The days with Yang Yang

Yang Yang, nicknamed, is my nephew. He is ten years old and in grade five. The children are handsome, but a little thin. The chin is a little sharp, the face is clean, small white teeth, beautiful lips, a pair of small eyes and a pair of big and beautiful ears.

With the change of age, the cleverness, playfulness and liveliness of the little guy become more and more obvious. He's just a little shy. If he were older, he would be a little manly.

This article is my experience in getting along with children, which is purely personal.

Two days ago, because my sister was on a business trip, no one at home took care of my little nephew. So I found a half-tone aunt to help me cope for two days.

Because of physical discomfort, I seldom go out, basically at home and in the hospital. My sister is very busy at work, so I try not to cause her any trouble. Do your best.

When I was a child, I spent a lot of time with my little nephew. Now I go to school and spend little time together. On holidays, I come and go in a hurry and don't have much time to get along.

But I have a general understanding of the habits from childhood, and I am so kind and loving, haha, so it is not difficult to get along.

It's just that my stomach and chest are uncomfortable these days, and I was hot all night last night. I hope it will be relieved after observation.

My sister left early in the morning, and I was instantly upgraded to a parent. So I can't lie in bed, can't sleep and set the alarm clock. Get up, wash and make breakfast.

Then talk to him in a democratic way.

The safety awareness of going out, as well as the time after school, and what you want to eat today, you can directly express your requirements and opinions. As long as you can do it, try to be satisfied.

The premise is that you must listen well and do your job well.

He gave me a sly look and assured me clearly. Breakfast is very simple, plain noodles with a little chopped green onion, I don't like eating out. My sister is very busy. She spends a lot of time outside in the morning, and she is tired of eating. So it's refreshing to have a home-cooked meal once in a while. In order not to be late, eat quickly and go out happily.

The travel tool is my sister's small electric car. After I sent him to school, My sister gave money to buy food and went directly to the vegetable market.

The child said that he wanted to eat fresh jiaozi, so he took fresh lean meat and carrots and looked for dumpling skins. A little rusty, Bao jiaozi always digresses, and the proprietress has demonstrated it many times, so I can't understand it.

The weather is dry in winter, and greasy fried food and pickled food are not suitable for patients and children. I bought a small piece of wax gourd, half a catty of lean meat, some fresh fish and vegetables. Looking at the color immediately increases people's appetite.

The air in the morning is really fresh, as if it can purify people's mood. Riding my little BMW, slowly moving forward under the bright sky. Long hair fluttering, scattered hair gently rubbed on the face, flying freely in the wind.

I felt all kinds of physical discomfort, which disappeared this morning.

When I got home, I rolled up my sleeves and prepared for a big fight. Put your heart and soul into one thing and you will be happy.

Jiaozi tried to go out of shape for the first time. Then, while studying, I recalled the picture of the proprietress pinching jiaozi. Cleaning up the mess, I didn't expect it, but it really won't go away.

Although it looks a little rough, my sister said it was four unlike. But you can eat, there are dozens, and breakfast will be cooked tomorrow. I really admire myself.

Next, Yang Yang wants to eat meatballs. Mother often uses salt and bean powder, and then cuts minced meat. Make small meatballs. When the meatballs are almost cooked, wash the wax gourd without peeling it, so that the wax gourd can keep its original appearance.

Sprinkle some chopped green onion when cooking, which is light and nutritious. Isn't it a bit gaudy?

The body cares for itself. Because I have been ill for too long, this kind of experience can only be experienced by myself, and I will cherish it even more. Time flies, after the meal, I will go to school to pick up my little nephew.

I have made an appointment with a place, but there are too many children, for fear that he will forget and miss it. I looked for his shadow in the vast sea of people. It's really hard, my eyes are dizzy. Make a detour for yourself and trust him.

Sure enough, more than ten minutes later, he ran over and asked me how long I had been waiting. I told him about finding a boss, and the little guy actually said, trust him, he can find me, and there will be no problem according to the agreed address.

Yes, I totally made much ado about nothing and underestimated him.

Many times, we should first choose to trust him and cultivate children's independent ability, because children are growing up slowly and my sister teaches them well.

