Why does the blind date corner use an umbrella?

Are you married? Talking about friends The year is approaching, and it is the peak of marriage. Blind date has become an unavoidable topic for many single men and women. Some older men and women who are afraid of going home during the Spring Festival and being questioned by relatives and friends are quietly making a "final sprint".

In order to "undress" as soon as possible and give an account of life, tens of millions of Gold Saints people in Qian Qian can really fight! Want to know what their mental journey is on the long blind date? What wonderful experiences have you experienced?

Hundreds of blind dates, a laundry list of beautiful things.

Fang Qi, born in April 1986, can be called "Bai Gujing" in the company: tall, good temperament, beautiful appearance and good income. She said that her family education was very strict since she was a child, and she rarely dealt with boys before going to college.

The truth of these umbrellas is beyond your imagination.

After graduating from college, she worked in Shanghai for four years. "Because I always want to go back to Wuhan, I dare not fall in love there." 20 1 1 When she returned to Wuhan in March, at the age of 25, her love life was still blank. At the urging of her family, she began to attend some blind date parties to "find feelings".

The truth of these umbrellas is beyond your imagination.

There are many channels for Fang Qi's blind date: marriage website registration, parents' introduction, attending various blind date parties, and taking the initiative. However, it may be that fate has not arrived, and most blind date objects have only seen each other once and have lost the following. In the past three years, she has been blind date 100 times, mainly in Wuhan-Guangzhou, Jianghan Road Pedestrian Street, Xu Dong and other places.

The craziest thing Fang Qi claimed to have done was that at the end of July last year, she posted a post "Female Cheng is getting married" on an online forum in Wuhan. The words are frank and humorous, and the photos are fresh and atmospheric, attracting more than 100 applicants.

In hundreds of blind dates, Fangqi met all kinds of wonderful things! Some have broken the relationship with their ex-girlfriends, some have no wives and children at all, and some are blind dates with impure motives. ......

Nevertheless, Fang Qi didn't flinch at all! She admitted that she didn't like the word "leftover women". "Happiness is related to mentality and has nothing to do with age. I don't complain and I don't give up. I believe that there will be spring in blind date. "

To tell the truth, in the army of "left-behind soldiers", only a part of them are brave and proactive like Fang Qi, while others are much more passive, which really worries their parents at home!

A 30-year-old female doctor waiting to be married is anxious for her 60-year-old mother.

The truth of these umbrellas is beyond your imagination.

Every weekend, many old people gather in the small park on the north side of Zhengzhou Science and Technology Museum. This past weekend, there were obviously many people in this blind date corner.

Aunt Chang, who is over 60 years old, is a frequent visitor here. "My daughter is over 30 and not married. What do you think? "

Aunt Chang's daughter is a doctor and has experience in studying abroad. Now she is a university teacher. After several years, Aunt Chang arranged dozens of blind dates for her daughter, and none of them succeeded.

"At the end of the year, everyone is planning a blind date for their children. I will come back to see if it is suitable. " Aunt Chang said helplessly.

Like Aunt Chang, Aunt Hu is also a frequent visitor here. Her son is 34 years old, but he has never been married. "I am anxious to watch the children of relatives and neighbors get married and have grandchildren!"

So, are parents worried about their children, and do children buy it?

According to the survey, many parents came without telling their children. An old man surnamed Wu admitted that he had come to find someone for his daughter. "I kept it from her, and she would never let me come if she knew."

In fact, parents are also very contradictory. On the one hand, they are afraid that their children will delay their youth and miss a good marriage, on the other hand, they are worried that the marriage will be too urgent and increase the pressure on their children.

Seeing that her daughter is 30 years old and not married, Aunt Lin, who lives in Zhengdong New District, is in a hurry. Every time I talk to my daughter about emotional problems, her daughter is always very resistant. To this end, the mother and daughter quarreled several times. Sometimes, Aunt Lin is so angry that she cries silently. There are not a few parents like Aunt Lin. They did a lot of matchmaking for their children's marriage and went all over the matchmaking agency, but the children didn't buy their efforts.

Poverty inherits the wind! In addition to the blind date angle, Shanghai parents have also begun to pair children who are far away from home!

The truth of these umbrellas is beyond your imagination.

