What will the children at the bottom lose and miss if they don't go to a good university?

Children at the bottom may study hard and be admitted to a good university, which is really the most convenient way to change their fate.

One of my students, surnamed Tang, is from the same village as me. His father and brothers are four, and his second father and I are primary school classmates. Because the family was really difficult in the past, his father and brother both graduated from junior high school and did not study. His eldest father has no daughter-in-law in the village, and neither does his second father. When he came of age, his brother-in-law went to a foreign village as a son-in-law. He was born and raised in such an environment.

The child's father is very hardworking and has contracted a lot of land in the village. His mother also goes out to work from morning till night and has no time to supervise him. Fortunately, children have good self-discipline. Through his own efforts, he was admitted to a key high school. When he was a freshman, he was assigned to Class B, and he vowed to be admitted to Class A. He studied at 12 every night in the first half of the senior year. When he got to the dormitory, he turned off the light. He studies with a flashlight, but he doesn't work hard. Senior one was admitted to Class A next semester, and then studied hard in Senior Two and Senior Three. That year, they scored 638 points in the college entrance examination and went to Qingdao Ocean University to study computer science.

I remember that after receiving the notice, he ran to my office to report the good news as soon as possible. We talked for a long time. Finally, I said, "Work hard, go to college and study hard, and everything will change from you." Until now, I don't know if what I said is right, but I think if he hadn't studied hard at that time, he might still follow his parents' old path.

So I sincerely hope that many children will study hard and live up to their youth!

Li Ka-shing said: Although reading can't bring us more wealth, it can bring us more opportunities.

Ma Yun once said: When you don't fight for scholarships, live a life you haven't tried, hang up qq all day, brush Weibo, visit Taobao, play games and do what I can still do at the age of 80, why are you still young?

Dong Qing once said: If you don't study, you will get a lifetime of humbleness and humbleness.

Although it is said that no matter what family circumstances, people should not be poor but rich, and they must be willing to invest in children's bookshelves, it is really difficult for a working family like us to invest in a child, so we can only try our best to give him the best. Although reading is not the only way out for children at the bottom, not reading is a lifelong humility. Children who go to school in rural areas will face great family pressure, and their parents' educational level is not very high. They can only earn some pocket money with their backs to the loess every day. Parents don't have much communication skills about their children's rebellion, and sometimes they can't even solve the problem. This is the so-called gap. Therefore, it is strict for us to ask our children to learn from the next generation. Although I don't want him to study hard, and I don't want him to have higher achievements than others, I hope he will have more choices in the future instead of being forced to make a living.

Therefore, our children now hope to instill some good ideas in him, at least let him know from an early age that no one will accompany you for a lifetime, and your parents will eventually grow old. You still have to walk on your own in the future. Now you don't want to suffer from learning, but you have to suffer from life all your life.

People are the most practical only themselves. They didn't go to school well in those years, but now they will lose and miss more.

Thank you for inviting me.

There is a difference between going to college and not going to college.

Now is the era of electronic information society. Most young people who have gone to college work in offices in air-conditioned rooms, operate computers and use electronic documents.

One of my relatives works collectively in East China Power Grid. A few years ago, he asked for leave to go home to visit relatives. He brought a laptop, so he can work remotely.

Look at people who have never been to college and have no strong family background. Most of them work in the open air, or work as operators in electronics factories, machinery factories and clothing factories. Generally, it is a piece-rate salary, which is very hard. They mainly rely on overtime pay to get four or five thousand yuan.

There is a difference between going to a prestigious school and going to an ordinary university.

At present, there is no discrimination or distinction between enterprises in recruiting employees. In fact, any boss who doesn't want to recruit good employees is relatively strong in learning ability and working ability. It is easier for college graduates to find jobs. All the top 500 enterprises recruit 985,211schools. Good college students are the main members of big companies.

