Diary of praising a better life

The first article: a good life at home. After a person has a life, he has a life. Life is actually a monotonous word, but there are all kinds of places to live, so life becomes rich and colorful. When we talk about life, we always think of family. Home is the source of life. Our life began there and we spent it there. The uniqueness of home makes us feel the warmth of life, so we should thank life and our families. Home, what moves me most is its ordinary. The structure of home is very simple. Father, mother and children are a family. Sometimes a home doesn't even need a house. Home is simple, simple and even selfish. My parents, who play different roles in society, will care about the gain and loss of a penny, the number of meals in restaurants, whether other people's food and clothing are better than their own, and even whether others' comments are better than their own ... but at home, they never care so much. When one of the family members is praised, the whole family is very happy, and the clothes they wear don't fit and won't be cared about by their families. How nice home is, as if the family members are one person as a whole. Home is a world without hypocrisy, intrigue and scheming, a sincere world. We can live in such a world, there is no excuse not to thank!

Everything must be traced back to the source. People should remember their roots, and don't forget their roots. The "root" of people is human nature, and the "root" in front of it is our home. Family gives us life as the root, with which we can seek the root and with which we can keep the root. It can be seen that home cannot be ignored. Ambitious people may laugh at my small ambition. Thank the motherland and the world if you want to thank. It's okay to bow down in your own house. But I insist that it is necessary to be grateful for family life. The world is made up of people, and people make up their own homes. Home is the smallest crowd. Then families form countries, and countries form the world. This is like an addition. If everyone appreciates our home and makes it more harmonious, wouldn't thousands of harmonious families in Qian Qian form a harmonious world? Similarly, a drop of sewage will make a clear stream dirty. How can families ignore it? How can I not thank you for having a home full of fragrance and humanity? How can we forget that ordinary but warm life?

Part II: A Good Life With the sound of "Wow", a baby came to this new environment and began her long life course. When I was a child, when I saw a group of birds flying by, she would happily say, "I am a happy bird, flying freely." However, when I was a child, I looked at the sky and said gloomily, "When can I fly as freely as a bird?" Just like the spilled water can never be recovered, the lost life can't be recovered, and the beautiful life can't be started again, it is getting farther and farther away from us.

She has a harmonious family, and her parents' love and friends' care make her life full of sunshine. She is happy and carefree and has a good time with her friends. God is always cruel. She brings great love to people, but at the same time, it will also bring harm to people. Her father left quietly because of a car accident, without any blessing. She was spoiled by God and couldn't accept the fact for a while. Some people say, "God is fair. When she gives someone something, she will make up for it with another thing. " But why did fate destroy all the tranquility and beauty in her life so cruelly? What kind of chill is so unfair to her? My mother couldn't accept such a big blow and was in a trance until she was sent to the hospital for treatment. At this time, her friend's concern was regarded as a kind of ridicule, and she began to avoid everyone's concern.

A few days later, the class held a class meeting, and the students were holding each other's speeches. At this time, a classmate stepped onto the platform and said to his classmates, "In fact, we realize that everyone has a door, that is, the door of the heart. It's just that we never thought about opening this door, but how can we communicate sincerely without opening that door?" She looked up at her classmate who was talking. "Everyone will encounter many bad things, and there are also many bumps on the road of life that we can't avoid. We should face them positively, so that life can be colorful. If one of us lives with regret, regret and resentment, what's the point of life? Let's ascend to heaven and become classmates and friends. Then open your heart and let us get to know each other! Isn't a grand event like a cup of tea? Plain has made her true colors, bitterness is its course, and tendency is its gift. Life is so complicated that people are happy and sad, moved and nostalgic! Don't taste it now, when will you wait? " The girl cried. It turns out that life is like this. Everyone needs to treat it well and taste it every day.

The next day, the girl returned to her old smile. Although until today, she occasionally speaks glumly, but her mood has been much better, and she no longer hates the injustice of heaven. She smiled every day in the following days. Later, she became a psychologist. She wants to treat every patient well and have confidence in life.

Looking at life from another angle, she is colorful and well paid, and will definitely get a better life! After all, life needs to be created by ourselves!

Chapter 3: Celebrating a Better Life. Life is wonderful because of appreciation, and life is beautiful because of appreciation.

