Xie Nan, the woman behind "Wolf Warrior": How strong is she who can control Wu Jing?

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In 2010, during the interview of "The Best Scene", host Xie Nan met his childhood idol Wu Jing.

But it turns out that creatures like "male gods" are only suitable for existing in fantasy. Wu Jing who stepped out of the filter embarrassed Xie Nan.

At that time, Wu Jing was just a small celebrity and had no topic.

Since we couldn’t talk about his works, the little fan girl Xie Nan changed the topic to Wu Jing’s private life and asked him about his criteria for choosing a spouse.

However, Wu Jing did not follow the routine and immediately got close to Xie Nan and started asking three classic questions:

"Are you married? Do you have a boyfriend? Who are you? ?"

For two people who were not familiar with each other, Wu Jing's frivolity stumped Xie Nan, and her face was full of embarrassment.

Wu Jing was not aware of it at all, and cleverly said that "The Best Scene" should be renamed "Let's Date".

Xie Nan could only smile awkwardly but politely.

However, Wu Jing has not stopped destroying his image. When passing by each other backstage, he asked Xie Nan: "What perfume are you using?"

Xie Nan said the name of the perfume is " Encounter".

When Wu Jing heard this, he asked, "Is it because you want to meet me?"

Xie Nan was already 27 years old at that time, and the male god's "teasing" not only did not make her fall in love The random collision made her feel disgusted, so she "turned away".

Later, Wu Jing took the initiative to invite Xie Nan to dinner.

Xie Nan could not refuse, so she took her agent with her to the appointment.

She saw Wu Jing's thoughts and responded to it.

But at that time, Xie Nan didn’t know that although the encounter was not easy, the fate was destined, and the story between her and Wu Jing began.

Four years later, the boy with stars in his eyes whom she liked when she was 15 years old became her husband.

Later, the former "Kung Fu Kid" turned into a "tough guy superstar", and she also became the woman behind "Wolf Warrior".

1.

In 1974, Wu Jing was born into a martial arts family in Beijing.

The Wu family has a great background. It is said that their ancestors were the Zhengbai Banner of the Manchu people, and they even had a number one scholar in martial arts.

Influenced by the family atmosphere, Wu Jing has been practicing martial arts since he was a child. He studied under Wu Bin, a ninth-dan master in the Chinese martial arts world, and became the same disciple of Jet Li and Donnie Yen.

Wu Jing was only 6 years old when he entered the martial arts school, the age when cats hate dogs.

Once, the naughty Wu Jing led a group of children to skip class and start a fight, causing quite a stir.

The angry father kicked his son back 7 meters and stuck him directly against the wall.

Fortunately, Wu Jing resisted the beating and only felt pain for a while without any internal injuries from the kick.

Under his father's violent suppression, young Wu Jing began to correct his attitude and train seriously.

Thanks to the guidance of famous teachers and his talent, Wu Jing made rapid progress and won the Beijing Youth Wushu Championship at the age of 8.

In the 1980s, "Kung Fu Boy" Wu Jing grew up with Hong Kong action movies.

In the year when he received the championship medal, his senior brother Jet Li made the movie "Shaolin Temple", which grossed 161 million at the box office for a dime a ticket.

The overwhelming popularity of the event pushed China’s martial arts sentiment to a climax, and a group of “kung fu boys” emerged.

Eight-year-old Wang Baoqiang went to Songshan Shaolin Temple and became a lay disciple.

Little Wu Jing also hugged his senior brother’s thigh and took the trouble to ask Jet Li how he could fly in the movie.

After that, Wu Jing regarded Jet Li as his idol and trained even harder. He dreamed of experiencing the feeling of "flying" personally.

The effect of talent and hard work complementing each other is amazing. In just a few years, Wu Jing won many national martial arts awards.

But behind the honor is not only the pain, but also the risk of disability or even death.

Wu Jing was unfortunately involved in the risk.

When he was 14 years old, he sprained his waist during training, resulting in paralysis of his lower limbs.

Lying in bed unable to move, and even having to ask someone to help with private matters such as going to the toilet, Wu Jing was depressed for more than a month, and was tortured both physically and mentally.

