The night I met you, was it the thirteenth or the first night?

The film "Twelve Nights" directed by Oi Wah Lam was an early film in 2. The first time I saw this film was probably because of my love for Eason. Jeannie (played by Cecilia Cheung) is a flight attendant who meets engineer Alan (played by Eason Chan) at Jeannie's birthday party. At that time, Alan was the object of her friend, but her friend and Alan said before the dinner, "We will break up after attending a friend's party". Therefore, it led to the meeting, acquaintance and even separation of the two people in the taxi. The movie is not just about the twelve nights, but the twelve nodes where the feelings of two people have changed most obviously in the process of getting along for a year, from which they feel the entanglement and sadness between a man and a woman who fall in love and leave from "misunderstanding".

in this bustling city, what a small chance it is for us to meet. We should know that according to incomplete statistics, 7.5 billion people in the world will meet an average of about 29.2 million people in their lifetime. The probability of knowing each other is five in ten million, the probability of knowing each other is three in one billion, and the probability of two lovers is .49%.

If you watch the whole movie, I think everyone will know that the man is not the first or the last woman. The first acquaintance was faced with the breakup of the man's current girlfriend and the rumor that the woman's current boyfriend was "derailed" with her friends. When I saw this, I didn't know at the beginning of the story that the man's current girlfriend was going to break up, and the current girlfriend asked the man to send the woman home, which made me feel that this was a film with three views and a little bias. Did the man's girlfriend "condone" the man's derailment? what？ Still with friends

Going on, Alan and Jeannie are sitting in a taxi. Jeannie says, "I want you to pretend to be my boyfriend." This is the beginning of their intersection. On the first night, Alan played Jeannie's boyfriend and successfully separated Jeannie from her current boyfriend. And the next night, Alan broke up with his girlfriend in the same way.

I guess this is the attraction of novelty. Alan is attracted by Jeannie's temperament, which is a different feeling of getting rid of the bondage of burnout and taking him away from the "life of the elderly". And Alan also gives Jeannie the feeling of a mature man, which makes her unable to extricate herself.

This is how most strange men and women feel when they break through the shackles, and suddenly they look back and feel heartbroken.

These two nights are the sweetest ones I've ever seen. Two people only have eyes for each other, constantly exploring the sense of the unknown. Alan seems to be ten years younger, and he will start to get rid of his love for his career and be full of his little girlfriend. He will call Jeannie at three o'clock in the morning and be in a hurry to buy her favorite breakfast and deliver it downstairs at six o'clock.

"I am willing to give you all my best, including the stars in the sky". At this time, there is only each other in your eyes and mine. No matter which couple is at this stage, they will feel that what happens to us in such a small probability is the love brought by God. You should know that there are so many strange memories in two people's lives: where did you study as a child and what kind of classmates and teachers did you have? When you were in middle school, you had a crush on several girls and talked about love several times. Your mouth is a little wide, and your face is as fat as a puffer fish. Why did I have a crush on you at that time ... When two people are lying together, they feel very warm, and their mouths are telling irrelevant love stories. At this time, we only want to see deer when the forest is deep, whales when the sea is blue, and you when we wake up.

But love, like a parabola in our mathematics, has a rising period, a flat period and a falling period. It's impossible to just increase without decreasing. Of course, I don't rule out the existence of people who are full of love and always look at you like a baby. But the movie is a normal state after all. As the two people get to know each other better, they begin to have some friction.

This is probably my most worrying two nights in this movie. I feel the same suffocating feeling. With the two extreme topics of "man's dignity" and "woman's dignity", the contradiction is fully and violently collided. In these two nights, the beauty accumulated in front has lost its luster, and the shortcomings of each other have begun to enlarge.

Jeannie arranged a trip during Alan's rare holiday, hoping to go out with him and leave some good memories, while Alan wanted to enjoy a pleasant time to sleep.

There are already different ideas, which aroused conflicts when Jeannie became too close to a former good male friend. Alan also said disgruntled, "Do you know that he has been staring at your chest?" "Have you slept together?" A series of radical remarks also made Jeannie burst: "I just slept with him. Why?" "He is just a garbage truck driver." The disrespectful and outspoken dialogue made my heart even more confused. Like two lions, I didn't think about whether I would hurt each other, only about winning or losing.

