The old immigrants chattered away.

In the first few years of working, a group of marriageable colleagues just crowded into a department, and there was a whole wedding tide. At that time, the monthly salary was more than two thousand. The minimum wage at that time was 1000 yuan. We all say that young people are poor and generous, and generally go to 200 yuan. The relationship is particularly good, that is, the same batch enters the unit, which is also 1000 yuan. Everyone in this city knows that the money will come back sooner or later.

Money, if the relationship is good, how can you feel too much, because long live friendship. But people with bad relationships will feel very uncomfortable afterwards. Especially a few years ago, the unit was still a lively scene where young men got married and almost all units went. More people go, which means that you are popular and everyone has joined in. If fewer people go, the host and guests will feel very calm and lose face.

At that time, almost no money was saved, because all the wages went with the members except for food and drink. It's painful when the money goes, but at least I know that the money is not gone forever, just wait patiently for my marriage.

I didn't know about the money until my wedding day. Actually, it's enough for the wedding banquet. Some took their children to get married, and the money couldn't even cover the wine at the wedding reception. At that moment, I still admired the western way of getting married. Both men and women just held a simple ceremony in the church, and the guests witnessed it. They didn't give each other gifts or invite guests to dinner. At best, they just have a light meal together. This way is simple, but it's easy.

Later, in view of many regulations, wedding ceremonies were no longer popular, especially for young people with certain positions. They are also very cautious about weddings, not to mention collecting money. Suddenly, everyone felt relaxed.

Actually, getting married is a matter for two young people, but China people always want to complicate things. In fact, the least disturbing thing for them is themselves.

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