I have seen a debate. Teacher Zhang Xuefeng and a host discussed the question "Who will find a job after graduating from a master's degree or a university". The host boss said, "There are many ordinary college students in my company", and Zhang Xuefeng replied, "Because your company is not one of the top 500 companies in the world; What companies do you think are recruiting in prestigious schools? What is the annual salary of employees? " After a few words, the host was speechless and the audience applauded warmly, indicating that this view has been recognized.

What will you lose if you don't get into a good school?

You will lose many opportunities, your job will be unsatisfactory and your salary will be unsatisfactory. If there are only three or one college, you can only enter the general enterprise, and the geographical environment is also limited. First-class enterprises are all in big cities, and your development is limited.

Recently, it was reported on the internet that she was replaced by someone else to go to college. She didn't get a junior college degree until she re-studied for a year, and her future life was ordinary and hard. Replaced by national cadres, there is a big difference.

The children of the lower class didn't go to a good university in those days, and they didn't miss anything.

There are only a handful of people in a good university, and a good university may not show its grandeur. Bad universities don't necessarily bury talents, the key lies in their own efforts.

University is only the growth that life must experience. It can't solve all your future problems. It is just a yardstick for you to be a rational person in your life.

With the help of college life, you can go higher and see farther than those who have never been to college.

A good university is more in-depth and accurate in its professional research. Ordinary universities only have a general understanding of their majors, and entering the society may not be useful.

Since you are a child at the bottom, you should be lucky to go to an ordinary university. At least you still have a chance to go to college. Because of the difference in the level of teachers, many children in remote mountainous areas have no chance to enter the university. They lost undiscovered talents and missed the golden dream of university.

As long as we regard learning as a lifelong career, we will certainly seize the opportunity to display our talents, not only will we not suffer losses, but we will also not miss the best stage of learning.

A person who goes to a good university, if he enters the society, always lies on the credit book of the university to show off, rather than work hard. Sooner or later, he is not even as good as a high school student. Ma Yun didn't finish Harvard, and it didn't affect his becoming a world-class billionaire. It's gold. It shines everywhere.

And the children at the bottom know how to cherish the experience of college. He doesn't care whether the university is good or bad, because few parents' hard-earned money falls on the ground. Facing the society, we should go all out to work and repay our parents' hard work. There is no time to compare with others. People are more popular than others, so why bother others? Think of your work as the most sacred and rare platform to develop your potential, then you are the best! People who haven't been to a good university are better than those who have been to a good university, which is the most beautiful embodiment of your life value!

This is a contradictory question! Children at the bottom are not children at the bottom after reading books! He has no experience in riff-raff! If there is any experience, he can only understand the hardships and difficulties of learning! He can't experience the life of the lower class! Similarly, children at the bottom can't read well because they don't study hard or have insufficient talent. They always live at the bottom, unable to understand the life of study and the life of the upper class. How can he feel what he has lost or missed? I forgot the name of a foreign poet and wrote a poem called Two Roads. The road I have never experienced is always in my imagination. People at the bottom really have no idea about people at the upper and middle levels! I have a niece who refuses to marry a civil servant. She said her salary was less than diapers. Ok, finally marry a part-time job (I just graduated from high school myself). Public opinion says that civil servants' wages are low, and civil servants' wages are low; According to public opinion, if the salary of civil servants is high, the salary of civil servants will be high. All in all, on the whole, there is still a gap between classes! In fact, the proportion of people who don't study hard is low, and their grades are poor, not all because they don't study hard, but mostly because their talents are limited! Not many people really regret that they didn't study hard (in words, there is no regret in their bones), and there can't be many. Because, most people have a wrong assumption, that is, as long as they study hard, no matter who they are, they will look at their grades! In fact, the vast majority of people, even if they study hard, either can't read the results, and the results they want to read are not great! Therefore, when there is no good university, most people have not lost or missed anything! What an individual loses or loses is irreparable, because life will never start again. Answer for reference.

