What if I suddenly find myself a mistress?

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Recently, the TV series "Nothing but Thirty", which frequently occupies hot search, has ended. Even if you haven't seen this drama, many girls must know that there is a "villain" in this drama, which is particularly popular.

Because of "knowing the three crimes" and superb means, he had an affair with Xu Huanshan, who had a wife and son, and lived together, which was resisted by the whole network. Not only is the character itself reviled by hot search every three to five times, but even the actors who play this role are also affected. Many netizens who are too involved in the world are violent on the internet.

Coincidentally, Lao Liu recently received a private letter from a girl. Her experience is similar to Lin's, but the difference is.

The girl who is still in college and a successful, mature and rich man have a good impression on each other, but later they find themselves vacillating at the crossroads of whether to be a forest or not. The girl gave up, but the man didn't give up. He spoiled, loved and treated her well. This man fully meets her criteria for choosing a spouse. The girl thought he had a wife and children, so she asked Lao Liu what to do.

The following is my reply:

Girl, thank you for your trust. Now that you have come to me, at least there is hope.

Of course, to put it bluntly, "knowing three things and doing three things" will be criticized in the whole internet context (refer to Lin Youyou and Ling Ling). Not only will you be criticized, but that person will also be accused. I made it clear in advance, and you should be prepared.

In short, this situation will hurt the original match, but it will affect more people and make chicken feathers everywhere.

Think carefully, whether it is scolding or criticizing, what is the purpose?

It's simple. I can't stand the temptation, but I don't want to destroy other people's families. Better scold you for breaking up on the spot. But the effect is often not good, and even the parties will have rebellious psychology.

Then, let's talk rationally about how to end the damage to the original match as soon as possible, how to let the girl in the private letter see the essence of the incident and find a solution by herself.

This relationship will hurt others, and the sooner it ends, the better.

First of all, with all due respect, the reason why he chose you is simple: 1. Why did he choose you? If you don't understand this sentence, you can imagine looking for a job after graduation. The main reason why the company is willing to hire you is that you are the lowest cost choice of the same type. ...

However, as you want to possess it more and more, he will re-evaluate the cost performance of this relationship.

For example, the scarce resource of married men is usually "time". When you want to spend more time with him, such as when he doesn't reply to you, you can send him a video invitation or something. At this time, he started because you are the most cost-effective candidate in the same position. . And reveal a ferocious face.

Secondly, he is not as good as you think. To put it simply, you want more than he intends to give you. Just like a person who plays games all day, he was cut by a player of the same level, and then he went to the novice village to cut melons and vegetables in a rage. This is not only disgraceful, but also a bit stupid.

Yes, I have to say, this is really an intellectual problem. Even rotten ones are as bad as ordinary ones.

As girls meet more and more people in the future, they grow up slowly and broaden their horizons. Looking back at those who used to shine, they may become inconspicuous or even lose face.

People like him are not competitive at all in the eyes of their peers and can only show superiority in backward compatibility.

Finally, forgive me for asking, is it possible that you two are true love?

I guess the man must have told the girl that his relationship with the original match was cold and his feelings broke down, so as to rationalize the derailment. Haha, this statement will deceive oneself and others.

Second, what if you two really love each other?

Then how do you prove it?

Don't think about pregnancy (don't forget the original intention of popular science), don't think about competing with the original match, and don't think about making trouble in the company. The results of these methods are basically losses. In fact, whether what he said is true or not, there is no way to prove that he and you are true love. .

If he won't talk, don't worry, you have no future.

If you do, but don't talk about marriage and family, don't worry, he won't have you in the future.

If you can talk about your marriage and family thoroughly, you can't promise your future. Don't worry, he's going to change people next.

If you speak, you will say everything you want to say, and you will give the promise you want. Don't worry, he may just want to stabilize you first, and then he plans to change others.

Haha, you can't do anything together.

Not exactly. After all, you just need to talk to him about your future plans and you will understand.

..... Unfortunately, most of these people are unwilling to enter the marriage again after divorce, and even if they are willing, there is a great chance that they will cheat again. Finally, remind the girl that if the girl reads my reply and decides to make a clean break with him, then I hope you must wait until your menstruation is determined before breaking up, and don't wait until you find out that you are pregnant unexpectedly, which is more complicated. ...

Having said that, what if I really got pregnant unexpectedly?

Although Lao Liu can't get involved in emotional affairs, she can only help the girl analyze the deep logic of things and make suggestions. The rest still depends on the girl to think clearly and make a decision. However, as thousands of girls' old cotton trousers, they should provide health science for girls.

Third, what should I do if I am pregnant unexpectedly but don't want this child?

Girls often come backstage to ask such questions: unexpected pregnancy but don't want this child, abortion or drug abortion? Which is less harmful and safer?

It must be said that both induced abortion (surgical abortion) and drug abortion are harmful, and the direct injury and potential risk cannot be underestimated. Induced abortion (including surgical abortion and drug abortion) is only a remedial measure after contraceptive failure, and it is definitely not a contraceptive method.

Routine abortion methods and precautions In short, abortion is suitable for pregnancy before 14 weeks. The obvious advantage is that the operation is neat and the success rate is high.

But every operation is bound to have risks, the most serious is uterine perforation and rupture, and there are other risks of infection, bleeding and endocrine disorders.

Drug abortion People choose drug abortion because they can avoid surgery, use drugs to terminate pregnancy and avoid a series of complications caused by surgery.

However, it should be noted that the success rate of drug abortion is not high, only 75%, that is to say, one quarter of people have failed or incomplete drug abortion, and may need to clear the uterus again, which is similar to the significance of surgical abortion.

Moreover, compared with the direct induced abortion, the uterine cleaning with incomplete drug abortion is often a few days after drug abortion, during which persistent vaginal bleeding and open cervical and uterine cavity wounds increase the incidence of infection.

It is worth noting that neither surgical abortion nor medical abortion can be operated at home, so we must go to a regular hospital for treatment, and we need to rest for one to two weeks after abortion to ensure the normal recovery of the body.

Although the final choice is for you to do it, I hope you can understand the pros and cons. Of course, I hope you will never face such a choice.

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Ok, that's all for today. I hope it helps you.