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Let's talk about mentality first. Although many people will advise you not to be depressed, I think it is normal for you to be depressed because you failed in the postgraduate entrance examination. It is extremely normal for people to be depressed after unsuccessful. It is this depression that keeps us moving forward, so putting away or keeping this unwillingness to look forward is to find a job. There is no difference between postgraduate entrance examination and work, but it is an equal and different choice. I don't know if you have thought about World War II, but it doesn't matter if you take the exam again. Sum up experience and try again. Make up your mind not to take the exam if you don't want to.

You said you wanted to do some technical work, which is good. You are a down-to-earth person, and your undergraduate major can just meet your needs. For you now, perhaps the biggest confusion is that there is too much social work. Although you have locked in the workplace, North China, and even eliminated the first-tier cities, there is still a lot of room for choice. Just seeing this application information, other application information is overwhelming and dazzling.

Here is a small method you can try. Take a blank piece of paper, don't think too much, write down your major, and then write down the word "work". You have basically delineated the scope yourself, so do you want to work in a state-owned enterprise or a private enterprise? Do you want to work all your life, or change jobs after nearly ten years? Are there any interested units or enterprises? Are there any recommended enterprises suitable for graduates in your school? Are you going to see the school job fair? Even what your monthly salary is. The more detailed you write, the less confused you will be. Don't think out of thin air It's easy to get confused if you don't write it down for yourself. This is also the importance of a resume. In fact, a resume is not only a job resume, but also an account and summary of yourself.

Some large recruitment websites or newspaper recruitment columns can be put aside for the time being, because such things can provide the same information as your current mind, and there are ideas everywhere, so there is no idea. What you have to do is clear your mind. The above is about work. Work is for living, so planning your future life will also affect your job search. For example, your girlfriend likes Tianjin very much, or she wants your work place to be somewhere, or even in the city or suburbs. These preferences of yourself and your family are helpful to you.

In other words, the confusion is that there are too many choices, so we should formulate the elimination method according to our actual situation, and eliminate those things that hinder the line of sight, so the rest of the work is better to choose.

At present, job hunting is divided into the following factions:

1, depending on relationships, such as family relationships and friends, introduced to work in the unit.

I like doing this industry because of my interest, so I will enter this industry.

3, seize the time, no matter good or bad, do it first, make money first.

4, let nature take its course, take your time, no hurry.

5. Follow the crowd and I will do whatever the classmates around me do.

Among these factions, 4 and 5 are not desirable, so you are not recommended. Of the first three, 1 is the best at present. This is a reality, and to be honest, you don't have to rely on connections to go to work, even if you are not good, you will be despised. Many people who work by connections also do well, much better than the people they apply for. Of course, they are inevitably lazy. If you have such a relationship, I hope you can make good use of it. Don't think that working through relationships will hurt yourself. Who do you prefer to trust and cooperate with? People have to do all the work. People have feelings. There must be people they know and people they don't know. More importantly, it is easier for you to get resources in an organization by virtue of your relationship. The biggest resource is not that you can be lazy by virtue of your relationship, but that you have this relationship and are more likely to get guidance and help. Support is secondary. The key is to learn something.

If you really don't have a relationship that can help you, then I think it's better to hurry than to rely on interest. Although society has changed and become more diversified, it has not yet reached our ideal height. You may delay, but time will not. Perhaps many people will say that only interest can support them to stick to this job and this industry, but the pressure of survival can spur people forward more than interest. The most important thing is to keep your interest, buy time to support yourself and your family, and then try to satisfy your interest. You have an advantage. Some people want to study literature, while others want to study ideal literature. You study technology, and what you want to do is technology. This consistency is your advantage in finding a job. A trained person will always be more professional than an amateur, which is also the importance of undergraduate course. To put it mildly, even if you are admitted to Tsinghua, your major hasn't changed. After graduation, you may still be inferior to the undergraduates in Tsinghua.

So I sincerely suggest that you exclude all the places and industries you don't want to go to, and the more you don't want to do, the better. Your girlfriend is a key point. It's best for you two to do it together, and try not to be too far away from the workplace. Otherwise, it's not good to have a career without feelings. And if we calm down and discuss together, we will also see each other's blind spots, such as our understanding of a place and an enterprise. The ideal state is that you two are close to each other, you can meet each other every day, and your work is stable, and it is a job you like, at least not a job you hate, but it is best not to be in the same unit. Whether it is urban or suburban depends on your preference.