This is a standard sunny day in Shanghai. Colorful umbrellas are propped up on the ground and placed next to each other along the green belt of People's Park. The owner of the umbrella sits on the green isolation post in the back row. This is the most famous "People's Park Dating Corner" in Shanghai. The umbrella is endowed with other functions here.

Each umbrella is affixed with a plastic "blind date sticker", which clearly States age, height, weight, education background, study abroad experience, work situation, parents' work situation, parents' physical condition, family property and so on. At the bottom of each "dating sticker", the "criteria for choosing a spouse" will also be disclosed. If you have a house, a car, a Shanghai household registration, an overseas study experience, and a plan to immigrate to a country, you will use "clear code" to mark it.

It is said that during the prosperous period, nearly one-third of the people's park will be occupied by parents who "see the scenery" and "lead the market", not children. Flexible, put the umbrella on the ground for a while, put on your hat, put your hands in your down jacket pockets and take the initiative.

The slightly embarrassing problem is that the supply of high-quality male resources has been in short supply, and the blind date corner will almost become a "hell for female parents." A worrying trend is slowly emerging. There are many "white rich beauties" in the matchmaking corner, but not so many "Gao Fushuai".

In the People's Park, there is also a unique scenery-"Overseas Corner" and "Overseas Garden". Parents are in Shanghai, matching overseas children. Specially dating in the United States and China, inserting the national flags of China and the United States; Specializing in blind date between Australian Chinese and planting Chinese and Australian flags. Parents also spontaneously made large cardboard, which read "No intermediary, no charge, parents are there".

Parents all think that one of the advantages of parents' blind date is that they can save face and know the root cause. How old is the child, what major, where to work, how much money to earn, what requirements are there for each other, and you can also exchange information about your family.

Some parents said that the parents of boys who set up stalls here can usually withdraw their stalls after one or two months, but many parents of girls sometimes may not be able to withdraw their stalls even if they spend half a year here. "The end result is to know a bunch of other girls' parents, and everyone complains about each other. "

Hey ... as the saying goes, a few happy families are sad! For the sake of children's lifelong events, this really worries parents! The following boy is 28 years old and claims that the number of blind dates is below double digits. This is what he called a blind date.

Blind date feels like being in the vegetable market, picking others and being picked by others. Going to the blind date step is already a failure on the emotional road, I think so.

Most people I know on blind date are "talking about business". After measuring each other's conditions, it depends on how they are. Good conditions, top of the biological chain, free to choose. Poor conditions, all kinds of abuse are ignored.

I was forced to attend an "eight-minute date", which was a vegetable market. There is a girl around me who takes the initiative to find a boy, just because the boy takes the initiative to the girl a little. As soon as the two exchanged ideas, they soon chatted privately, which was very pragmatic. Some beautiful girls were accosted by various boys and left their phone numbers. Like me, my height and house income are not as good as mine, so I just watch the fun, and people won't waste time with you without saying a word.

There is a woman who is interested in the handsome guy who is one meter eight next to me. When I faced her, she turned to play with her mobile phone without saying a word. When the handsome guy comes, we will talk enthusiastically at once. This is the reality!

If you are ugly or have outstanding conditions, you can basically get the deepest dignity education in the blind date market if you want to recite, be accosted by others, be chased by "Gao Fushuai" or be robbed by "Bai".

I have treated others like this, so it doesn't matter if I hurt or be hurt by others. That's what blind dates are like. You are a miracle in the eyes of others, and others are a miracle in your eyes.

After many twists and turns, I am determined not to take this road. The probability is too low and unreliable, which will make me doubt marriage. I don't need marriage to live. I can take care of myself alone. Finding a partner to get married, at least not so pragmatic, should have some unrealistic factors.

An aunt introduced a girl and asked us to go out and find a place to sit down and talk. The girl's first sentence when she went out: "I'm going home. Where are you going?"

The girl I introduced for the second time is a chubby girl who cares about my income and career prospects. She told me that it is natural for a man to support his family, and he must earn much more than her. I asked her if there were few boys around her when she went to college. She said yes, there are almost no boys in preschool education. The university has always been among girls, and the understanding of men basically comes from parents and little sisters around them.

Then my aunt stopped contacting me. I think I broke the old lady's heart.

The truth of these umbrellas is beyond your imagination.

This is a sad story, and the depression between the lines is really sad. If it's comfort, I won't say it. Anyway, I think I've heard too much. Give some practical dry goods to the "remaining fighters" who have uncompromising dreams!