When the sun sets, the frost leaves Lin Qiu, which needs people to appreciate; Xiao Feng and the waning moon, the cold water beating on the window, also need people to appreciate; Appreciate the mountains, and you will feel strong and dignified in the towering mountains; There are many such things in life.

Pay attention to your life, make your life better, appreciate your life and make your childhood colorful. Although my life is small, I wrote a fairy tale on my own land in Xiaotian and created my own little miracle: "Mei Xu Xun Snow Mountain is white, but there is a piece of plum fragrance missing from the snow." Plum blossoms have their own charm, mountains have their own elegance, snow has its own elegance, and people have their own dazzling brilliance, but everything is endowed with its own incisiveness in nature. The lotus is beautiful and the peony is graceful. Lily is fragrant, and autumn chrysanthemum is elegant. Everything has aura, but it needs to have its own life, which is different. I appreciate myself, not because I am narcissistic, but because I have my own vision of life; I love life, not because I am wild, but because I have my own persistence and goals in life.

Experience life, but when the wind is surging, the courage to ride the wind and waves is full of confidence. Show the elegance of life! Don't curl up in a dark corner, groan, sigh in artificial shadows, get lost in a lost life, and lose your mind in a painful life. We should make life full of confidence, open the window, there will be a clear blue sky outside, and there will be a bright sunshine outside the door.

Singing praises to life will make you walk happily, dance excitedly, discover the beauty of everything and feel the happiness of life.

I will use my own efforts to outline a beautiful blueprint for life, so that happiness will always accompany my life.

When the young woman with a white cane got on the bus carefully, all the passengers on the bus gave her pitying eyes. After paying the fare, she fumbled for the seat with both hands, then sat down, put her briefcase on her lap and rested her crutch on her leg. Susan, 34, has been blind for a year. A medical accident deprived her of her sight, and she suddenly fell into darkness, full of anger, frustration and self-pity, and had to rely on her husband Mark. Mark is an air force officer. He is in love with Susan. In the first few days of Susan's blindness, he watched his wife fall into despair and made up his mind to help her by all means. Susan is finally willing to go back to work. But how does she go to work? She used to go by bus, but now she is too scared to walk around the city alone. So Mark volunteered to take the bus sooner or later until she could cope alone. Here's the thing. For two weeks, Mark wore a uniform every day and accompanied Susan to work, teaching her how to judge her position through other senses, especially hearing, and how to adapt to the new environment. He also helped her get along well with the driver, let the driver take care of her and save her a seat. Every morning, they take a walk together, and then Mark goes back to work by taxi. Although Mark has to travel across the city, and it is tiring and expensive, he firmly believes that it is only a matter of time before Susan can ride alone. Finally, Susan decided to drive to work alone. On Monday morning, before leaving, she hugged her husband tightly with tears in her eyes, thanking him for his loyalty, patience and love. She said goodbye to him, and they walked in different directions for the first time. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday ... Her solo trip goes well every day, and Susan is ecstatic. She did it! She can really go to work alone! On Friday morning, Susan went to work by bus as usual. When I was about to get off the bus, the driver said, "Miss, I really envy you." Susan felt very strange and asked the driver why.

"Well, last week, every morning, a handsome guy in military uniform stood on the street corner watching you get off, watching you cross the road safely and watching you walk into the office building. He blew you a kiss, saluted you and left. You are a lucky girl! " The driver said. Tears of happiness rolled down Susan's face. She is lucky, because Mark gave her a gift more precious than sight, a gift that she could feel without looking. This is a gift of love, which can bring light to the darkness.

Chapter 5: Celebrating a Better Life Li Qingyun, former head of Xuanen County Cultural and Art Troupe, thinks that the most pleasant thing is that everyone can affectionately call him "Big Brother Qingyun". It turned out that "Big Brother Qingyun" was the name given to him by the audience when he participated in an art troupe to send a play to the countryside in his early years. He didn't want to be forgotten by the villagers because he didn't do anything.

Li Qingyun is keen on literature and art, hoping to bring more happiness and happiness to the public. After 47 years of artistic career, it has been proved that Li Qingyun has realized his wish.

Time is fixed more than 30 years ago, and touching scenes are vivid and vivid, which makes Li Qingyun always ignite the passion of dedicating his literary career.

