A brief essay on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

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Essay on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has always been a common topic. Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious is related to the quality of a marriage. The rivalry between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been very explosive.

Perhaps, Chinese people are deeply influenced by traditional thinking. Mothers are always virtuous and kind, and they have learned to protect their children. Therefore, many mothers finally cultivate themselves into caring for their sons. The deep-rooted thought of protecting the calf eventually formed an incompatible situation with his wife.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense. What is right and wrong cannot be explained clearly in a few words. In every tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will be such a clear point of view. The mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law is ignorant and lazy, and feels sorry for her son's disadvantage, so she does not like her daughter-in-law no matter what. As for the daughter-in-law, she feels that her mother-in-law is self-righteous, criticizing the family life of the young couple, making things difficult at every turn, and deliberately looking for trouble in everything, so she also has very strong opinions on her mother-in-law, and even gets into fights during their relationship.

Every TV series always makes a fuss about the drama of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and "Ode to Joy 2" is no exception. Bao Yifan's mother is realistic, smart and capable, and she can fall out of love faster than turning over a book. This woman, who started from scratch with her husband, really had twists and turns in her attitude towards Andy. At first, Andy was very happy, and he put down all kinds of restraints on his body, making Andy feel uncomfortable all over.

Later, after hearing Wei Guoqiang’s wife’s malicious slander against Andy, her attitude changed completely. She was afraid that Andy was a “high-end prostitute” and that Andy was after their Bao family. property, and said Andy's personal life was in turmoil. No matter how much Bao Yifan insisted, she cried, made trouble, and hanged herself to force Bao Yifan and Andy to break up. Facing his mother's hunger strike, Bao Yifan revealed the truth that Andy was Wei Guoqiang's biological daughter. Her face immediately turned from gloomy to clear, and all her illnesses were cured in an instant. She also actively persuaded Bao Yifan and An Di compound.

After learning that Bao Yifan and Andy had broken up, she dropped all her status and ran to find Andy, and finally gained Andy's forgiveness. When I saw these scenes, I thought, this woman should be kind to Andy in the future, right? When she saw her husband and mistress crying together, Andy accompanied her and comforted her. It's a pity that the plot is not what I imagined. After all, she is a woman who is better at calculating than anyone else. After learning that Wei Guoqiang also went in because of his ex-wife's affairs, he also showed extreme indifference towards Andy. It was obviously her. The person who invited Andy to his house for dinner ended up showing Andy a look of indifference.

As a result, after Wei Guoqiang was fine, she became passionate about Andy again. When I saw these plots, I really felt more disgusting than swallowing countless flies. How could there be such a woman? How could there be such a mother-in-law? It's really terrible, but the terrible thing is yet to come. She secretly investigates Andy's background, which finally angers Andy and confronts her. It is a powerful confrontation. What will be the outcome of this mother-in-law in the end? , I haven’t watched the TV series yet and don’t know yet. However, I dislike this kind of mother-in-law from the bottom of my heart.

In addition, Wang Baichuan also has a very powerful mother. She is extremely disgusted and disgusted with the women her son likes. Wang Baichuan's mother disliked Fan Shengmei very much before she met her. She even made a date with Fan Shengmei behind Wang Baichuan's back. She also expressed the hope that Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan would break up. In her words, she didn't want the Fan family to come. Drag Wang Baichuan down.

Later, Fan Shengmei's brother put their stroke father at Wang Baichuan's house. Wang Baichuan's mother was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot, eager to get Fan Shengmei's father away immediately, and she was even more hostile to Fan. Jia and Fan Shengmei had a big disagreement, and further put pressure on Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei to break up.

I also find it strange that this Wang Baichuan wants nothing, has average ability, and average appearance. She just went to Shanghai to start a business. What right does her mother have to be picky and picky about Fan Shengmei, even afraid of being inferior to her? If Wang Baichuan were better, his mother would look down on Fan Shengmei even more. I have a son who is not very outstanding and looks down on Fan Shengmei, who has already established a foothold in Shanghai. I feel angry watching this plot.

In the play, Ying Qin and his mother have always made me laugh and cry. What Ying Qin did had already left a bad impression on me even before his mother appeared. I have always felt that a person's work and family education are inseparable. Indeed, Ying Qin's mother made me realize that she is also a powerful character as soon as she appears. She is full of principles, but when she can apply them to herself, she has no principles. .

Ying Qin’s mother looked down upon Qiu Yingying, whom she had never met, and her words were full of disrespect for Qiu Yingying. When she and her son were in danger, she shamelessly sent a signal for help to Qiu Yingying. When Qu Xiaoxiao asked her if she admitted that Qiu Yingying was Ying Qin's girlfriend, she denied Qiu Yingying ten thousand times, so Qu Xiaoxiao said that she was the most unprincipled and shameless person.

