Urgent! ! ! How to persuade my parents to let me study abroad?

To be honest, I think you should study hard at home first, including learning foreign languages and learning independence. Although I admire your idea at such a young age, what do you think you have done to prepare for going abroad?

You can tell your parents that I will learn all the courses well now, for example, if you want to go abroad in the future, you should make a reference list of any country and university, because even if you want to go out to study, you don't want to miss any classes, especially English. You must learn well, study abroad and learn a foreign language, basically English. If you want to go to a non-English-speaking country, you can take a class to study by yourself in your spare time. Don't tell me what language school you can go to abroad. Well, you have gone abroad. In other countries, you still have to eat, buy things and make friends. If you don't know a foreign language, you will be miserable and lonely.

At the same time, explain to your parents that you will study hard to be independent and take care of yourself, including working in winter and summer vacations to earn money. Going abroad is free, but without the protection of your parents, you will be more independent and more dependent on yourself. You have never left your parents, your English is not good, and you suddenly left the greenhouse at home. Do you really think you can be independent? I saw a documentary about a China girl who went to Australia to study. She is a senior student. She cried with her parents on the phone and no one cooked for her at night. She is alone at home, afraid of the storm outside. You have no idea how good her parents are, how delicious Chinese food is, how warm her home is, and how unforgettable her friends are here.

I'm telling you this because I was very eager to go abroad when I graduated from college, but I gave up because my parents, especially my father, didn't support it. I am also a person who depends on my parents. My father told me that if I want to know why I want to go abroad and whether I have the ability to live independently, I actually want to learn something good at home. I have lived in Singapore before, and you won't know until you go abroad. Chinese food is delicious and home is really good. It was all abroad. Deciding to go abroad means that you decide to grow into an independent entity, and everything depends on yourself. Sometimes even if your parents can help you, it's beyond your power.

Now that I am immigrating to the United States, my mood is still very complicated. Really realized the dream of going abroad, only to find out how good home is.

Men are everywhere, and they can fly if they have dreams. But you're only a junior, and you're not ready for anything. You just want to travel abroad in the name of studying, and you just want to get rid of the constraints of your parents. If you go abroad like this, let your parents give you money.

Making money is not so easy. Go earn some money yourself and come back.

What I said may not sound good. Going abroad is to enrich yourself, learn more things and plan your future better. If you want to rely on your parents' support abroad, there is no difference between going abroad and not going abroad. Many of my college classmates can speak foreign languages when they come back from traveling abroad, and people have gained a lot of weight. Others still depend on their families.

There are many people who can't study well abroad, can't get diplomas, and still have no place to find jobs when they come back. The era of going abroad for gold plating is long gone. I used to be a returnee, but have you heard of kelp now? It is the kind of person who has no job and is idle at home after returning to China.

Going abroad is to enrich our lives and further extend our dreams, but by the way, are you really ready?

Advice that is most needed is least valued. I hope you can listen to me. Hehe, I can be your aunt.