Inspirational articles for girls to improve themselves

If you think you are unfortunate enough to be born a woman, then please be self-reliant and confident, or at least financially independent. Don’t lose yourself in life and become an accessory to men. The following is an inspirational article about girls being self-reliant that I compiled for you. I hope it will be useful to you!

Inspiring articles about girls being self-reliant 1: Be a strong woman

Author: Bao Cheng Hai

This morning, my wife was invited to go to the Maternity and Infant Hospital to see the neighbor’s daughter’s baby for the first time after caesarean section. The neighbor’s daughter has always believed that my wife is a very strong woman, and letting my wife see her child’s first birth will bring good luck to her child throughout his life.

My wife was even more delighted, feeling that she was an angel sent by God to welcome the arrival of a new life. She also sincerely wished that the neighbor’s daughter would have a smooth delivery and that the whole family would be healthy and happy.

I know best whether my wife is a strong woman. Because I think my wife possesses the four characteristics of a strong woman:

1. "Look back and smile and be charming". A strong woman does not necessarily have to be very beautiful, but because of her unique temperament, she can display a pleasing style even if she wears ordinary clothes. My wife is Xi Tzu in my eyes, and the older I get, the less I can get enough of her. The facial features are arranged very reasonably on her face, and of course every single one of them is impeccable.

2. The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. Most strong women have gone through many hardships in life and gained the strength they have today. My wife went to work in the fields right after she finished elementary school, and received the same work points as male laborers. It’s hard to describe how hard it was. She took over the job of her father who died on the job and worked as a line worker in the railway overhaul section. She also became the first female line foreman in the history of the overhaul section, directing the men to perform line overhaul work. Later, she worked in a government agency and became my wife.

3. The skirt chases the horse like a rolled tent. A strong woman must not be a master of the kitchen, but a master of the kitchen and the hall. She must be capable of self-improvement, not only of literary and military skills. Refusing to admit defeat in anything is the biggest characteristic of a strong woman. My wife just learned to play table tennis before she retired, and she often practiced swinging her arms in her dreams in the middle of the night. After retirement, retired men and women of this system even won the championship in a table tennis competition. I advised her not to do that. If you take first place, it will make us men lose face. Those who are defeated by you are all table tennis celebrities.

4. "Bingxue is smarter than others". Strong women are extremely smart, and they can understand every look and every gesture vividly, without missing a beat. Showing that you can rise and stretch, and be kind and honorable is not just about being strong. Men are even more fascinated when a strong woman is gentle. Even though my wife has a bad temper, she gets angry easily and often gets angry. That's because I let her. Once I look at her coldly like an actor, my wife immediately loses her pulse and becomes submissive to me. This is the wisdom of a strong woman. location.

Some people think that strong woman is a derogatory term, which is a misunderstanding. Of course, a strong woman must not be so strong in marriage. She should be considerate, loving as husband and wife, have a happy family, and live a happy life.

The neighbor’s daughter insisted on letting my wife see her newborn baby for the first time. I also feel very honored, because without me as my wife’s husband, she would never be where she is today. pride.

Inspirational article about girls’ self-improvement 2: Women should improve themselves

Author: Baiyun Bookstore’s article

Life is full of different situations, and everyone has his or her own way of living. Everyone has their own view of happiness. Especially when it comes to love and marriage, it can be said to be colorful, and everyone has different requirements and answers. Judging from some phenomena in society, if women want to be happy, they usually place their hopes on their own marriage. It seems that as long as they can marry a "good man", they will be happy for the rest of their lives.

I watched a TV show yesterday. After the love interest of a pretty standard-looking female graduate student left her, she used strong sulfuric acid to destroy a ten-year-old girl in her prime. The reason was that the female graduate student guessed Her lover left her and the girl's parents took revenge. The result is harm to others and yourself. Is it worth it? In real life, there are indeed many women who, because they cannot get love and marriage, take revenge on each other, fall into depravity, or self-destruct. Why can’t these women think about it and always pin their happiness on men? Do women only live for men?

A happy marriage is what everyone yearns for, but marriage depends on consensual consent. To be happy. However, some women often only look at the other person's situation when choosing a mate, ignoring their own objective conditions and qualities, and just blindly think that they can be happy as long as they find a good man.

What are the standards for a good man? What are the standards for a good woman chosen by a good man? Do you understand these? Of course, everyone will look for a person who can bring him or her happiness based on his or her own imagination in marriage. Happiness relies on, especially the secular view: if a woman can marry a desirable husband, she will be happy throughout her life. This idea is understandable, but have you ever thought about it? A man is also a human being and he also needs happiness. Can he get happiness from you? Are you suitable for him? Even if you are consensual and both feel happy, you still Have you ever thought about it, people's feelings will change. In a long life, various possibilities will appear. If something changes in your life, have you considered whether you can bear it? I am not denying true love, I am just admitting that human thoughts exist like other things. There are variables, and no one can predict these variables. Don't take the story of "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai" as the truth. You can't see everyone's life situation. For example, the tragedy caused by domestic violence cannot be expected from the beginning.