Later, Jeannie got on the fast track to the airport alone, while Alan remained motionless in the waiting chair. For a moment, I thought that two people were over, one did not bow and the other did not stay. Fortunately, Alan is a mature man. He gave Jeannie a good excuse and they made up quickly. But at this time, we all know that the two hearts that used to be close to each other have been separated under the first such tense quarrel.

On the sixth night, Alan wanted to take Jeannie to a dinner party. Jeannie was trying to dress herself up as much as possible, changing one dress after another, just to satisfy Alan. But Alan has always been dissatisfied. He always thinks that there is something wrong with her. He dislikes her clothes and figure. He thinks that she dresses like a circus, and then she dresses like a nightclub girl. He thinks that this skirt has too many bare backs, and that shorts look very thick ... But the dress that she finally decided to wear is not Jeannie's own. Alan thinks, whose clothes are, and what does it matter? I know that Jeannie, whom Alan liked before, was dressed like this, and it was because of this unique personality that she was attracted.

"Feelings are always wonderful every minute, and everyone thinks that her enthusiasm will never diminish." Seeing these two nights, I somehow remembered Karen Mok's Cloudy Days. Maybe Alan has changed, maybe Jeannie has changed, or both have changed.

Alan has begun to put all his enthusiasm into his work, and his attitude towards Jeannie is getting colder and colder. Jeannie became more and more scared when Alan fled. I don't know what made them suddenly become like this, as if you were lying in a bed yesterday. She began to be cautious, full of him, and she would think of him as long as she was distracted. In the party with friends, I will think about what he is doing and whether I miss myself. If you want to accompany him, you should also call to ask if you miss me, how much you miss me, and if I can accompany you. Listen, Alan's tired and helpless answer is busy, yes. She deeply felt perfunctory and tired. Slowly, she began to feel that she didn't spend enough time, didn't pay enough attention and didn't love him enough to make him like this. She became more attentive. When she learned that Alan was going to fly away that night, she was afraid that he would need to use the computer. She also went to help him get the computer very late, but because the computer repair place left work early that day, she could only wait for half an hour in the cold wind to let others open the door again. But when she ran to Alan's company with her daily necessities and computer, she found that he was talking and laughing with a group of colleagues to get ready for supper. She mumbled, "Don't you have a plane to catch today?" I don't know if Alan was faced with an exposed excuse or a guilty conscience and explained, "The flight was delayed." At this moment, I feel a little ridiculous. The flight has been delayed for such an important thing. Why not tell my girlfriend? Jeannie is saying that if I had known, I wouldn't be in such a hurry to get your computer. Alan didn't realize there was anything wrong, but he was full of boredom. What he replied was, I'll just let my assistant go with the computer, and do I need you to buy these daily necessities for me?

Then Jeannie became more and more flustered. She asked Alan if we could get married. But he replied in a perfunctory way: "OK, you can make an appointment with my assistant." < P > When did we need to get married and it became an appointment? When did we start to have so many unreasonable excuses?

parting always comes so suddenly.

Jeannie knows that no matter how hard you try, you can't catch Alan. Love is sometimes like sand in your hand. You hold it tightly, but there is nothing when you let go. During the first time when she was lovelorn, Jeannie always shed tears, and she did everything like a walking corpse, feeling that she had lost her heart. Watching a romantic movie, she unconsciously remembered Alan. She asked her colleagues to call Alan just to listen to his voice. And friends are also accompanying her as much as possible. Seeing her like this, I suddenly feel that two people in love are often so humble and reluctant to leave, but the other can control herself well.