Fortunately, Wu Jing was young and energetic at the time, and he had a bloody spirit that refused to admit defeat.

After the pain, there was an explosion of strength. Wu Jing, who cheered up, rejected the doctor's advice to quickly get a disability certificate and receive subsidies, and vowed that he would create a medical miracle.

He began to perform rehabilitation training. He relied on the strength of his arms to lift his legs and supported the bed, enduring the severe pain and slowly taking steps.

Half a month later, Wu Jing showed everyone that the boy who had been diagnosed with paralysis had really stood up.

It was this small step that changed Wu Jing's destiny.

In 1989, 15-year-old Wu Jing officially joined the Beijing Wushu Team. The young man who came back from the dead with full blood was even more sharp.

During the same period, his senior brother Jet Li, who was 11 years older than him, had established his status as a "martial arts superstar" with many movies such as "Once Upon a Time in the Sky" and "Fang Shiyu". He even went abroad and began to make a name for himself in Hollywood.

After tasting the dividends of Jet Li, director Zhang Xinyan of "Shaolin Temple" is thinking about creating another kung fu star.

With this idea in mind, Zhang Xinyan came to Beijing Martial Arts School and asked Wu Bin to recommend candidates.

Among them, Wu Jing, who is handsome but has excellent kung fu, is the most suitable for Zhang Xinyan.

Wu Jing happily accepted the olive branch and followed Zhang Xinyan to Hong Kong for filming.

In 1995, the movie "The Karate Kid" was released in Hong Kong.

Unfortunately, Wu Jing's screen debut received a mediocre response and failed to replicate the glory of "Shaolin Temple".

Zhang Xinyan was not discouraged, and then created a TV series "Tai Chi Master" tailor-made for Wu Jing.

This drama not only brought Wu Jing's career to a climax, but also allowed the innocent young man to experience the pain of love for the first time.

2.

In the year "Tai Chi Master" was aired, Xie Nan, a 15-year-old Anhui girl, was crazy about watching the show accompanied by her father.

The girl who has always been well-behaved skipped class for the first time in her life in order to watch the finale as soon as possible.

In this drama, Xie Nan’s favorite actor is Wu Jing, who plays Yang Yuqian.

A 15-year-old girl will always look at the screen and wonder how someone could be so good-looking, with stars in their eyes.

At that time, Xie Nan, who was addicted to TV dramas, did not know that what was more exciting than the plot was the male god's extra-screen affairs.

While filming this drama, 23-year-old Wu Jing fell in love with the actress Fan Yimin who was in the same cast.

Fan Yimin is 3 years older than Wu Jing and has won the Most Photogenic Award in the Miss Hong Kong beauty pageant.

Wu Jing inevitably got angry.

Fan Yimin also had a secret crush on this handsome brother, and the two soon fell in love.

But after getting along for a long time, the passion gradually faded, and Fan Yimin had to think about more practical issues.

Her boyfriend Wu Jingnen is young and handsome, but he is also very confused and poor.

Thinking of this, Fan Yimin hesitated.

Wu Jing is also miserable. He is getting deeper and deeper in love and even has plans to get married, but his girlfriend is trying to break up with him.

After noticing Wu Jing’s dangerous idea of ??getting married, Fan Yimin no longer hesitated and directly posed a big problem to Wu Jing:

“If within 3 years, you can earn 5 million , then I will marry you."

For Wu Jing, who was a young fool back then, this was undoubtedly a naked embarrassment.

But the young man was innocent and gritted his teeth and took this move.

In order to marry Fan Yimin as soon as possible, Wu Jing worked hard on filming, and even stayed away from his hometown to become a Hong Kong drifter for better development.

But the reality is cruel. Wu Jing, who knows nothing about Cantonese, can hardly move in a new environment where he is unfamiliar.

He could still play the male lead in mainland China, but in Hong Kong, he could only play a stand-in without a camera.

Fan Yimin became more and more disappointed with this useless boyfriend, and turned around and fell into the arms of stock market tycoon Luo Zhaohui.

After being dumped, Wu Jing was extremely depressed and depressed for several months.

During the days when Wu Jing was unsuccessful, Xie Nan only occasionally read about her boyfriend's sad extramarital affairs from the gossip news. These did not cause any waves in her step-by-step life.