It was the early winter of 1978, and he and his colleagues from the county art troupe went to Mayangzhai Village, Gaoluo Township, Xuanen County to give a play to the villagers. On the road, it is impossible to cross the river because of heavy rain and rising water. Finally, with the help of village cadres, the artists finally crossed the river, and it was zero when they arrived at their destination. The villagers actually gathered around the stage. After the performance, the villagers felt dissatisfied, and the art group decided to temporarily add two programs. It was early morning at the end of the performance, so the villagers had to walk home on the muddy mountain road with torches.

In order to implement the party's policy of benefiting the people, the art troupe specially performed at the remote "five guarantees" home, with only one or two audiences. The "five guarantees" cried with joy when they saw a literary program they had never seen before.

There was once a rural youth who went to four communes with the literary and art team in order to see the play.

There are so many such things that these years are really not long enough. Li Qingyun said that in those years when he went to the countryside to perform for more than nine months every year, he and his colleagues really felt the charm of literary and artistic work, and at the same time, they became more and more aware that as a literary and artistic worker, they had the responsibility to pay attention to this hot land under their feet and create more excellent works.

What kind of landscape is this? This is a beautiful land where Miao people have lived for generations. Miao people are hardworking, intelligent and hospitable. They like to express their feelings through songs. In the mid-1980s, the provincial TV station wanted to shoot a feature film focusing on Miao customs. Li Qingyun's passionate ballad "Singing Clouds in a Golden Throat" caused repercussions in the industry for a time. Later, Miao Zhai Jiao Xie and Miao Jia Overnight were selected into Hubei Folk Songs. More people pay attention to a remote town in southwest Hubei and the living conditions of Miao people here.

In a sense, Li Qingyun has become a faithful watcher and disseminator of Miao culture. At the same time, after professional theoretical study and training, his working condition in composition is getting better and better, and he constantly creates excellent literary and artistic works, expressing the true meaning of Miao people's life and their desire to pursue a better life. Until his retirement, in addition to being the main person in charge of professional literary and art groups, professional composition developed into his main profession.

A good life begins with praise. The happiness of life lies in discovering the advantages of others! In this process of discovering happiness, the easiest way is to know how to praise. Happiness makes us relax physically and mentally, which is more conducive to the normal operation of the body's metabolism and brings good health. In interpersonal communication, physical and mental relaxation is also more conducive to interpersonal communication. If people communicate well, things will go smoothly, which will make career and work move to a new level and have better development.

As the saying goes: a threesome must learn from me; Keep up with excellent people and learn from them; Keep up with witches and jump; Good habits will bring good luck.

As long as you live in this society, you will have to deal with different people tomorrow. We are influenced by others and others are influenced by us. In a subtle way, others are our role models, and we will become their role models. And the habits brought by example will also determine our fate.

Let's get into the habit of praising others and set an example of praising others. Even if we praise others for a while, we may not be able to bring ourselves fame and fortune or get what we want immediately, even if we don't need too many compliments, we just need to give others a faint approving smile! As long as we often praise others from the heart, we will form the habit of discovering the bright spots of others. Then through "reciprocity", set an example for each other, others will also find our bright spot, get praise, gain more strength, and everything will progress harmoniously! We will be happy together! Very happy!

So how attractive is praise? Why praise habits?

Anyone who has been praised by others feels the sweetness. People are more eager to be praised by others for what they have done than to be accused. I think this is the taste that we can often experience. Praise is the most ingenious way to get along with others. It is the most beautiful language in interpersonal communication, which can add luster to the speaker and make the listener proud.

With the habit of praise, life becomes full of colorful sunshine; Praise makes the world more brilliant. Since ancient times, people have understood the role of praise, and there are many words and sentences to describe praise, such as "Spitting orchids, opening lotus flowers with your tongue, and a kind word warms three winters." "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts." "Good words can save people, and bad people can kill people."

Carnegie, the "king of steel" in the United States, offered a super-high annual salary of 192 1 year (hired CEO Schwab). Many reporters visited Carnegie and asked, "Why him?"

Carnegie said: "Because he is best at praising others, this is also his most valuable skill."

Even Carnegie wrote an epitaph for himself: here lies a man who knows how to make people smarter than him happier.