What kind of life will it be like to be a door-to-door son-in-law in Tibet?

"She was given to me by God, and I will carry her through this life."

At 6 o'clock in the morning, when the sky was dark, Pubu got up and took her from the yard. Get cow dung and put it on the stove to boil water for cooking. After the meal was ready, he lifted his wife up from the bed, helped her get dressed, gently picked her up, put her in the wheelchair, and started feeding her.

Pu Bu comes from Jiagen Village, Gongtang Township, Damxung County, Lhasa City, Tibet Autonomous Region, and is an ordinary Qinghai-Tibet Railway road guard.

"She was given to me by God. She came to me when she was a child. I want to take her through this life and into the next life." Pubu, 37 years old this year, 1.75 meters tall, said As he spoke these words, his face shone with the sweetness of memory. "Exclusive private prescription, scientific improvement, professional maintenance, so that men are full of energy when they are romantic at night, and both of them are satisfied. Jia, Wei: first an n, then three K, and finally 28. When we were young, we grazed together and shared Zanba, milk and yogurt were prepared at home. Slowly, the two of us fell in love. Because we lived in the same village, we could see each other whether we were in the mountains or grazing on the pasture, and eventually we got together.”

Pu Bu’s mother-in-law, 82-year-old Tsetan Lamu, said that Yesi Lamu was her youngest child. At first, she was reluctant to let her youngest daughter get married, so she discussed it with her in-laws and asked Pu Bu to do it. Home son-in-law.

In 2003, a serious illness dragged Yesilam into the hospital. Faced with an unexpected disaster, Yeshilam's temper became irritable. She said: "I can't do anything except eat and lie down, and I let him take care of me. I owe him so much." The wife's complaints were full of guilt, and she even fainted because of her bad mood.

Seeing his lover who grew up with him suffer this misfortune, Pubu’s choice was to persevere. When his wife loses her temper, he never says much, but tries to change the subject by saying something else or telling her a joke.

"I said to her, it's okay, this is our fate, I will do my best to take care of you, you must be strong, there is no use crying, because these are destined, we just Accept the reality. That’s how I encouraged her.

"As long as I am here, I will take care of her all day"

Pu Bu did not break his promise. He specially built a cement slope in the yard that can accommodate wheelchairs. He often pushed his wife to bask in the sun at noon. Now, he gets up at 6 o'clock every morning, cooks, helps his wife get up, feeds her, and keeps the house clean. Whenever there is a large-scale event nearby, Pubu will find a way to take her there.

Yeshilam said: "I know in my heart how difficult it is for him, but there is no way to change the reality. There is no school near the village, the children go to school in the county, and the husband has to look after the children twice a week, which is very difficult. It’s hard. But he still chose to be with me and choose a hard life.”

At this point, Yesilam opened the certificates the children had received and said, “Going out with the two children. Seeing the children happily calling mom and dad, I thought to myself that I was lucky not to have died. He also loved me, and I was grateful that I was still alive." Speaking of the children, Pubu started to talk. . He said that sometimes when he sends his children to school on weekends and sees other families together, he feels a little sad.

“However, she can be by my side, talking to me, chatting with my mother, and the children also have their mother to call when they come home. Thinking of this makes me feel very happy.”

< p>Pu Bu had the habit of smoking in the past. "Later, my wife persuaded me to quit smoking. She said that she was already like this. If my health was not good, no one would take care of my two children in the future, so I quit smoking. I have been quitting for six or seven years now."

Faced with the question of what keeps him going, Pubu did not answer directly, but said: "I don't know which of us will die first, but as long as I am here for one day, I will take care of her for one day."

“I hope to take her to Lhasa by train one day”

In 2006, the Qinghai-Tibet Railway was opened to traffic, and the Tianlu climbed to the roof of the world and also passed through Jiagen Village where Pubu is located. After registration and screening, the honest and honest Pubu became a road protection worker on the Qinghai-Tibet Railway.

At the beginning, the railway patrolled by Pubu was more than 40 kilometers away from home. After taking care of his wife and family affairs in the morning, Pubu hurriedly rode his motorcycle and arrived at the patrol section before 8 o'clock. "My job is related to everyone's safety. For example, when a train comes, a sheep passes by. If I don't notice, something goes wrong with the train, which will endanger the safety of the passengers on the train, so I must take responsibility."

< p>Considering Pubu’s family’s difficulties, in 2010, the road protection team transferred him from the original road protection point to the road section near Jiagen Village. The salary of a road guard is only 2,500 yuan a month, but Pubu said that this is much better than the odd job he had before, because it is stable and he can take care of his wife close to home.

In 2012, as a road protection worker, Pubu took a train from Damxung to Lhasa for the first time. "It feels great. I didn't expect there was oxygen inside. I have lived in an oxygen-deficient place all year round. This is the first time I can enjoy the comfort of an oxygen-rich environment. It is much more comfortable than taking a car to Lhasa before. In the past, I just watched the train pass in front of me. After that, riding on the train made me more determined to protect the railway." Pubu said that when he got home, he couldn't wait to tell his wife about the feeling of riding the train, hoping to take her on the train with him one day.

Pu Bu’s deeds spread throughout the country and received everyone’s blessings. "There are really not many people like Pubu now. He is definitely a good man! Not only does he have to take care of his sick wife and do housework, but he also has to work on the railway. It is not easy." Neighbor Nyima Gyaltsen explain. Recently, Pubu's family was voted the "most beautiful family" in Tibet.

"If possible, it would be a great pleasure to be able to take the train to Lhasa together." Pubu talked about the excitement of taking the train, which made Yesilam also excited. Train dream.

Pubu said: "Love has brought us this far. I believe that one day, I can take her on the train with me. At that time, she will be even more devoted to my husband, a road guard." Proud."

Yeshilam said: "He is my eternal train. If there is an afterlife, I will be with him and repay the debt I owe him in this life.

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