If you want to cross the mountains, don't be afraid of the rough waves. When the wind and water rise, it's time to set sail.

There is a classic line in "Power Rangers": Sometimes we don't want to be heroes, but life sometimes exceeds our imagination.

F is a colleague and best friend of mine. He used to work in the factory with a salary that meant he could not eat enough and starved to death. He was as decadent in his twenties as he was as lackluster as an old man. Angry. Because I don’t have that love and pursuit, I always feel that my life is boring and without any improvement.

Suddenly one day, he took too much leave because he was renovating his family's house, so he received a warning from the company: no more unexcused absences. So I took the initiative to resign for this reason. Such a passionless job has long made people tired. It just so happened that this opportunity could help me make the decision to leave this comfortable but promising position.

Because you are young, you don’t have to worry, you still have a lifetime. There will be a future, and everyone will have a future. You just don’t know what the future holds.

If you don’t take this step, you will never know where your next step will be?

After returning home and wandering around for a while, he finally focused on the currently popular field of investment banking and applied for a job at the Xi'an branch of a Beijing investment company. There, he seemed to be like a dragon in water, and within two months Yue has already made the business process clear and works hard to attract customers and expand the market during working hours. I am not idle even after get off work. I use my social resources to take a lot of orders.

Just working hard like this, in more than three years, my salary has increased from the original monthly salary of 2,000 to an annual salary of 200,000. He would often say that if he had come out earlier, there might have been more opportunities.

Life is very simple. The sooner you wake up, the greater the possibility of success and the less likely you will regret your decision.

During dinner that day, he told me that he wanted to expand his business, but he would also take corresponding risks! I said you are doing pretty well now, and you are doing a great job with your team. He said that now it is not about how much money I make, but that I want to make my life more valuable.

This may sound a bit arrogant, but it does show that his thinking has reached a higher level.

Whether our goals are great or mundane, the reason we try to follow our own path is that it will be our own life, our own choices, our own mistakes.

There is also a senior student who woke up after staying in a state-owned unit for less than half a year, decided to resign, and went to work in Singapore after completing the resignation procedures.

When going through the procedures for going abroad through an agency, she paid great attention to the process and kept it in mind. After arriving abroad, she continued to learn English. After returning to China after her contract expired, she successfully applied for a job as a full-time consultant in a large agency company in Beijing.

While working, I was making plans for my family. After many considerations, I chose a New Zealand school for my husband to continue his studies and completed the relevant procedures. In desperation, the couple lived in separate places. Year.

In the past three years, she had been making money to support her family by herself, and life had been quite difficult. Finally, after her husband had completed his studies, found a new job, and settled everything, she resolutely resigned and immigrated with her four-year-old son. New Zealand. At that time the whole family was reunited.

Now that her son is in school, she has more free time, so she began to study the subjects she had given up before because of her livelihood. Sometimes when I see those thick English materials that I can’t understand, I really admire her learning ability and tenacity.

No effort, no gain. While some people wasted away the passage of time on their mobile phones and the Internet, she was angrily reading books in the library; while others were watching two episodes of a popular TV series in front of the TV, she had already figured out an incomprehensible problem.

Video chat with her and ask her, you have now lived the life you want. A family of three lives in a house of more than 200 square meters. When you go out, your eyes are full of green. You sit in the backyard in your free time. Basking in the sun, drinking coffee, and reading, this scene is so pleasant!

But she answered me, where are you now? Only by constantly challenging and making breakthroughs can people grow gradually. If you stick to the existing comfort for a long time, you will be like a frog in warm water and eventually lose the instinct to jump.

Whenever she completes a stage of her goal, she will set a task for herself. She said that she will never stop moving forward.

Sometimes when I am unwilling to write something because of laziness, there are always a few friends full of positive energy who subtly influence me. Their efforts drive me forward.

Get up every day and ask yourself a question, what do you want in life? What is your life goal? What kind of life do you ultimately want to live? Don't tell others, just tell yourself.

Can what you are doing now help you achieve your life goals as soon as possible? If not, then five or ten years from now, won’t you still be the same as you are now? I am still looking forward to a good year every year, but I am still a shabby cotton-padded jacket every year.

Why is this? It’s because what we are doing has nothing to do with our desires and goals. We are busy with tedious daily chores and busy with the difficult tasks in front of us all day long, and forget the original dream.

Your life today is the result of your choices three years ago. Similarly, your current attitude towards life determines your life status in the next three years. You should learn from the kind of person you want to be. If you want to improve your abilities, find a capable person to be your role model. Think more and do more research. You will find that the so-called success comes from "doing" rather than "sitting".

But some people, even if others share their valuable experience with them, will always make excuses: I don’t like it, I don’t have that much time, I’m afraid I’m not suitable.

Everyone has twenty-four hours a day, the question is where do you use it? Where you spend the most time is where your achievements will be.

The master of potential once said: "90% of human potential has not been realized. The ability of the human subconscious is 30,000 times greater than the consciousness." This sentence shows that most of the human abilities have not been discovered. Many people don’t understand themselves. In fact, you can still do many things, and you can take multiple paths, but now you are just running according to inertia.

So you can’t say that this thing is not suitable for you. No matter how old you are, whether you are male or female, you must at least give yourself a chance. You would rather make a mistake than miss it.

When I saw this sentence, I was reminded: If you want to cross the mountains, why fear the rough waves? When the wind and water rise, it is time to set sail.

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