After graduating from high school, she was admitted to Anhui University of Finance and Economics.

This little girl who has been fond of broadcasting and hosting since she was a child continued to develop her hobby in college and served as the announcer of the school radio station.

In 2005, Xie Nan graduated from university and participated in the recruitment examination of Anhui People's Broadcasting Station.

With excellent professional qualities, she finally stood out from more than 1,000 people and successfully signed a contract with Anhui Radio Station.

The year Xie Nan graduated from university was Wu Jing’s third year of working hard in Hong Kong.

A few years ago, shortly after breaking up with Fan Yimin, Wu Jing once again fell in love with drama and ushered in a second spring.

The identity of the target this time is mysterious, and it is said to be a foreign girl.

Rumor has it that this woman is the actor Fatima Yaqi who has collaborated with Wu Jing in "The King of Shaolin".

In fact, Fatima Yaqi is a Hui girl, but her name sounds a bit like a foreigner.

As for how these two people came together, we have to start with two episodes of heroes saving beauties.

Fatima Yaqi wrote in her blog that Wu Jing helped her escape twice.

The first time was during filming, there was a problem with the props, and a real stone was thrown at her. Wu Jing, who reacted quickly, pushed the stone away with one move.

The second time was when the two were strolling in the county town, and her bag was taken away by a speedster who passed by. Wu Jingfei got into the car and helped her recover the bag.

After two heroic rescues, Lang became interested in his concubine, and the two soon came together.

Unfortunately, beauty cannot escape money. Like Fan Yimin, Yaqi soon fell in love with someone else and lived with Zhang Tielin, who was 25 years older than her. The poor boy Wu Jing was abandoned again.

After experiencing the pain of love twice in a row, Wu Jing focused on his career. In the blink of an eye, it was his third year as a drifter in Hong Kong.

That year, the 31-year-old Wu Jing and his senior brother Donnie Yen collaborated in the movie "Slaying the Wolf", which ushered in a small turning point in his career.

The fighting scenes in this movie are very exciting, with punches and swords touching the flesh.

The movie received a good response, but most of the halo revolved around Donnie Yen. The supporting actor Wu Jing only drank a little soup, which gave a short-term recovery to the long-term sluggish popularity.

When Wu Jing was bruised and swollen during a filming scene, and four sticks were broken by Donnie Yen, Xie Nan, who was far away in Anhui, was not relaxed either.

After joining the radio station, she was assigned to the most difficult rural radio channel.

She gets up at 4:30 every day, starts broadcasting the morning news at 6:30, and then goes to the countryside for field interviews to collect and organize news clues for the next day.

Such days lasted for nearly a year. After work, Xie Nan participated in a host competition, which inadvertently changed the trajectory of her destiny.

In 2006, Anhui TV Station and Guangguang Media jointly held the Cat Man Super Charming Hosting Competition. 23-year-old Xie Nan was one of the contestants.

During the competition, Xie Nan performed well and passed all the tests to win the championship.

Later, Xie Nan signed a contract with Enlight Media and moved to the entertainment field, which invisibly shortened the distance between her and Wu Jing.

At this time, there are still 4 years until they officially meet.

3.

I feel happy when I change my career, but I shed tears when I leave.

When he first started working at Guangguang, Xie Nan, who was a news anchor, felt obviously uncomfortable.

In life, she is not a gossip, and she is not very interested in entertainment news.

The positioning of Enlight Media is "We understand the entertainment industry", with entertainment first and entertainment first.

Xie Nan, who is not sensitive to entertainment, did not even have a chance to appear on camera at first.

The variety show producer asked her, what programs do she usually watch?

Xie Nan replied, "News Network", "Focus Interview".

Ask again, who is the second Supergirl champion?

Xie Nan looked confused.

The leader shook his head and sighed at the little girl's lack of understanding. He only assigned her odd jobs and did not put her in any important position.

Xie Nan, who was frequently ignored and criticized because she was isolated from entertainment gossip, learned her shame and became brave, and began to feed on entertainment gossip news.

As Xie Nan gradually "gossiped", her resources also improved.

