Will people studying in America miss America?

Many things are always unexpected, just like before I came to study in the United States. I don't miss America. Actually, I plan to stay in China for 1 year at most. The idea is simple. Look at the scenery in America and then learn English. As for why I wanted to stay later, the reasons are very complicated. In the words of an old immigrant, going to the United States is tantamount to getting on a thief boat, and I dare not even think about it. In fact, there are more and more returnees now, but even the latest statistics show that only 65,438+00% of them came back from studying and working in the United States. There are many factors in this, and everyone will weigh the results of future consideration. It is incorrect to regard a person's patriotism as an immigrant.

Many people who go abroad have plans to return to China for development, but the reality is not like that. When you get some, you are bound to lose some. Some people may ask, since the status in the United States is so hard, why not just give up? How good is it to return to China for development? In fact, foreign students in the United States have thought about this issue many times, but they are often tempted. The main reasons for being tempted are uncertainty, uncertainty about China and uncertainty about one's position in China. Imagine that a graduate student who graduated from an American university, in a city with relatively moderate income and consumption (such as Nanjing), can get an annual salary of $40,000-$55,000 after graduation in the United States, including general benefits (such as medical insurance and pension), and have paid annual leave of about 20 days. For a graduate student who just graduated from Beijing University, such treatment is hard to imagine. And as an ordinary person, in fact, there is always an attachment to a city or living environment that has lived for several years, and it is difficult to give up.

In fact, from this perspective, life in the United States seems to be very good, because compared with China, the income is high, the prices are low, and all kinds of guarantees are good. If it's just matter, yes, yes. For ordinary people, yes, America is more suitable for ordinary life, if you don't have a rich father or an official relative, yes. However, in fact, these people who stay overseas are not very happy. People's happiness often depends on two aspects, 1 is material and 2 is spirit. In the United States, we can get some material satisfaction, including I can buy a BMW Mini Cooper (a new car with a price of 265,438 438+ 10/00000 dollars) after graduation, I can buy brand-name cosmetics for anyone I want, and I can buy many electrical appliances as toys. However, all these are not satisfactory. Man is always a strange animal and will never be satisfied. You may be able to live a relatively affluent life than ordinary people of the same age in China, but you have lost the opportunity of family communication and a large number of friends who played together since childhood. At this time, you will know that money is very weak, and it can't even buy you a pleasant afternoon to have tea with a group of good friends in the teahouse.

What's life like in America? In fact, for men, American life is empty, but for women, they will like American life. I didn't say this sentence, but a friend of mine who just came over. He came to study, and his wife accompanied him. I say this because there are not so many recreational activities in America, especially at night. Compared with Nanjing, Shanghai, Beijing and Chongqing, the nights here are very depressing. Yes, there are bars, but you don't like going. There are no snack streets, no crowded people, only beautifully planned shopping malls, but there is always a lack of domestic atmosphere. The reason why women like America is that men don't go out at night and stay at home with their wives. My friend used to be a salesman in a big domestic company. He was busy outside every day at that time. When he arrived in America, he suddenly found that there was nothing to do, so he had to start enjoying American peace.