Be careful that "adoption" attracts not half a son, but "eating inside and picking outside"

In fact, some people think that the dispute of "bride price" can be saved by exempting the bride price and garage and then letting the man adopt his wife.

In reality, many men will begin to go back on their words after their wives are pregnant (at the age when they can't have an abortion), demanding that their sons have the right to name and add names to their houses, otherwise they will not support their families, divorce and torture their pregnant wives in various ways; Force the woman to compromise.

There are also men who rush into the family with an orphan's mentality and insist on marrying a mentally retarded girlfriend. The proposal is unsuccessful. Yu Mou, a 52-year-old Henan native who sent WeChat to intimidate his girlfriend's mother, said, "How do rural men manage their marriages after being admitted to civil servants?"

Therefore, if the woman's family does not have the financial resources and power to get a "SI" man at any time, it is best not to try to adopt a son-in-law easily.

Even if there is no problem in the early stage, once the father, brother or elder of the woman's family dies, the woman really becomes a "homeless person."

What is the most reliable umbrella for women? Relatives and wealth seem to have both, but it seems not enough.

In fact, a woman's best protection is herself after all.

Only the eyesight to see the world and the ability to survive are unshakable foundations. ?