In 2007, Xie Nan accidentally fell down while hosting a grand ceremony while stepping on a 15cm tall height.

This sudden fall shocked the audience, but Xie Nan continued to host the show as if nothing happened.

As everyone knows, making a fool of yourself in the eyes of others has brought opportunities to Xie Nan.

This scene was noticed by the leaders of the Lighting Group. The leaders appreciated Xie Nan's calm ability to control the field and put her in more important positions.

After being appreciated by the leader, Xie Nan, who has excellent comprehensive ability, rose up wildly and became the head host of the Light.

While his future wife was making great progress, Wu Jing was like a "dog in water", returning home in despair.

After more than 10 years of hard work in the entertainment industry, Wu Jing has struggled to achieve success. At the age of 33, he was finally nominated for the Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actor with "A Better Man", but he was just a runner-up.

Seeing that his co-star Nicholas Tse, who is 6 years younger than him, has become the best actor at the Academy Awards, he did not even win a supporting actor award.

Even tough guys will inevitably experience disappointment, and Wu Jing couldn’t help but feel confused about his future.

A friend gave Wu Jing a wolf tooth from the grassland to comfort him when he was depressed:

"The wolf tooth symbolizes strength and forbearance. I hope you can cheer up and find it again." A wild feeling."

Wu Jing suddenly woke up and his blood boiled again.

In the same year, inspired by his friend's Wolf Fang and writer Liu Meng's novel "Lang Fang", Wu Jing planned to direct and star in a work of the same name.

Just go ahead and get 3 million US dollars invested by his boss Huang Baigao, Wu Jing made bold preparations for his film debut.

A year later, the movie "Wolf Fang" was released, and as expected it was a hit.

Although in the long run, this movie is of great significance and laid the foundation for Wu Jing's future direction as a director.

But Wu Jing could never have imagined that a few years later he would be able to make the film that ranked first in the box office in Chinese film history. At that time, he had lost his wife and lost his army, but he only felt that his passion was once again poured out by the cold reality. destroy.

It happened that the Wenchuan earthquake broke out at that time. The frustrated Wu Jing ended his years of wandering in Hong Kong and returned to China to assist the disaster area.

Shortly after returning to China, Wu Jing appeared at the "One Foundation" fundraising gala and raised tens of millions of donations for the disaster area.

At that party, Wu Jing met Michelle Ye who was attending the event together.

The two have a good personal relationship. They were once photographed walking hand in hand, acting intimately, and there were rumors of an affair.

However, both parties involved came forward to refute the rumors and denied the rumors of love.

After the unfinished peach blossoms were wiped out, Wu Jing plunged into the disaster area to rescue.

Different from the common hype nowadays, Wu Jing did not lead a team. He integrated into the ranks of the People's Liberation Army soldiers alone and participated in disaster relief activities day and night.

It was not until Wu Jing became famous that these photos were uncovered.

After the earthquake, the Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Shifang, Sichuan set up a tent near the local Luohan Temple, and the general hospital delivered 108 newborns. These children were called "Luohan babies."

During the disaster relief process, Wu Jing adopted two of the "Arhat babies", and he became a father even before he was married and had no children.

Two years later, these observations became the fodder for Wu Jing and his future wife to talk.

4.

As a mature host who has experienced many battles, Xie Nan rarely performs abnormally, but unexpectedly falls into the hands of his own male god Wu Jing.

In 2010, Wu Jing was a guest in Xie Nan’s interview room.

The talkative Wu Jing and Xie Nan chatted and laughed happily, talking about their experiences in the Wenchuan earthquake that year.

Wu Jing also mentioned that he adopted two godsons during disaster relief, saying that he also wanted to have a baby, but he had to find the mother first.

Xie Nan followed his words and asked him what his standards were for children.

Unexpectedly, Wu Jing targeted herself and started a classic three-question series, which directly caused her 12-year-old boyfriend's filter to shatter on the floor.

The greasy first meeting left a not so good impression on Xie Nan. She and Wu Jingkan maintained a relationship that was not even ordinary friends.

It wasn’t until a year later that colleague Li Ai posted a topic on social platforms about how women balance love and work.

