After the loss of a loved one, Facebook Chief Operating Officer "Xue Rou? Sandberg is engaged again!

A good woman will never be short of good men. This sentence was made by Shirley, chief operating officer of Facebook? Sheryl Sandberg proved it again. I was convinced when I saw the news that she was engaged again this morning.

the new fiance's name is Tom? Sheryl Sandberg, 3 years younger than Bisander Berg, once won an Emmy Award as a producer of NBC News, and also worked in Clinton * * *, and then set up a marketing consulting company, kelton Kelton Global, as the CEO.

5-year-old Sandberg released the good news in official website: engagement! Tom? Bernsol, you are everything to me. I can't love you more.

It is reported that they are together, which was introduced by Sandberg's ex-husband's brother. Bernsol and his ex-wife have three children, and Sandberg and his ex-husband have two children. Now they will form a big family with five children.

Sandberg official website announced the good news, and Facebook CEO Mark? Zuckerberg took the lead in congratulating you: You are a perfect couple, and I am happy for both of you.

Fiancee Bernsol responded: It's so exciting to think that I can spend the rest of my life with you!

To tell the truth, Sandberg is a real and proper strong woman. She was quite proud in the workplace in the first half of her life, but her marriage was quite bumpy. Although I have been injured many times, I have never lost my ability to love. Seeing her is what really makes people believe in love.

Shirley? Sandberg Sheryl Sandberg, born in a rich Jewish family on August 28th, 1969, attached great importance to family and education.

Grandma Sang's generation was already a figure. At that time, when the Great Depression hit the United States, the family was extremely poor. Other girls made a living by marrying. Her grandmother insisted on finishing high school and graduated from the University of California, Berkeley. She saved the whole family from fire and water with one person's high salary, which became Sandberg's life model.

My father is an ophthalmologist, and my mother is a university teacher. Three siblings have been born in succession, and Sandberg is the big sister. Parents' hope for Sister Sang is: What boys can do, girls can do, and you have the freedom to choose a career.

Under such a family education concept, Sister Sang was full of firepower since she was a child. Her grade point of graduation from high school was 4.646, and she stepped into Harvard University to study economics.

When I entered a place like Harvard, my parents began to talk about life events: marriage should come before career, and it is necessary to strike first before all the good men are robbed. Sister sang looked puzzled and said that she would grow up like a boy.

I have no love experience, so I'll start practicing at the age of 19. While reading wildly, she kept her eyes open to find a good man. She never dared to waste time. She regarded every object as a potential husband candidate, and came to a test first on a date, and the result could be imagined.

After graduating from Harvard with the first place, Sister Sang went to Washington to find her husband while working. There were all prominent people there.

The first marriage came a little early. She was only 24 years old. At that time, she just thought it was time to get married, so she married someone in a muddle. The man's name is Brian Calaf is a businessman. After only one year of marriage, Sister Sang realized it was a mistake, and the two divorced soon.

For this failed marriage, Sister Sang said in her autobiography: "I am not mature enough to make a decision about my life, and this marriage will soon break up!

at the age of 25, I not only completed the big event of getting married, but also experienced a divorce. At that time, it seemed to be a huge failure for myself and others. For many years after that, I felt that the label "divorced" was stuck on my chest. By contrast, any achievements in my career were eclipsed.

This sounds so frustrating. Since you are frustrated in love, it is better to calm down and fight for your career. Her Harvard mentor, Summers, served as Clinton's finance minister and took her to the White House as the chief of staff. They visited China together.

after Clinton left office, she switched to business. From McKinsey to Gooe, the whole thing is rolling around among men. Surrounded by excellent men, Sister Sang quickly rekindled the fighting spirit of love.

meet Dave? When she was in Goldberger, she was the most conspicuous senior executive of Gooe. The man was two years older than her. She was a famous young artist who moved to business with both IQ and EQ.

Like her, Goldberger graduated from Harvard University and worked as a musician in Los Angeles. U2 lead singer Bono and film actor Ben? Affleck is all his friends. The music company he founded was sold to Yahoo and took up a management position.

this young man is very supportive of her career. When they fell in love, the man was in Southern California and flew to ask her out on weekends. After the marriage, the man gave up Yahoo's position and went north to Silicon Valley with her to start a new business.

