The blind date mode of 985 graduates is similar to recruitment. What made the 985 graduates enter this "puzzle"?

The students who graduated in 1985 are excellent, knowledgeable, highly educated and have high standards of natural mate selection. Their blind date model is similar to recruitment. In fact, they can enter this puzzle. If two mismatched people are together, they may feel very happy at first, but gradually they will find that there is no common language at all. Even if married, it is estimated that it will end in divorce.

In fact, we have such an example around us. Take my big cousin for example. 1The students who graduated in 985 have always been proud of their parents. After graduating from college, they also made many blind dates. They have similar academic qualifications and good family conditions, but she chose a handsome big boy. At first, everyone really disagreed and thought that they were not a good match. After all, my cousin is highly educated, but

In this way, the two will soon be together. At first, it was good. Every day, men try their best to make their cousin happy, but after a long time, they find it inappropriate for two people to be together. Usually his big cousin tells her some news, which he doesn't understand at all. All he has in mind is games. If he talks about games, he will be particularly interested. Because of different education and experience, we will never be together.

So I think 985 graduates should choose their targets, especially their academic qualifications. Otherwise, we can find a common language in the future, so that after marriage, two people have nothing to say, and even the other person can't understand what you say. Once this happens, your relationship is not far from the end, and emotional things are not trivial. You must choose carefully.