In this TV series, only Zhao Qiping’s mother is comfortable to watch. After the university professor met Qu Xiaoxiao for the first time, he just kindly reminded his son that marriage life is about returning after passion. Due to the ordinary life, there is no easy evaluation of what kind of person Qu Xiaoxiao is, nor is he picky and difficult for Qu Xiaoxiao when he first meets her.

Faced with Qu Xiaoxiao using the phone to eavesdrop on the conversation between mother and son, Zhao Qiping's mother did not make any comments about Qu Xiaoxiao. When Zhao Qiping's mother appeared for the first time, I realized that not all mothers-in-law in "Ode to Joy 2" were unruly and picky about their future daughters-in-law. I also felt that Zhao Qiping's mother was Qu Xiaoxiao's future daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law is eye-catching.

Only the respect parents show for their children's marriage can truly reflect their love for their sons. For example, interfering with children's marriage in various ways in the name of love is disrespectful to the children and is also a manifestation of a pattern. How many books a person has read will not be reflected on a person's face, but on the way he handles things.

Obviously, Zhao Qiping's mother is a university professor. She understands that only by respecting her son's respect can she gain his son's respect for herself. No matter what kind of wife his son chooses, it is his son who will live in the future and has nothing to do with him. A person with a big picture will never interfere hastily in other people's lives from his own standpoint.

In "Ode to Joy 2", there is only one mother-in-law who can catch people's attention. That person is Zhao Qiping's mother. This highly educated mother-in-law fully shows us the democracy and equality of how people get along. Before Qu Xiaoxiao met this future mother-in-law, she was extremely afraid of this future mother-in-law. She was afraid that her mother-in-law would think she was uneducated and not worthy of Zhao Qiping.

However, this highly educated mother-in-law gave Qu Xiaoxiao a friendly and friendly feeling, which not only made Qu Xiaoxiao feel comfortable, but also made us the audience feel comfortable. Zhao Qiping's mother also allowed us to instantly cross the gap of difficult relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and instantly understand that not all relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible with ice and fire.

Regarding the character of Zhao Qiping’s mother, although she doesn’t have many opportunities to appear, I still like it very much. Because I also like a well-educated and well-organized mother-in-law. A good husband and a good mother-in-law will make a person's life instantly more beautiful, so in the end, I hope that everyone can have a mother-in-law with whom they can get along happily.

It is my unshirkable responsibility to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Modern prose

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a family issue that is difficult to deal with in any dynasty. This is also a problem left over from China's five thousand years of history; The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a popular word in China now, and it is mentioned in people's conversations and online forums. How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an art and a knowledge. I have been thinking, exploring, and practicing...

Yes, I was involved in this issue ten years ago: 2000 In November 2018, when my son was about to graduate from Wuhan Vocational and Technical College, he was recruited as an employee by Shenzhen Huawei Technology Company. He originally planned to go home (I was attending classes at Loudi Rural School) to see us. Unexpectedly, Huawei bought the tickets and asked them to take the train to the company at 3 pm the next day. They could not go home. Seeing that my son was eager, I asked my husband to take the train to Wuhan overnight to meet my son on my behalf.

When the father arrived at his son’s school, before the father and son could have a chance to talk cordially, a special bus took the students from the school who were recruited by Huawei in Shenzhen to Wuhan Railway Station. The father could only send his son to the train with a special car. As the train slowly pulled into Wuhan Station, the son pointed at a girl and said to his father, "This is my girlfriend." Before the father could ask his son any more questions, the train had already left.

Later, my husband told me that my son had a girlfriend, but I still resisted asking my son. In March of the following year, my son, who had just turned 19, called me and wanted to ask for my opinion. "I want to bring my classmate and girlfriend to Shenzhen to find a job (they are the first batch of integrated students, that is, they will not be assigned, and they will find jobs by themselves). Do you agree?" I immediately replied: "Agree. You have already participated After working, it’s up to you to find a girlfriend.” After thinking about it, I continued: “Son, it’s normal for a boyfriend and girlfriend to live together as husband and wife for a long time, but you must pay attention: within these five years. You can’t have children, you can’t get pregnant, you can’t have an abortion, you can’t have an abortion, and you can’t take medicine. How to do it, you can buy a book and read it yourself.”

When my future daughter-in-law arrived in Shenzhen, I really wanted to meet her, but I didn’t want to. I don’t want my son to bring her back to see me if I want to disturb their lives, leaving space and time for them to develop freely.

