How Gays Get Married in America (Continued)

Because DOMA, a same-sex couple (I hope this word is used properly), is unmarried in immigration law, it is impossible for the US federal government to come to the United States as husband and wife (such as F2 family visa). Therefore, even if he comes and you register in a certain state, you can't count him as husband and wife, because this kind of marriage is only recognized by the state government, not by the federal government that manages immigration.

Suppose he has brothers, sisters or parents in America, and he can get a green card through their agreement. If his education is high enough, he can apply for a work visa of H1B. Otherwise, there will be only tourist or business visas.

I wish you happiness.