What should people learn?

1, the general term for human beings. Man is the crystallization of the tallest animal and wisdom that has ever appeared on the earth, and is currently in the position of the ruler of all species. It is also a selfish but kind animal.

Each of us has a lot to learn in life, so what is the most important thing to learn? I wanted to use "must", but in reality, most people failed to do so and had to use "need". This topic came into contact with me when I answered questions from netizens online. It is also the answer I have been looking for for for many years, and it is also encouraged by my friends. I have seen many people's answers, and the answers are varied, but none of them can cover the whole process of a person from childhood to adulthood. My answer is only two words "choice"! Choose what? That's a lot. Choose which kindergarten to go to, where to go to middle school, liberal arts or science, what to study, what to go to university, what to do, who to be friends with, who to marry, whether to have children, when to have children, whether to jump ship, whether to start your own business, what to see, which hospital to live in, whether to continue to live ... Yes. The simplest multiple-choice question in the student exam is single choice, which is the correct answer, but what about multiple choice? It often makes us lose points. The choice of life is many choices, but the price of losing points is heartbreaking. I have been summing up my growth process and trying to find out the nodes that lost points. Just like playing a maze game, there are so many forks in my life. How can we make the right choice? When dad came to the organization department with a transfer order, the people in the organization department said that all departments and units are short of cadres now, so you can go to any unit you want. I asked my father, when there are so many choices, why did you choose to go to the enterprise? Dad said that everyone who experienced the Cultural Revolution knew that the power struggle in the unit was very complicated and they didn't want to get involved. Let me ask you again, your major is communication, why don't you choose communication industry? If you had chosen to go to the post office, then called Shenzhen and joined the mobile company, your retirement benefits would be much better than now, and you don't have to be angry about the pension. Dad said that after dating for more than 20 years, he changed his place and wanted to change his lifestyle. I said, even if you go to an enterprise, why do you want to find a closed enterprise? Dad said, who would have thought that such a large enterprise group would go bankrupt, and the chairman is the adopted son of Premier Zhou ... Alas ... several people I know seem to be doing well, so I tried to analyze them. For example, one of my brother's high school classmates shares a dormitory with his brother. His brother was admitted to a key university and left Shenzhen to study. That classmate was admitted to junior college and stayed in Shenzhen. That classmate began to invest in stocks at school, and he earned millions before graduating from junior college. My brother talked to me about it when he came back from vacation. He regretted leaving Shenzhen for a key university, otherwise he would certainly not be worse than that classmate. I understand my brother's feelings. I told him that even if he stayed, he would not necessarily be better than that classmate in investing in stocks. I asked my brother, if you don't understand stocks, do you dare to borrow huge sums of money from relatives, friends and banks to invest? You are not so adventurous, so don't envy others. Your achievements must be in other aspects. I believe that as long as you work hard, you will definitely win the respect of others. You don't have to be rich to be respected. My brother finally understood that he is now a professional manager and that rich classmate is now his good friend. By the way, this rich friend is now worth over 100 million yuan. Personality, personality is one thing, but I still can't believe that a young man in his early twenties can be invincible with his adventurous spirit. Maybe he was enthusiastic at first, and then someone must give him some advice. I call him a "guide". I have too little experience in adolescence. Generally, parents and friends give directions, and entering the society mainly depends on friends. Yes, we all have friends in our lives more or less, but friends are also divided into "good friends" and "bad friends". Good friends lead you in the right direction, and bad friends make you lose your way. Even your relatives may not be able to point you in the right direction because of their vision and ideas. This is what I have been confused about. An older girl once told me that when I was young, I always felt that the next man was a better man. As you get older, the range of choices is getting smaller and smaller. Now I'm a leftover woman. How to choose? I asked her, what is a good man in your mind? She said she was good-looking, rich and kind to me. I laugh, you won't take all the good things in the world, you can only choose the one you value most and despise other aspects, so you can definitely get married. If you value wealth, you can ignore his appearance or his playboy. If you value his appearance, you don't care about his good feelings, and even he needs your support; If you want him to really care about you, you can't count on him, Gao Fushuai. Unfortunately, she didn't listen to me, so she sent herself out in a hurry and found a Hong Kong person. Later, when he saw me, he complained to me that the man had a woman in Hong Kong and had no money. After she went back to her hometown to have a baby, she only sent a few living expenses and never showed up again ... it was embarrassing. I have a friend who worked in a Hong Kong-owned factory when he first came out to work. His leader is from Hong Kong. Watch him work hard and often guide training. Later, when Hong Kong people were transferred back, he replaced them. The factory is to make orders for American customers, who took a fancy to this skilled and conscientious young man and dragged him over to take charge of the inspection of the factory and the inspection of goods imported from China. As long as he signs and approves, the United States will receive the goods and pay. Later, he has been engaged in management work, changed jobs several times, and someone showed him the way. His work has been going smoothly, and now this friend has emigrated to Canada. Except for a few people who are protected by their families, most people can only rely on themselves. Whether young or old, constantly enrich yourself, actively seek people who can guide you, take every step down-to-earth, choose your own needs objectively and rationally, and do your best for your ideals. I think you can get extra points by doing life multiple-choice questions again.