economically (how to deal with economic relations)

There is such an episode in the "Gold Medal Mediation" program:

Ms. Sun and Mr. Xue are husband and wife halfway. They went through a lot together. They spent seven years happily, but they didn't expect to be on the show because of financial disputes at home.

Ms. Sun, who felt that she needed to be in charge of the family's financial affairs, claimed that her husband had given all his money to his ex-wife's daughter, indicating that she no longer had a position in this family. Mr. Xue thinks it is necessary to manage his own money. To put it bluntly, the contradiction between two people lies in money.

In fact, it is not just a program. In real life, it is not difficult to find that the biggest problem faced by remarried couples is economic problems. Unlike when they first got married, remarried couples generally have their own savings. How to deal with financial problems reasonably is related to the future of this marriage.

The survey shows that 77% of remarried couples have conflicts due to economic problems, which makes remarried people have to pay attention to it. The psychological shadow and even "psychological trauma" caused by the previous marriage will make the other party more insecure and suspicious.

So, how to manage the finances of remarried families so that marriage will not be affected? Try it from the following two angles:

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Treat ex-husbands and ex-wives

Get * * * knowledge of economic relations.

Generally, divorce will involve the division of property more or less, and sometimes it will also involve the payment of child support, which is actually not the key to the problem. The key is to inform the other party of the coordination of these properties when remarriage.

Some people will think that this is my ex-wife's ex-husband's business, not his. This idea is completely wrong. Marriage is run by two people. What financial matters should be open and honest, and everything should be transparent. Be sure to get in touch with * * * knowledge in advance to avoid laying hidden dangers in the future.

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Treat children and parents alike.

Want "a bowl of water is flat"

Another important thing in managing finances after remarriage is to give pocket money to both parents and children. Some people choose their own side to be responsible, so they don't interfere with each other and avoid many problems.

But you collect it for your children and I keep it for my children. Although this method saves trouble, it seems that they still live according to their daily habits and economic habits, not the so-called integration.

Therefore, if you want to truly integrate, you must accept each other's children and parents from the heart. You don't need to treat them as your parents and children. At the very least, you should treat your parents and children at the same level of water. Don't give 5000 to the other family, leave 10000 to your own family. This will let everyone know that they are psychologically uncomfortable and affect the feelings of remarried families.

Here, I also want to remind the remarried men and women that since you are married, the intimacy of your life will be unparalleled, including children and parents. Therefore, remarried couples must discuss income and economy, and everything should focus on the interests of both husband and wife.

Economic disputes between husband and wife have little influence on feelings, especially remarried couples. Everything must be discussed well to avoid laying down future troubles for marriage.

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