Half a year later, on October 1, my son suddenly said that he wanted to bring his girlfriend home. I welcomed him warmly. I happily bought some new clothes and went to Xiangxiang Railway Station, which is far away from Baiduoli Road (from the school to the railway station) to pick up my future daughter-in-law. When she first saw such a thin and soft figure, she couldn't help but shudder in her heart. But I immediately thought that my son liked it, and I should like it. Now is the era where slim beauty is promoted. Suddenly my enthusiasm came back and I took her to meet my parents, parents-in-law, etc.

At that time, my husband and I had not made up our mind whether to buy an old house in the city or demolish it and build a new one in our hometown. At this time, our future daughter-in-law observed the topography and geography of the house with us. Seeing the holes dug in advance, she and her son strongly supported us building a house at home. They did not plan to buy a house in Shenzhen. (So ??by the second year we built a new house at home.) The elders also gave her a greeting gift before leaving. Then I took them to my school, which had very poor conditions, and she adapted to it. At the same time, she was also warmly received by my colleagues.

In this way, my future daughter-in-law has a good initial impression of me: she is warm to others, kind-hearted, and amiable.

I also have a good evaluation of my future daughter-in-law: dignified and generous, smart, virtuous and gentle.

The first impression between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is crucial.

The accumulation of feelings between people is like a bank, which requires continuous savings and cannot be overdrawn. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - two women with completely different ages, personalities, and experiences, will have a lot of friction in the tedious process of getting along with each other in daily life. If you focus on the accumulation of feelings, then even if friction occurs, the other party will interpret it from a good starting point. If there is no accumulation of feelings, then even good intentions may be misinterpreted.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not natural imaginary enemies, and there is no fundamental conflict of interest because they both deeply love the same man.

For the joy and happiness of this man, and for the stability and harmony of several families, modern women can use more work and wisdom to establish a more harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In 2003, my husband and I applied for customs clearance passes to Shenzhen at the Loudi Public Security Bureau where our registered residence is located (we no longer need them since 2004), and planned to go to Shenzhen for the first time to celebrate the New Year. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law fell ill and passed away (my father-in-law passed away in 2001). After burying my mother-in-law, it was approaching the Chinese New Year and we had no plans to go to Shenzhen. At this time, my mother urged us to go to Shenzhen to celebrate the New Year with her son. My son called me again and said, “I really want my parents to come to Shenzhen to celebrate the New Year.” He also told me that his girlfriend’s parents want her to go back to Wuhan to celebrate the New Year. “She really wants to wait until she eats the chicken cooked by her mother before returning to Wuhan. "At this time, I immediately promised my son, "We will come by train tonight." I asked my husband to kill the chicken, and I would steam it at home. I took the train that night and arrived in Shenzhen the next morning, so that my daughter-in-law could eat the chicken. Go and take a bus back to Wuhan. Although she only ate a little bit of the chicken, we were both very satisfied. On the third day of the Lunar New Year, she came to Shenzhen to accompany us before her vacation was over. I was really happy.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become deeper.

Winter vacation in 2004 was about to begin, and my son called me and said, "Who told you to knit sweaters so well? Your daughter-in-law wants one." "Okay." I immediately ran to the streets of Loudi and picked out the best and thinnest wool. I knitted day and night. In a week, I knitted a turtleneck sweater and a wool vest for my daughter-in-law. After I knitted it, I left it at the post office. Send it to her so she can wear a new sweater for the New Year. This is my intention as a mother-in-law.

One time I saw a magazine about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After reading it, I sent a text message to my son like this: Son: Today I read an article about "The Art of Getting Along with Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law" Article, I feel deeply. I entered all the key points into my mobile phone, preparing to keep them for a long time and remind myself at any time! I will definitely respect you more and give you as much space as possible. Attached is the summary.

Summary of "How We Be Mother-in-Law Today": Since you love your son, you should accept the wife he loves...You must allow the young couple to have their own independent living space...Strengthening communication and mutual understanding is the key to good interpersonal relationships. The magic weapon... Mother-in-law should often take the initiative to chat with her daughter-in-law. She should not only tell her life experience and insights to her daughter-in-law, but also listen to her daughter-in-law's heartfelt voices... The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be slowly adjusted over a long period of life, and haste leads to haste. Not up to it.

These text messages have been saved in my mobile phone for nearly 7 years. I will continue to save them and open them frequently to remind myself.

In 2005, my son had the intention to buy a house, and I actively supported him. At that time, I borrowed some money after building my own house. I had been paying back the debt for two years and had no savings. In order to support my son in buying a house, I went to my natal sister to borrow money to help my son pay the down payment. Later, I paid as much as I had and spent everything I had.

