Three dates lead to love relationship, 3,000-word sexual psychological exercise, graphic analysis of knife elder brother.

If the method is correct, any man can get a girlfriend with three dates-Sish (will smith) in "Rival in Love".

In most cases, whether there is a chemical reaction of "love" between men and women often depends on the first three dates.

If the situation of the first three dates is not good, then it will be twice as difficult to warm up the relationship between the two sexes later.

On the other hand, if the first three dates are handled properly, love will suddenly come like a tornado.

You can ask yourself, do you often only look back when you meet the opposite sex for the first time, only when you smile at each other?

As far as falling in love is concerned, the probability of "love at first sight" is far greater than that of "love for a long time", which includes psychological "first cause effect", "halo effect" and "suspension bridge effect", so we won't talk about these truths.

Today we will talk about dry goods. How to determine the relationship with three dates? How to operate?

If you see a beautiful girl sitting alone in a dimly lit corner, quiet and dignified, bored, how do you know her?

Perhaps, you know some "rustic love stories" and find them very humorous. You walk up to her and say, "You look like my next girlfriend".

If she is good enough, most of the results will see through your routine at a glance and think you are glib.

Or, if you want to take a sincere strategy, you can tell her frankly that I am attracted to you, and your eyes are really beautiful and praise her beauty.

If you don't look as good as Eddie Peng Yuyan Yu Yan and Daniel Wu, she won't buy it.

Then, another strategy, you want to reflect your "deep thinking" and "being different" and try to analyze her innermost thoughts.

However, that will not only fail to achieve good results, but may also cause resentment.

Finally, Cheng used up three axes, and she was not interested in you at all. I can only leave in anger, and beautiful love seems so far away from you.

So, where is the problem?

What will the master do? How did the master win the beauty home through three dates?

Warning: The premise of using this guide is to have awe of love and a sincere and loyal attitude towards love. Any act of playing with feelings will be at your own risk!

Guide outline

The master program is equivalent to an "internal skill" of Wushu. To understand the practical dry goods of love, we must first understand the underlying logic of gender psychology.

Find out a question, what kind of people and things do people like? What kind of people and things can make people involuntarily want to get close?

Concentration, the likes and dislikes of human emotions can be summarized as two points: like accidents and fear of loss.

For example: "You earned 200 yuan from your work" or "You accidentally won the lottery 100 yuan", which makes you happier?

The answer is undoubtedly "won the lottery 100 yuan", because the lottery income is "unexpected".

The unexpected "sense of gain" is far greater than the money itself.

Take another example: "You earned 200 yuan" or "You lost 100 yuan", which makes you more upset?

The answer is still the latter, you will be more concerned about losing money.

People are more afraid of losing what they already have than what they get.

"Accident" and "loss" are the "mental methods" of the operation guide we are going to talk about next. The gist of three dates: move your heart with "accident" and stabilize your relationship with "loss"

Well, with the method, there is a trick!

Familiarity means "treating the first date like an acquaintance". I won't be shy when I meet acquaintances, and I won't put on airs. I will play a sincere and bold joke.

This will have two effects. First, create a comfortable atmosphere and quickly close the relationship; Second, make her feel "unexpected", curious about you and think you are "different".

You can't see it if you can't see it. No matter how beautiful the other person is, you just ignore her and treat her like an ordinary person. You can tell her that even if two people live their own lives, they will certainly live well.

More importantly, the first date should be "stopped in time". After arousing each other's curiosity through "accident" and creating a harmonious atmosphere, stop in time, say "Nice to meet you" and leave immediately. Let the other party feel unfinished and look forward to seeing you next time.

Do you know what it's like to be in love?

In a very short period of time, a person continuously encounters two "diametrically opposite" psychological stimuli, such as happiness and sadness, excitement and loss, and his heart will naturally "rise and fall", and the contrast caused by the sudden appearance of these two emotions is the feeling of "love".

Knife elder brother has always stressed that a date must be divided into "the first half" and "the second half", and the emotional stimulation of the two games should be completely opposite. The key to the second date is to create emotional contrast and make the other person feel "in love".

For example, in the first half, she was taken to ride a motorboat with her heart pounding.

In the second half, I took her to the Immigration Memorial Hall to relive her ancestors' wandering road. She is warm and moved, and her heart is surging.

Well, the feeling of love is there!

After "emotional contrast" touches the other person's heart, don't forget the important point, "bedding" to pave the way for the next date.

For example, when sending her to the car, she accidentally left her clothes in the car, because returning the clothes would make the third date logical.

In fact, emotional contrast and foreshadowing are "accidents", which can give people a surprise or be invisible.

The first two dates have made the other person interested in you, established a good trust and emotional connection, and the seedlings of love began to sprout. So, at this time, can you ask the other person, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"

No, stop asking!

What shall we do? I'll teach you another trick.

"Intention to sign a contract" is a marketing term, which means: in the marketing process, although the customer has become interested in the product, but has not made up his mind to buy it, if you directly ask the customer, "Do you still want to buy it?" Customers will immediately feel pressure and even give up the transaction, resulting in all previous efforts in vain.

The correct way is to guide customers to sign an informal "letter of intent", which has no legal effect. The essence of the letter of intent is a "psychological ceremony", which will give customers a full sense of gain, and once the sense of gain is given, people will be "afraid of losing".

On the third date, don't rush to determine the relationship between each other, but establish the "intention" of communication and make some short-distance plans. For example, make an appointment with each other to taste several kinds of delicious food in the city, and plan to visit some interesting places nearby. Once the plan is reached, she will never forget it.

At the same time, the third date must have "physical contact". Polite physical contact is not only harmless, but also can pull into the relationship between men and women.

Don't underestimate "physical contact". As mentioned above, although signing the letter of intent is a ceremony and has no legal effect, it must be "signed". This action will leave a "clinch a deal" mark on the customer's psychology and make people feel "gained".

If you look like Yifeng Li or Li Xian, or your home is Sicong, Rainbow, then you may be closer, and the fire of love is always burning.

Any man has a chance to charm any woman, as long as the method is correct.

What knife elder brother talks about on the surface is love, but in fact it is marketing psychology.

I am an emotional scalpel, I am a real person, and I think I am arrogant.