Although love is beautiful, in the process of pursuing it, the key is that we must have the capital to obtain love. Don't forget, people cannot get love for no reason, and you can't get true love by forcing it. A man is the other half of love, and he also needs the warmth of love. If you can give him this kind of warmth, then you will get his love, and vice versa. Therefore, at any time, women must have the capital to be loved! Furthermore, women should be independent and self-reliant. Only when they are self-reliant can they control themselves; only when they are self-reliant can they enrich themselves; only when they are self-reliant can they be independent in life and society. Only by being independent can you have the capital to get true happiness!

If a man loves your appearance, your appearance will eventually grow old; if a man loves your power, your power is like a leaf, which may be blown off by the wind one day. ; The one who loves you is the same as the one who loves you. There will be a time when the person who loves you will change. No matter what he loves you, it is just you at that time. What will happen to you in the future? What will happen to him in the future? No one knows.

Loving someone sometimes comes in stages. I can’t say that there is no everlasting love. It’s just that everlasting love is not common. Lasting love is the result of two people’s mutual joy and running together. Not everyone has it. of. It is impossible to have true love and happiness by begging, relying on unrequited love, or relying on wishful thinking. I do not rule out that love can bring happiness to people, but happiness is definitely not only brought by love. Can a person's career, achievements, and dedication also bring happiness to others?

In love, marriage, and family, women are usually hurt. Women's weaknesses are that they are too gullible and too single-minded. , The dependence is too strong and the relationship is too fragile. Especially in the real society, some women are too self-righteous, as if they were born to be the darling and should be unconditionally doted on by others. In fact, true love and possession are two different concepts. Remember: you can never change another person's mind for yourself. A woman must have her own independent space. True love should never be rejected when it comes, and love should never be left behind when it leaves. In another sense, this is also a kind of self-reliance and self-improvement.

Therefore, for your happiness and your dignity, woman, you must be self-reliant and self-reliant! Your heart should always be filled with great love!

Inspirational article 3 about girls being self-reliant: Women should be self-reliant

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Author: Zhang Zhongtian

I received a call from my eldest sister last Sunday. The eldest sister said that my second sister went to the city for a B-ultrasound and she was pregnant with a girl and she planned to give up. But nearby hospitals, large and small, dare not do it. The child is already six months old and it is too dangerous. Moreover, the child has a birth certificate.

After hanging up the phone, I felt very heavy. I suddenly felt that history was repeating itself. More than 20 years ago, my mother carried us one child after another. At that time, there was no way to take B-ultrasounds, so we had to raise all the girls we gave birth to. Nowadays, with B-ultrasound, the gender of the fetus can be screened. It is unknown how many fetuses have been aborted by their parents because of their gender.

Recently, the company appointed a new human resources manager. During lunch, he said that in the future, the company will no longer recruit female employees who are married but not pregnant or who are of marriageable/childbearing age. Once such employees are After recruitment, marriage leave, maternity leave, and breastfeeding leave are taken off, and when the children are raised, the employees will leave. This is a huge burden on the enterprise.

My friend worked diligently in a joint-stock company for N years. Finally, a vacancy for the financial manager became available. She, who was the most qualified to take up the post, became pregnant. The company appointed the position to a related account for a very simple reason. , because my friend is about to face maternity leave and breastfeeding leave, and a listed company will not allow its financial manager to have a vacancy.

A college classmate said that their company has a perverted hidden rule recently. When female employees are pregnant, they are forced to sign an agreement with the company. When the female employees return from maternity leave, the company can transfer the female employees to different positions. Many of them The female employees voluntarily resigned because of this. The reason is very simple. A cashier cannot do assembly and manufacturing work.

I have a friend who passed the judicial examination in 2008. When she thought her future was smooth sailing, someone kindly reminded me that being a lawyer is really not a career that a woman can enjoy. In 2013, when she passed the Level 2 Construction Engineer qualification and was confidently planning to enter the construction engineering industry, someone kindly reminded her that construction engineering is a man's world. I have also met a few relatively successful strong women, but in everyone's eyes, they are more or less burdened with the scapegoat of having unspoken rules. In the 21st century, everyone keeps saying that men and women are equal, but they still set conditions prohibiting entry for women in all walks of life. In the name of protection, women's rights and interests are violated. Women are so humble sometimes. When you work hard and take care of your husband and raise children, you put all your focus on your husband and children. You thought your husband was a support, but you slowly lost your personality and dignity. When you act like a man and steal men's jobs, you will be labeled as a manly woman by others. If you are lucky enough to have good looks and an enviable career, you cannot escape the unspoken rules that others say.

According to statistics, more than 70% of expectant mothers and expectant fathers hope that they are pregnant with a boy, but do these expectant mothers and expectant fathers realize that when your sons grow up? , where did so many girls marry you? Perhaps these girls were ruthlessly strangled while they were still in the wombs of their parents. A person cannot choose his birth, nor his gender. If you think you are lucky and were born a man, then please love and tolerate the women around you, because a woman like them gave birth to you. If you think you are unfortunate enough to be born a woman, then please be self-reliant and confident, or at least financially independent. Don’t lose yourself in life and become an accessory to men. As for the obstacles set by the so-called patriarchal or male chauvinism, if we are unable to change them, we should let them go and let them go. History will repeat itself, and these obstacles will also apply to the women around them. This is really not a curse, but a reality.

I wish the world here would have less sexism and more respect and tolerance for life?