On October 1, 2006, my son and daughter-in-law fell in love with each other and it was time to get married. I respected my daughter-in-law’s family and personally went to Wuhan to discuss my son’s marriage with my in-laws. Ask for their advice on how to make the wedding a success. Finally, we reached a common understanding and decided on the spot to hold the wedding on New Year's Day in 2007. We also brought all my relatives to Hunan. Of course, I warmly entertained the guests from afar. This time, I went to Wuhan with my son and daughter-in-law to celebrate the 90th birthday of my daughter-in-law’s grandmother. Communicate with relatives at home to enhance the relationship between relatives. As one of my netizens commented in my diary "Wuhan Trip Notes": "Smart move, your daughter-in-law met a good mother-in-law, not only won her daughter-in-law's favor, the harmony between the two parents' families will be closer, I admire your friend's move."

My son and daughter-in-law have not dared to have children for several years because of their careers and to build a good family. I have no objection, but I am a little worried that they will become a DINK family (that is, they don’t want children). Recently, they have said that they are planning to raise children. I am naturally happy to have a child.

My son and daughter-in-law work at Huawei in Shenzhen. Since overtime work on holidays requires 2 to 3 times higher wages than usual, they want to work overtime to earn more money to repay their house loan. I firmly support this.

In addition, traffic is tight during holidays, so I don’t want them to come back to see me. Sometimes when I miss them, I go to Shenzhen to visit them. I also put their photos as my computer desktop image. Every time I turn on the computer, I see them and feel that they are always by my side.

When I heard that my son and daughter-in-law were going home, I told my sisters: I will bring them to visit you. The implication is that they should receive my daughter-in-law well. Especially my eldest sister-in-law went to Huaihua to celebrate her aunt's birthday. In order to come back to see my daughter-in-law, she drove home that night. As expected, they entertained my daughter-in-law warmly, hosted a fancy banquet in a big hotel, and invited and accompanied us to a singing session in the evening. It was true that our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law sang on the same stage in the karaoke hall. Although I was the treble speaker and my daughter-in-law was the bass, it was very harmonious and everyone present applauded. My mother said on the side that I looked 10 years younger. I was really excited and intoxicated. They have been away from me for several days now, and I am still immersed in happiness. In fact, a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often starts dull, persists for a long time, and then blossoms into moving flowers in times of trouble. Proper expectations and appropriate methods can make the flowers of family love bloom longer.

I strive and look forward to being a good mother-in-law, so that the relationship between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become sweeter and sweeter. Make your son happier, make your family sweeter, and make the world warmer.

Prose about handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between the wife of my old classmate and his mother was very tense. Once, there was a disagreement over raising children, and his mother was stubborn and rude. . His wife actually hit his mother. His mother was furious, put down her several-month-old grandson, and left his home. My old classmate was at a loss and didn’t know what to do. So he and his mother came to me and asked me to help with some advice.

Everyone knows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult family problem, and it is also a common social problem. If the daughter-in-law has her faults, the mother-in-law must also have her faults. If the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not to be exacerbated, appropriate measures must be taken to resolve the conflicts so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get back together and live in harmony. So how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

I would first advise my old classmate’s mother not to be too angry. If a daughter-in-law beats her mother-in-law, that is treason and should be cut to pieces. If my daughter-in-law is disrespectful to my mother, I will immediately break up with her and throw her out. Even if she is a bachelor for the rest of her life, I will not marry an unfilial woman. You are always beaten by your daughter-in-law, and there is a reason for it. As mothers-in-law, we should look at whether we have done anything wrong. His mother calmed down after hearing what I said and admitted that she shouldn't have scolded her daughter-in-law and even her mother because of disagreements about raising her grandson. I smiled and said to her: "This is because you are old. If you have something to say, you shouldn't be violent, let alone scold someone's mother. Since we are married, we are a family, but you can't treat your relatives as enemies."

So, my old classmate accompanied his mother home. As soon as he entered the door, he saw his wife holding the child and his mother-in-law at home. Before his daughter-in-law could say anything, the mother-in-law got angry and accused her mother-in-law of not being able to take care of her grandson. She also made strong and hurtful remarks.

When the two parents-in-law were having a conversation, I called my classmate’s wife to the south room and severely criticized her. She also knew that she had done something wrong and was worried that her husband would not forgive her. I asked her to apologize to her mother-in-law. When she left the house, she first stopped her mother from arguing, and then said to her mother-in-law sincerely: "Mom, it was my fault. No matter what, I shouldn't have hit you in a hurry. I hope you can be me, and I won't do it again." I don’t dare anymore.” The mother-in-law said, “It’s my fault for scolding you in a moment of anger. Please bear with me.” When the mother of the old classmate’s wife saw that her daughter and her mother-in-law had reconciled, she had nothing to say.

I said to my two in-laws: "The quality of the relationship between you two directly affects the quality of the relationship between the husband and wife. If the in-laws and mothers are like sisters, then the children will follow suit and the husband and wife will be harmonious. ”