A 35-year-old woman got married for the second time, married a down-to-earth young man, and gave birth to a son and a daughter. This woman who claimed to be "divorced" suddenly became a big winner in life.

this time, not only was she proud of her love, but she also had a bad career. In order to dig her up, Zuckerberg had dinner together for six weeks in a row. She jumped to Facebook, became the second place in the company, and became the youngest billionaire woman in the world.

Sister Sang became a female role model, and her autobiography "Lean In" became an American bestseller. Her TED talk was watched by more than 4 million people.

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We went to have a look and found that her three suggestions for women are very reasonable:

First, women should strive for positions that they are competent for and salaries that they deserve.

second: find a partner who is willing to get along with you on an equal footing and share the responsibilities of family and raising children.

third: don't leave early before you get your dream job.

Many people have asked Sister Sang: You are so famous. What does your husband think?

Her husband answered the question himself: I have never been bothered because I know exactly who I am. My career is very good, and I am lucky to have time to spend at home and be a good father and husband.

The sensitive question of who does housework, who earns more and who takes care of children is not a problem in her family.

Sister Sang said, we must let the man take care of the child: Dave (her husband's name) will deal with the child's crying by himself, and I agree to let him coax it, even if it takes longer. This process is very hard in the short term, but when you find that dad can take care of the children as well as mom, all the hard work is worth it.

The accident shook the whole Silicon Valley, and her life collapsed.

Everything was perfect, but no one expected that after 11 years of marriage, she encountered the biggest ups and downs in her life. Sister Sang and her husband went to Mexico for a holiday in 215 and stayed at the Four Seasons Hotel. Her husband went to the gym alone, fell off the treadmill to the back of his head, and fell out of a 3 cm wound. He died suddenly.

Sister Sang later described the situation at that time: "I was taking a nap, Dave went to exercise, and everything that happened after that was terrible. I saw Dave lying on the floor of the gym. His face turned slightly blue, and then he turned left. There was a small pool of blood under his head. I screamed and began to give him CPR, and then the doctor came.

She had to tell her two children alone that their father had died suddenly. At Dave's funeral, two children cried themselves to death. Sister Sang sat on the grass and held the crying child.

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After her husband died for 3 days, she wrote a long memorial article on Facebook, "Sorrow has no end, love has no end! There are hundreds of thousands of people behind, and even Zuckerberg responded: And we love you.

Sister Sang has a famous saying: It is the hard times we have experienced that ultimately shape us, not the vanity. Every setback we experience will plant tough seeds in the depths of our souls. Every suffering in our memory will become a force to support us in the future.

She was swallowed up by grief, but she finally stood up.

One year after her husband died, she gave a speech at the graduation ceremony of Berkeley University, saying that Dave's departure "changed her deeply": I used to worry about the things I screwed up that day before going to bed, and now I will try to review the happy moments every day.

Two years after her husband's death, her new book, Option B, came out, which said:

"When life knocks you to the bottom, you can fight back, break through obstacles and breathe again. When faced with endless emptiness or any challenge, you can choose to live a happy and meaningful life.

The lover left, but she didn't lose the ability to love

After Dave died, she and Bobby, 56, CEO of Blizzard? Cotic dated for three years.

Later, Dave's brother Robert introduced Sister Sang to this Tom? Bernsol Bernsol and Dave also knew each other before. When Dave died, Bernsol once commented on him on his social network: He was really one of the kindest, most generous, most talented and most pleasant people.

Dave's brother Robert thinks that Bernsol and Sister Sang share the same values. They look at the world in the same way, and they are devoted to their children. They are conscientious parents, so they set them up. As a result, they fell in love at first sight.

Robert said: They have all experienced loss, which does not mean that they are not entitled to happiness and happiness again. They are all out of the hard life, still happy and motivated to make their lives and their children better.

Last summer, they had their first public affair and enjoyed each other's company at a country concert in Idaho.

They live in different cities, but they often meet and travel together to run this relationship.

They have the same view on charity, and once visited refugee camps in Greece together.

On February 1st, this year, they got engaged after hiking in Vermejiao Park Ranch at the junction of New Mexico and Colorado, which reproduced their first date. There are five diamonds on Bernsol's proposal ring, representing their five children. Everything is complete again!

The road of life is long, and no one knows what kind of bumps will be encountered.

Sister Sang once said in a speech at Berkeley University: We are not born with the ability to recover from suffering, but this ability can be exercised just like muscles. In this process, we will understand who we are and know that we can be the best ourselves.