Xie Nan forwarded the topic and expressed her feelings:

"I hope that one day when I find that person, I can say frankly that I only want him because I love him." Be with him, not because of who he is, not because of what he has, because I can give myself everything."

"Maybe when you find the ability to love only for love, Maybe the love is gone."

The two people with different opinions started a discussion. Although no one convinced the other, their relationship began to break the ice and they gradually became close friends who talked about everything.

In 2011, while filming the TV series "I Am a Special Forces Soldier: Knives Out", Wu Jing was accidentally injured.

Later, during the call with Xie Nan, Wu Jing accidentally mentioned the injury.

Xie Nan on the other end of the phone was so concerned that she couldn't help but choke.

The beloved girl cried for him. Wu Jing was ecstatic and felt that he had a chance.

Soon after, Wu Jing, who had gained the confidence, directly opened the skylight and spoke frankly, confessing his love to Xie Nan.

Xie Nan thought: How can I let the male god chase me? I should agree immediately.

But her reason still allowed her to pretend to be reserved and said: "Wait a minute, I will ask my dad."

More than ten years ago, she and her daughter pursued "Tai Chi" Father Xie of "The Grandmaster" is also a long-time fan of Wu Jing, so there is no reason not to agree.

After getting the approval of his future father-in-law, Wu Jing and Xie Nan were like dry wood meeting fire. In just two years, they fell in love, got married, and had children in one step.

On December 21, 2012, the legendary end of the world, Xie Nan publicly expressed his love for Wu Jing: "I just like Wu Jing, and I will protect you well."

And Wu Jing also He shows a contrasting cuteness that does not match his tough guy appearance. His girlfriend never leaves his talk, and he will show affection to Xie Nan from time to time.

In 2013, after having accomplished all the major events in his life, Wu Jing planned to film the movie "Wolf Warrior 1".

Due to the mediocre response to "Spike" a few years ago, investors did not trust this new director.

People around him were not optimistic either and poured cold water on Wu Jing to give up.

Wu Jing, who has been unable to attract investment for a long time, made a desperate move and planned to sell his house.

Before mortgaging the house, Wu Jing anxiously tested Xie Nan's attitude: "Daughter-in-law, if I lose this, I may go bankrupt."

Unexpectedly, Xie Nan Nan didn't care at all and said domineeringly: "Husband, this movie is your dream. If I don't let you realize it, you may not be happy for the rest of your life, and there is no point in keeping this money. I also have a little one." If the house is lost, I can support you if you go back to the hard days before!"

Wu Jing was so moved by the words "I will support you" that he sharpened his sword for several years and decided to make something of it! score.

Everyone has seen the subsequent results. "Wolf Warrior 1" earned 500 million in box office, and "Wolf Warrior 2" took in 5.6 billion in box office, once topping the box office list in mainland China.

The success of the "Wolf Warrior" series allowed Wu Jing to firmly establish himself in the film industry, and later "The Wandering Earth" and "Changjin Lake" helped him become the number one box office player. shake.

Looking back at the beginning, if it were not for Xie Nan and Wu Jing's continuous advancement and retreat, "Wolf Warrior 1" would most likely die in its infancy, and all its glory would be abandoned before dawn.

5.

In front of others, Wu Jing is the "Chinese Wolf Warrior" who pushes his patriotism to a climax, and he is also the high-spirited "Mr. 20 Billion".

But in his marriage to Xie Nan, Wu Jing claimed to be "a superior husband."

How does Xie Nan control her husband if he can make the "Wolf Warrior" surrender?

In an intimate relationship, pretentiousness and sensitivity are negative factors that can kill the relationship.

As for Xie Nanna, these are her unique "passwords to control her husband."

When the box office of "Wolf Warrior 2" was soaring, Wu Jing and Xie Nan appeared in a couple variety show.

In the show, the couple had a disagreement over cooking, and Xie Nan, who had been thinking about it, made Wu Jing suddenly look bad.

The couple quarreled on the spot, causing a lot of noise and scaring away Qi Wei and his wife who came to watch.

In the end, no one convinced the other, and the two broke up unhappy.

Xie Nan said with great frustration that he didn’t know how to accommodate Wu Jing’s emotions.

During dinner, under the guidance of two friends, Xie Nan realized that his behavior was indeed very disturbing and took the initiative to apologize to Wu Jing.

