I don't want to be a waste, mediocre, mixed to die, mediocre life.

I really entered the state of self-discipline in 28.

I went through the college entrance examination in 27, and after I entered Sichuan University, I quickly entered a state of letting myself fly and lying flat on the spot. I stayed up the last night, soaked the most authentic Lycium barbarum, tirelessly ate and drank, and kept in good health.

until a moment, I knew I couldn't get along like this. I don't want to be a waste, mediocre, mixed to die, mediocre life.

At that moment, my life really ushered in earth-shaking changes:

And all this can't be separated from two words: "self-discipline".

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Pain leads to change, and change leads to change.

What is self-discipline? Ask me this question in 27, and I will feel that everything is so far away.

but after 14 years, I understand.

Self-discipline is not such a lofty thing. It is not to launch a rocket to the moon or establish an immigration base on Mars. On the contrary, it is something you can do every day: study, read, write, run and improve yourself.

you can understand self-discipline as a way of life!

The so-called procrastination and laziness are all false propositions:

I believe you won't put off the take-out at noon until evening, because you are hungry.

I also believe you won't save all the games until the weekend, because you want to play

No matter what you do, what is the internal driving force is very important. For a thing to happen naturally, the power must be greater than the resistance. And the motivation of one thing will only come from two aspects: < P > And I believe 99% people will tell me that the latter gives people more motivation and a deeper memory.

It's like forgetting your words when you give a speech in front of a venue of 2 people. I believe this feeling will be unforgettable for your life.

The core reason why many people are unwilling to change, such as eating, drinking and entertaining to death, staying up the last night, wearing the most expensive mask, drinking the strongest wine and dancing the wildest disco is that such behavior has no visible impact on their immediate life.

but in fact? There is no such thing as a free lunch. Behind all the instant pleasures, fate has marked the price for you.

As the saying goes, pain leads to changes, and changes lead to changes.

As Wang Jianlin said, there are always 1 ways to accomplish something. And you don't want to do something, you have 1 thousand reasons.

When you sincerely wish to do something, things are on the way. On the contrary, it is difficult for you to get out of bed!

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Pareto law

Like Newton's law and quantum mechanics, Pareto law is the basic physical law in the world of time management, and it has a more familiar name: 28 law. It means spending 8% of your time experiencing and doing 2% of the important things, that is, eating your three frogs.

Many people are in a busy state. In their eyes, "busy" = "hard work+diligence+persistence+self-discipline".

This idea is wrong, dangerous and even stupid. This is why many people seem to have worked hard all their lives, but they have achieved nothing.

because he is not "busy at the point"!

use an image metaphor: such a person has entered a quagmire of fuss and kept spinning in the same place, but he can't produce results, but he is very moved.

But he will enjoy this process, because he always reminds himself: I am working very hard now, I am very motivated, and I am not decadent. The whole person has entered a utopian narcissism!

but unfortunately, I really won't play with you.

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If you have something, you have to give it up

Thinking is the dimension of thinking. If you think in a higher dimension, it will take a long time.

Everyone has different values and understanding of life.

Being is reasonable. There are thousands of people with different values. There is no such thing as right and wrong.

but once you make a choice, it means you will lose something.

It's like if you can't stand the pain of self-discipline, you will suffer from mediocrity. You have to choose the same thing.

There is no problem lying flat, because it does not hinder the freedom of anyone else. This is a choice. If you can reconcile with yourself and find inner happiness, it will always be in your comfort zone, which is a living method.

But there is always something to give up, self-discipline and mediocrity. You have to choose one, right?

The article comes from WeChat official account Yukuan Time Management.