“You don’t have the life of Venus, but you get the disease of Venus”: How did Ke Yimin destroy himself?

There is a highly praised question on Zhihu: Which singers in the music circle are good at singing but have poor personality?

Among them, female singer Ke Yimin ranks first.

Many people ridiculed her that she did not have the life of Venus, but she got the disease of Venus. When it comes to swearing, Jin Xing's venomous tongue is admirable, but Ke Yimin's venomous tongue has caused huge controversy.

In the 2016 audition for "Super Girl", a contestant suffered from voice discomfort due to a cold. At this time, Ke Yimin, who was sitting at the judges' table, scolded her rudely: "Then stop singing and get out!"

After this scene was broadcast, Ke Yimin was criticized by netizens for insulting the contestants. condemn. In the end, the program team was forced to disqualify her as a judge under pressure. For a time, Ke Yimin was blocked by the entire network.

So, how did this Malaysian singer, who was born with a good voice and was once a smash hit, destroy her good cards?

In 1972, Ke Yimin was born in a wealthy family in Malaysia. Although her parents divorced when she was nine years old, her parents protected her very well and gave her the best life and education.

At the age of 11, Ke Yimin was sent to study in the UK. She has high musical attainments and graduated from the Royal Academy of Music. This is a famous school that specializes in cultivating outstanding performers, conductors and composers.

While in school, she not only obtained the British Royal Piano Level 8, but was also the top student who advanced to the highest level in vocal music that year.

Ke Yimin has been particularly interested in pop music since she was a child. After returning from school at the age of 21, she participated in the "Voice of Asia" singing competition and won the runner-up in one fell swoop. Later, she signed a contract with Sony Records Taiwan and truly became a singer.

With his amazingly powerful voice and wide vocal range, coupled with his academic background, Ke Yimin released his first solo single "Too Silly" and it became a hit.

Not only did she win the Malaysian Best Newcomer Award and the Best Singing Award that year, she was also hailed as Asia’s Bel Canto Queen and became the most beautiful mezzo-soprano in the Chinese singing world.

Ke Yimin is lucky, she was at the top as soon as she debuted. When they were at their most popular, the music world at that time was dominated by her and Coco Lee. As long as she picks up the microphone, she can earn hundreds of thousands of Taiwan dollars.

At that time, she was a cash cow in the company, and no one could compare with her.

However, Ke Yimin has been a girl with sharp edges and a particularly cruel mouth since she was a child. She is carefree and has a hot temper, and she can't help but retaliate against anything she doesn't like.

The famous producer Guo Xing is Ke Yimin’s good friend. Once, he found a girlfriend who was a writer who was particularly good at "composing".

At a party, Ke Yimin saw that her friend Guo Xing had been serving the girl, opening doors, pulling out chairs, carrying cups, etc.

In the end, she couldn’t stand it anymore, so she said directly to the girl: “Stop pretending, what’s the point of pretending?”

As you can imagine, her friend’s daughter The friend was scolded by Ke Yimin and ran away.

Another time, when Ke Yimin was picking up her luggage at the airport, a very tall man was talking on the phone while pushing a suitcase to block the exit.

At first, Ke Yimin said to him kindly: "Sir, I'm sorry, your luggage is blocking us, could you please move it?"

Unexpectedly, The man seemed not to have heard anything and continued to call himself. This annoyed Ke Yimin. She got angry and kicked his suitcase away, shouting: "Get out of here, you're blocking the road!"

At that time, her assistant was in a panic. Zhang Di ran over to her and said: "Sister Yimin, you are a public figure, isn't it bad to do this?"

Ke Yimin directly attacked her: "In this situation, if you don't let me scold you He, then I will fire you."

Ke Yimin, who has a straightforward temperament, has always been such a "chivalrous" demeanor with no secrets and no sand in her eyes. People who know her say she is genuine, but people who don't understand her will gnash their teeth with hatred.

That year, Ke Yimin went to the company for a meeting and found that his parking space was occupied by someone in the parking lot. After getting off the car, she yelled angrily: "Which pig is taking up my parking space? Do you want to die?"

Later, the general manager of the company came over and explained to her: "Yi Min, this It’s the car of our company’s new vice president.”

When she heard that the new vice president was once the manager of Vivian Hsu and Shu Qi, Ke Yimin said with contempt: “Those two female stars, Are you blind? How could you find such an ugly man as your manager?”

However, Ke Yimin never expected that this extremely ugly man in front of him would become her husband in the future.

In 1999, Ke Yimin, whose career was at its peak, suddenly announced her marriage, got pregnant and gave birth to a baby soon, and disappeared from the entertainment industry.

While everyone was blessing her, her married life was not happy.

After getting married, her husband Huang Guofu naturally became her agent. However, because of Ke Yimin's strong personality, the two often had disagreements at work, which led to red-faced quarrels.

In the eyes of her husband, Ke Yimin is a super unsociable and particularly annoying female artist.