As soon as he entered the door, the little guy smelled the food. Seeing the stewed winter melon soup on the dining table, I sipped my mouth and smiled. There were meatballs.

I want to stir-fry another dish, but he actually said that my mother often put the leftovers in the microwave oven last night to reheat them, so that they can be eaten.

What a sensible little guy, okay. Friendly reminder, my sister will cook more fresh food for him in the future.

Before meals, my blood sugar was high. I have to have an injection before I can eat it. I have to hold it. There are very few platelets, which can only be kept under pressure. Let him help me with a bowl of rice and then start.

I dug a small meatball with a spoon. My eyes are wide open and my eyebrows are moving. That expression is a little funny, so smooth and tender. Auntie is really delicious. The pink mouth seems to be coated with honey. Shouldn't the greatest sense of accomplishment in cooking be that people who eat are happy?

We smiled at each other, and menstruation tried to make it better in the next meal. To tell the truth, this sugar-coated cannonball is quite useful to me, although the soup is a little salty.

After dinner, we started talking again.

Yang Yang: aunt, I think eating is a very enjoyable thing, while washing dishes is a very painful thing?

Thief, this guy is a sign that I don't want to wash dishes.

Me: Well, I'll do the dishes at noon today, but you must understand one thing. Eating is fun, washing dishes is painful. Then should we share the pain with each other, so that we can exercise ourselves and experience the painful process, and you can remember your mother's difficulties next time.

Parents should have enough patience, set an example, let him know about love and responsibility, and let his children learn to take responsibility.

He was a little embarrassed, smiled and nodded without saying anything, and then said sincerely, I'll do the dishes at night.

Give him a small task of taking out the garbage every day, and he went obediently and willingly. Because every time I ask him to take out the garbage, he pouts.

Free time is like watching cartoons. I think watching TV is not all bad, such as cartoons, which can improve his imagination and creativity.

Just remind him not to delay school time. After all, time is short, there is no need to tie him too much.

Adults and children should learn to communicate and keep their hearts close so that when they have their own space, they will feel reasonable and respect others.

In the afternoon, I will do my own thing. I'm trying to learn to draw a little stick figure recently, and I'm obsessed with it. It is not easy to do it by yourself from a seemingly simple mode. For me, it is a challenge, but I am willing to do it, which is the best.

The curtain is a simple picture, lines and positions. It is extremely difficult to make it smooth. It will take me dozens of minutes, even hours. I just painted and modified it over and over again until I knew I could look pleasing to the eye.

When a painting that is not very beautiful is vividly presented in front of me, I feel so happy in my heart, and I enjoy the process very much.

Love is the best teacher, I can persist, but my eyes are a little uncomfortable and I have to stop.

I found that the mobile phone is a good thing, and suddenly I miss that old machine. It has no function except making phone calls.

And smart phones, people who are full of tricks and too curious, want to learn everything and try everything, so I make myself very tired.

So, I remind myself again and again that I can do what I can.

You should remember to work hard, but don't worry. The body comes first and must be allowed by the body. Otherwise, the loss will outweigh the gain.

When I went to the hospital to prescribe medicine, Dr. Tong joked that I couldn't resist the temptation, and there were many talents, so I had to catch up. Also insinuate to remind me that my mentality is not as good as before, haha, only I know it clearly, so I won't explain it.

So, adopt everyone's opinions, let nature take its course, let nature take its course, step by step. Bow your head at the starting point and ask for less. There is no need to be so hard on yourself.

In the evening, I started frying dinner again. This time, I changed a little. I made a small bowl of soup with fish fried with radish grown by my mother at home, and then fried a green vegetable. Both meat and vegetables, a good match.

I heard his voice calling me in the corridor. Let him walk home early after school, which is also a physical exercise.

The meal was ready, and he came in without stint. What a sumptuous dinner. Cunning Xiong Haizi, there are so many tricks. This is the rhythm that wants to take me to heaven.

Feed it to me. I have to get an injection. He ate with relish and nodded while eating, which made him very happy.

I am also very happy, quietly telling everyone that the food is not very good, but finally someone said that my food is delicious.