Skills are up to you, so let's talk about salary. Just graduated, there is really no need to care about salary. Don't say that your grades are average. Even if you have won any scholarship at school, if you don't have a strong background, your salary will not be much higher than that of the worst students. In the first few years of work, everyone's starting point is similar. The key is to look at everything before work. Life is before work, but after work. As long as you can meet your expenses, you can play occasionally, buy some small gifts for your girlfriend and watch a movie. That's enough. The key is to find a job first, do it first, say something unpleasant, and then quit and find another job. Where are we better than Bill Gates? Young! What are you afraid of? Trade time for freedom.

Let's talk about what happened after work To tell the truth, things at school really have nothing to do with work, at least not with your previous ten years' work. For example, I studied mineral water bottles at school, and I didn't even have a bottle cap when I first joined the work.

Part of the reason for this situation lies in the backwardness of school education. More importantly, this work involves practical operation and process problems. For example, you study accounting and are extremely proficient. However, as soon as you enter the firm, you find that the job assigned to you is to talk to a client about a case. Although you don't know accounting, you can't talk about accounting at all, but you may not know it. This involves communication with people and other issues. More specifically, I'm going to find a client, so I have to call to make an appointment. Maybe I'll call ten times in a row and the line is busy. Don't believe it, many people are busier than this. How can I get there when I make an appointment? I asked my colleagues how to go. I made an appointment with another company. Maybe I arrived on the first day. They are all in a meeting after work. I will go again the next day. Such a thing can make use of your professional knowledge. But other details need a lot of experience and physical strength, but these schools don't teach you, including learning measurement and control, engaging in technical work, contacting people and borrowing cars from the society in the future. Anyway, the work related to you will take up most of your time, and everything you do during this time is on-site learning, which is impossible in textbooks. Every industry is different, and every enterprise has its own style of doing things and will gradually adapt to it.

Some people say that what I learned at school is used when I go out. This situation is often encountered among graduate students. That's because graduate education has been greatly improved. Many graduate students or doctoral students have been in line with the society during their school days. Their state can't be described as going to school, but actually going to work. One of my uncles, who worked as an engineer for two years, bought a house in the city center after graduation, so he worked while studying, so you failed the exam. The relationship mentioned above is very useful for this. It is better than anything to have a master or elder who really wants to take you, because this social information is extremely asymmetric. For example, now I will take you to the laboratory of my undergraduate school to do a gene transcription or cloning experiment. How did you do that? Even if I give you the textbook and the experimental process, you may have to explore for a long time, but someone will take you to do it, and you may wait for the result in an hour. But even if you know how to do it, you will immediately go to an unfamiliar biological company without guidance. It still takes a lot of experience to explore. For example, I'll take you to the Qinghai-Tibet Railway for field survey. For example, I'm thinking about adjusting the railway with similar nature and complexity. You can write about the construction organization, and you will definitely discredit me. Even if science is civil engineering, I will take him and let him do it, but he will still feel dizzy and have to follow suit. Then an acquaintance with you will really get twice the result with half the effort. In fact, the current social atmosphere is that people dare not teach their disciples to starve to death, which has nothing to do with you. Only when you see that you have made too many mistakes will you be pointed out. Otherwise, if you do something, he can tell you a more scientific and better way. Even if he doesn't talk about it, he doesn't have to watch your jokes, he just doesn't want to talk about it.

For these things, in fact, you need to be a little thick-skinned, including the job search process. You may encounter supercilious ridicule, but you must be firm that you are doing it for yourself, for your girlfriend, for your parents and for this family, so all the problems are not problems. You just want to find a technical job, do it well and slowly.

In addition, a little advice, I hope you don't set your position too dead. It doesn't matter whether you go to the north or the south, but I think the positioning of second-tier cities can be adjusted. You can go to first-tier cities and work for a few years before you transfer, because at present, even the four first-tier cities in China are not fully in line with international standards, and other first-tier cities such as Chengdu, Hangzhou, Nanjing and Shenyang are even more backward. It is very good for the future to go to first-tier cities to hone and get in touch with new technologies, even if it is just to get in touch with new ideas and concepts. In addition, when it comes to your undergraduate major, it says that a lot of work is not needed, but you must remember that when your work rises to a certain height and you master your own business, your undergraduate accumulation will play a role if you want to break through the bottleneck and move up. For example, does a one-story house need to care so much about the foundation? But it is impossible to build a building with dozens of floors because the foundation is unstable. After working for a period of time, the gap between regular classes and informal classes will become more and more obvious, because when I first joined the work, I was not only completely unnecessary, but even unfamiliar with the environment. What about the use of knowledge? Are you right?

If you have any questions, ask me. I will try my best to help you. We will discuss with each other and make progress together.

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