Xie Nan hugged Wu Jing's neck and said softly: "Honey, I love you so much. I was wrong. I shouldn't talk about you."

Softly coquettish The tough man was also tender, Wu Jing's feigned anger instantly collapsed, and the corners of his mouth rose uncontrollably.

Wu Jing was finally defeated, with a smile on his face, and he fed Xie Nan noodles affectionately: "Eat some of my husband's noodles, come here."

Another time , in the variety show "Happiness Trio", Xie Nan's "hypocrisy" occurred again.

Three couples went camping at the beach. He Youjun sang to cheer up, and while singing, he showed his love to Xi Mengyao.

As Xie Nan listened, she suddenly cried and turned around to get into the RV.

Wu Jing on the side quickly followed.

Yu Qian was confused and thought: "Why did the couple sing away?"

When they got to the car, Xie Nan said that she was envious when she saw the young man singing a love song. of.

Wu Jing, who is tone-deaf, looked embarrassed, "If you want this, I really don't know how to do it."

Xie Nan responded, "It's not that I long for this, but I think it's pretty good. "

Wu Jing continued to coax his wife: "I would feel guilty if I didn't bring this kind of beauty to my wife."

Xie Nan replied: "You gave it to me. Beauty is like no other, and I really don’t want to complain at all."

Wu Jing, who really didn’t understand women, sighed: "But you did it for no reason... I don’t know, I will be nervous." < /p>

Seeing that her husband was at a loss, Xie Nan finally revealed the reason for her tears:

“I don’t long for this at all, I just feel that I feel sorry for you. , you have carried so many things, you can’t find the fun mood you had before.”

It turns out that the young and energetic He Youjun reminded Xie Nan of the former Wu Jing, and felt sorry for him who had been overwhelmed by the pressure of life. Zuo Mo has become a 46-year-old middle-aged man who has gone through many vicissitudes of life.

The barrage at this time was very exciting. Some sympathized with Wu Jing's experience, some complained about Xie Nan's pretentiousness, and some understood her sensitivity.

One is delicate and lingering, the other is rough and straightforward. Xie Nan and Wu Jing are often not on the same channel.

But they are exactly complementary. Only two souls that can blend together can turn into true love.

Xie Nan's strength lies in her ability to be as tolerant as water, able to navigate the roles of wife, mother, and host with ease, and proactively adapt to the tough Wu Jing.

The year they got married was a critical period for the filming of "Wolf Warrior 1".

At that time, Wu Jing was too busy to get out of the wedding, so Xie Nanshi, who was already pregnant, turned into a man and took over the wedding preparations.

She said to Wu Jing: "As long as you can attend the wedding day, you don't have to worry about the rest."

On the wedding day, Wu Jing, who was injured during filming, came to the scene on crutches.

At that time, Xie Nan didn’t know what the fate of the movie that cost the couple money and their health would be, but she still reassured Wu Jing during the wedding oath: “You don’t have to promise too much for me. Go forward with all your strength, you have me at home.”

Looking forward more than ten years, Wu Jing’s two confidantes have left him because of practical problems.

Only Xie Nan pushed away the barriers of the world and held hands with him, comforting him when he was uncomfortable, bowing his head when he was wronged, giving when he needed it, and being strong when he was troubled.

These measured "work" and "warmth" are exactly what War Wolf wants.

Wu Jing repaid Xie Nan's efforts, and his fingers were softened by a hundred refinements. He had a bad temper and learned to compromise and give in for Xie Nan.

He once said on the show: "I don't allow others to speak loudly to my wife. As long as she is angry, I can't."

He is a straight man, but he is not exclusive. , supporting his wife in running her own career and dreams.

The wolf warrior, who is a master of martial arts, is "aloof" and is willing to be a follower behind his wife's back.

Many people say that Xie Nan's sensitivity and Wu Jing's irritability will hurt each other.

But there is no perfect love in the world, and marriage never depends on the similarity between two people.

Similar people are suitable for fun, and complementary talents can last forever.

As for how to bridge the gaps in all aspects, Xie Nan, who has a good command of her husband, has already handed in an excellent answer sheet.