This disharmonious relationship extends from work to married life. At the worst time, the couple didn't speak a word at home for several months and became like strangers.

In addition to constant quarrels with her husband and being on the verge of divorce several times, Ke Yimin also had a very bad relationship with her mother-in-law.

She once cried on the show:

“When my daughter was taken out of the delivery room, my mother-in-law turned around and left, and my husband ignored me. After returning from childbirth, every day When I got home from work, my mother-in-law would only ask, "How much money did you make? When will you leave?"

Her mother-in-law is a very patriarchal woman. Ke Yimin took many folk remedies before and after pregnancy, hoping that she could give birth to a son and continue the family line.

Although her mother-in-law is sarcastic, Ke Yimin is not an easy person. She often talks to her mother-in-law like this: "Mom, let's not be so polite all the time. I don't know who will lie in the coffin first."

After saying this, I finally understood why Ke Yimin's mother-in-law was so polite. She is so harsh! The elderly all want to hear nice words, but Ke Yimin said such curse-like words that no one could accept.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult, but Ke Yimin has made her position in the family so embarrassing, largely due to her personality.

When she was at her most popular, her sharp character was tolerated by many people.

However, once you return to married life and everything returns to normal, the other party may not be able to tolerate and tolerate blindly, which will lead to restlessness in the family dog ??and crisis in the marriage.

Three years later, Ke Yimin decided to make a comeback. However, everything is in the past. Her fame was gone and no one wanted to work with her.

She said: "The musicians who used to be very familiar with me have become very strange now. Some people even said, why are you so fat now? You might as well go back to college to teach..."

In the past, she could earn hundreds of thousands of Taiwan dollars just by picking up the microphone, but now no program is willing to accept her.

One Christmas, she called her agent and asked: "Why don't you arrange a performance for me?"

Unexpectedly, the answer she got was: "Because no one wants you." Ah!”

Later, Ke Yimin learned that her agent made more than 200 calls in a row, but in the end no one was willing to accept her.

At her lowest moments, she would often sit alone in front of the TV and cry all the time.

Ke Yimin had to face reality and began to put down his posture and accept various nonsensical variety shows. Until later she became a judge of "Super Girl". She could have become famous with this opportunity, but she failed again because of her "mouth".

In a competition, a girl came on stage to sing an English song. Unexpectedly, after singing one sentence, Ke Yimin shouted: "Are you awesome? Put down your figure!"

As soon as these words came out, the girl on the stage was at a loss and explained: "I A little nervous..."

Ke Yimin scolded mercilessly: "Why are you nervous? Stop pretending, cutie! I saw a player who is ten times better than you in Guangzhou, and I said, ' You're a piece of shit."

After hearing this, the girl opened her mouth to explain something more, but Ke Yimin threatened: "If you continue to say anything, I will tear up this PASS card. ..."

In addition, Ke Yimin also scolded the contestants, "Stop singing, go away!", "You want to lose weight, no one wants to see a sow singing on the stage!" wait.

For a time, these vicious words and personal attacks attracted a lot of condemnation from netizens. Many people accused her of being disrespectful, uneducated, and self-aggrandizing.

The most exaggerated thing is that many netizens angrily went to her Weibo to scold her, and even resisted the program team to kick her out of the judging panel.

Due to pressure, the TV station terminated her contract. Many people "disgusted" when talking about Ke, and Ke Yimin was eventually banned from the entire network.

Ke Yimin may have never thought that he would be criticized by netizens for becoming famous again!

Although Ke Yimin later appeared to apologize and shed tears to reflect on his lack of self-cultivation and the need for more improvement. However, netizens don't seem to pay the price. Whenever she appears, all kinds of abuse and slander are inevitable.

I have to admit that Ke Yimin’s early achievements in music were very high. In the 1990s, there were not many singers with piano skills, and Ke Yimin was considered one of the best.

Coupled with a good voice and solid bel canto skills, the songs performed by Ke Yimin were deeply loved by the audience, and she was once called a Malaysian singer with a true academic background.

However, at this important stage in his life, Ke Yimin caused controversy time and time again because of his impulsiveness and sharp and forthright words. What was originally a smooth acting career turned out to be tragic for her.

Host Li Jing once said of Ke Yimin: "This is a very cruel woman. She often gives you a slap in the face. Being with her requires a lot of tolerance."

< p>Perhaps, in Ke Yimin's view, her venomous tongue is a manifestation of her straightforwardness and courage to be true to herself. However, she forgot that "everything must have a degree". Once it is exceeded, it will be counterproductive.

Because no one wants to be scolded all the time, and no one can tolerate your "viciousness" all the time.

The famous writer Liu Qing once said: "Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps to the critical point, especially when one is young."

Ke Yimin used to be aggressive, She suffered a lot in her life because of her poisonous tongue. It's a pity that when she regretted it, she was halfway through her life and her glory was gone.

In real life, each of us has been young and frivolous. Only those who know how to learn lessons in time and grow from their mistakes can have the last laugh.