I am a mountain village in the west, and I am a farmer's child. Generations have made a living by working long hours for wealthy families. After liberation, the people were masters of their own affairs, and my parents were people and members of the people's commune. But I am still a farmer. 1982 was admitted to weinan normal. I am a normal student, not a university, but this normal student has changed my life. I changed from a farmer to a citizen who ate noodles in his rice bowl. I got my monthly salary, and my parents laughed happily in their sleep! If I didn't go to school, I would still be a farmer, a down-to-earth farmer who made a living by farming.

Chen Chunxiu, who was replaced in the Shandong replacement case, earned a living by working, while Chen Yanping, who replaced her in Shandong University of Technology, earned money by working. If it is not replaced, it is Chen Chunxiu who is working now. What have you lost and missed? A happy, relaxed and sunny life.

1977 After the implementation of the college entrance examination, a child here was admitted to the university for four consecutive years, all because his family was a landlord and the commune didn't give the green light, so he honestly cultivated the land, and those who went to college in those years became senior engineers and professors. If he had gone to college at that time, he is now a retired senior engineer or professor with a high salary and enjoying a happy life in a big city. It won't be a farmer who gets dozens of pensions in January and is still working in the fields in his 70 s!

Now I understand that if the children at the bottom didn't go to college, they lost something and missed something.

The best way for children at the bottom to change their fate and cross the class is to study hard and get into a good university.

Reading is the best way for ordinary people to change their destiny.

Children at the bottom of society,

No money, no access. If you want to cross the class and get rid of your parents' living conditions. The best way is to study hard and get into a good university. Being admitted to a university has a brand-new way of life and lays a solid foundation for future life. Only in this way can we educate the next generation.

Study hard and you can choose the life you want.

Study hard not because you want to compare your grades with others, but because you have the right to choose in the future. Choose a meaningful job that you like, instead of being forced to let your job choose you.

Study hard not because you want to have a successful career, but because you can make more and better friends. Choose a more comfortable social circle instead of letting others find fault with you.

Only by studying hard can you find a good job.

It's no use reading, it's a lie.

Education is not everything. However, education should be a threshold for many people. People with high academic qualifications are being robbed by enterprises. People with low academic qualifications don't even have a chance to interview.

The books you have read and the knowledge you have learned will gradually accumulate in your temperament and become your permanent wealth. If you don't study hard for more than ten years now, you will study hard for the rest of your life in the future. Children without umbrellas should run more.

As the saying goes, "There is a golden room in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book ...", which is about the importance of reading. For example, Li Ka-shing said that reading can not bring us more wealth, but it can bring us more opportunities. The questioner just said that he didn't go to a good university, but that doesn't mean he didn't go to a university. Therefore, reading and not reading are two different things. Failure to attend a good university does not mean that there are no good opportunities. Ma Yun's university is not a good university, but how many are better than Ma Yun in reality?

There are many examples of success without a good university in reality, so I won't list them one by one. In fact, I think that if a child with a lower level does not have a good university and wants to succeed, the difficulty coefficient must be relatively greater. A person's success has many relations besides learning, such as environment, perseverance, goals, luck and so on. The most important thing is to have a goal. If there is no goal in life, it is not necessarily necessary for him to study in famous schools such as Tsinghua and Peking University.

10 years ago, an ordinary college graduate could easily find a stable job! In today's fierce competition, a good university can give us an advantage among thousands of troops!

As a child at the bottom, if you want to change your life, only the road of reading has greater hope. If you want to go further, a good university will have more advantages! A student who goes to a good university will have a broader vision and a more ambitious goal than ordinary college students. Graduates from Tsinghua and Peking University either go abroad for further study or continue their graduate studies. After graduation, they are basically the best in various industries, while graduates from ordinary universities have narrow horizons and small goals, and most of them are at the bottom of various industries!

Therefore, without a good university, we may lose many opportunities for further study, more high-quality contacts and more bright future! We may miss more glory that should belong to us!