A friend said to Jeannie, "He doesn't like you, so he has to find another one. Why did he become like this? There are many people who like you. You turned yourself into this for him. You look disgusting. " Yes, we can't control our feelings very often. We always feel that why do I love and pay so much? I am so kind to him, but he doesn't love me. My love and return are not proportional. But who can calm down and think clearly, why do I have to love you when you love me? Both of them are independent individuals. My love for you comes from my joy. Why did you turn it into an equivalent? I have to love you like you. Some people have said in the early years that paying for anything may not be rewarded, but not paying for it will definitely not be rewarded. So is it cruel to say from beginning to end that everything is your wishful thinking, which gives others the capital to hurt you? And you are imagining that I love you. You always feel that you can get a reward by paying a little more, but you forget that you are thinking everything, not me.

lovelorn love will make us grow up quickly. You should know that loss will make a person become rational and start thinking. She has been reluctant to take the initiative to find Alan, and she doesn't want him to know that she left him and she is not doing well. She began to devote herself to her work and worked hard to become a supervisor from among six people.

After meeting for two months, Jeannie seems to have been honed a little differently in the coffee shop. Recalling her psychological changes after breaking up, she realized that she was immature before and was often too strong. Now she knows how to pay more attention to her life, has made progress in her work, and dares to face her true feelings.

but when she recalled all this, she looked up at Alan on one side.

I found him asleep and didn't hear what she said.

The camera turns, and the eleventh night is just a short shot, and two people are touching each other by the bed.

However, the sense of depression in my heart has not been alleviated. The camera hit Jeannie in the face, and I was not as obsessed as before, but it gave me a state of half dream and half waking. Although the lens is warm, it lacks the feeling of being inseparable. It seems to be the last struggle of hammer death and the lingering of death, which will exhaust the last little enthusiasm.

the twelfth night is the last space. After watching many happy endings now, I will also guess whether this movie is the same. Two people, second time around, lived a happy life and got married. However, directors are often unexpected, which is probably the reason why Hong Kong films were so prosperous at that time. On this night, Jeannie met her ex-boyfriend who had cheated in the mouth of her former friend and asked if he was still good with his girlfriend. The ex-boyfriend told her seriously with a full face that there was no cheating object and she was still alone. Jeannie also expressed surprise.

at this point, the ex-boyfriend really didn't mean to lie to Jeannie, that is, everything was actually a misunderstanding. The meeting between Alan and Jeannie was a misunderstanding. At first, I thought it was a natural fate, but it also became a misunderstanding. Jeannie began to become confused or awake. The foundation of two people's fate has also collapsed, and she began to think about whether she really loves this person. I began to think about everything about two people again.

At this time, Alan has come out of the previous boredom period and found that he still loves Jeannie. Workaholic, he decided to take a year off to accompany Jeannie, who was transferred to Hawaii to work, to have a good holiday, and even planned to emigrate and learn to snorkel for her. But he didn't know that Jeannie was really put down at this time.

In the last scene of the movie, Alan clearly saw Jeannie, but Jeannie was avoiding him and then secretly observing him. It wasn't until Alan walked around and disappeared into the street corner that she appeared. At this time, Jeannie met a new person, that is, Kit, which appeared at the beginning. Only then did we find that the ending and the opening were actually connected. The opening scene shows Kit calling Jeannie over and over again, but she doesn't answer it, and it is fixed on a photo of two people.

at the end, it's back to the first night. Of course, we guess that this is not an end, and it may mark another end.

In the process of getting familiar with each other, two people gradually become realistic from fantasy, and we begin to find that the other person is not our ideal type, and has various shortcomings, even shielding the advantages you fell in love with at that time. They are all waiting for our rational analysis, are they accepted? Still awake?

two people also began to care about their own efforts and rewards. It seems that this is very rational, but in fact it can be said that it is another kind of paranoia. Being more and more familiar and intimate with each other may also bring more accurate harm. What we say and do can make each other angry and painful, and we have become more and more clear and skilled.

the eighth night when Jeannie broke up with Alan, not everyone had to go through it. It takes two people * * * to get along with each other to get through this period. It's not that one party is trying, and the other party is escaping.

Jeannie didn't fully maintain herself after the love period, and began to bind Alan more and more, so that Alan became reluctant to break free, strange, make excuses and cheat.

when Alan realized that the relationship between them was becoming more and more rigid, he just kept putting up with and giving in, without thinking of a reasonable solution, which led to the two people breaking up in discord.

but some people say that broken things can never change back to the original appearance. Maybe it's true? Or perhaps, after the bright future, the feelings of two people have a deeper sublimation.