We started talking again, and this time what he said surprised me a little.

Yang Yang: Aunt, you love life so much, but it's a pity that you are in poor health. This is destiny. Every blood transfusion, every serious illness, can survive.

Me: Auntie, I'm dying. My health is getting worse and worse, and I am drifting away. You are too young to understand.

Yang Yang: No, I believe you. You will not die of illness in the future, but of old age.

I almost laughed and my mouth was still eating. The child is so naive. Do you understand what he means? Anyway, I understand. I remember when I was four or five years old, he said that when he grew up, he would be a doctor with his sister and treat me.

What simple and direct love! He was five years old then.

I'm only ten years old this year. Children are so clear, bright and kind. I can feel his feelings for me, and I am very touched.

Next, I take the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks. Just washing dishes. There is water on the chopping board and the pool is full of food. It's a mess everywhere

It doesn't matter. I am very satisfied with his performance.

It's still early after dinner. He volunteered to tell me to do my homework at 7 o'clock on time, and now I have to watch cartoons for a while.

Clever to open the remote control, I shook my head, forget it.

I started to write a notebook again, that is, to summarize your daily life in a planned way, which is also new recently and will be shared with you later.

Then I showed him the stick figure, and this guy actually smiled. Kneel down to the ground with a smile, lie prone on the floor, and then solemnly say, aunt is great, if this mouth is not crooked, it will be more beautiful.

Okay, I'll take it. It does need improvement, but it takes time. People with zero foundation can imagine, but I will continue to draw.

At nine o'clock, we went to bed on time and set the alarm clock. Before going to bed, he gave me another piece of advice.

Yang Yang: Aunt, can you buy me some fruit tomorrow?

Me: Sure, just tell me what you want to eat and buy it tomorrow.

Yang Yang: Oranges. Me: No problem, go to sleep.

Yang Yang: Thank you, Aunt. That's very kind of you.

He has a good attitude and his eyes are full of admiration. I'm really surprised at his behavior. It seems that he has really grown up.

Innocent heart is like a butterfly flapping its wings, and I was immediately moved by his sweet words.

The next day and the third day, we were all peaceful, friendly and got along well.

Don't forget to say that oranges are so sweet when you buy them. What a smart card.

Then I do my thing, he does his homework and shares the results with each other.

On the third night, my sister didn't come back until 8 o'clock. Leave the food to her and just heat it up. We can go home tomorrow, and this arduous task will be completed, because children are the most important thing in every family, and we can't be a little careless.

After taking a bath, as usual, Yang Yang is doing his homework. Picking up his composition book at hand really opened my eyes.

Look at his composition, which is imaginative, narrative and daily, and each one is more wonderful than the other.

I laughed when I saw it. It's really great and worth studying. Not monotonous at all, quick thinking and extremely rich imagination.

I am ashamed of my language expression ability, memory ability and some cognition. I can't compare with him in many places.

His progress can be described as rapid, and it is no exaggeration. Ask him to be my teacher in the future.

After being praised, his triumphant expression made him very happy. I think he deserves the best praise at this time, and there is no need to be stingy at all.

My sister heard the laughter and wondered why I kept giggling. She was very happy when she learned about it. I said I was too busy recently, and I didn't pay attention to Yang Yang these two days. I'll pay more attention next time.

However, there are still many shortcomings, and we still need to work hard and should not be proud.

Yes, I'm happy for his progress. As parents, it is also important to understand and accept children's emotions.

Whether it is my sister or others, it really takes a lot of energy to cultivate a child.

I didn't set the alarm clock this morning. My sister went to work early, but it was already half past eight. I have to go home after getting up.

It's just that there is no movement at all, and there is no response after 9 o'clock. I'm making breakfast.

This time I raised the decibel, and he sat up lazily, unwilling to get up. God, why is there such a big difference between going to school and not going to school? But I finally got up, and I didn't speak.

But it's really good to watch him eat jiaozi.

He stayed another night before he left. I said next time. I just hope this bad habit can be changed next time I come. Aunt, I wish you all-round development and study hard.

Come on, watch you, the future belongs to you.