Etiquette composition: Etiquette is practiced throughout the world

Etiquette composition: Etiquette, conduct in the world

Article/Xu Siyu

Only if a person has etiquette throughout his life, he can conduct it in the world. Etiquette is not a moral character in words, it must be put into action; nor is it a simple word, it is a symbol of Chinese culture; nor is it knowledge written in books, it should be imprinted in our hearts and accompany us throughout our lives. In this way, we can walk in the world without fear.

Hundreds of years ago, it was our country's "etiquette" that foreigners envied, and hundreds of years later, it is also "etiquette" that foreigners despise. Do we really not have that seal today? Is etiquette deep in your heart?

Looking back on the Three Kingdoms period, when wars were raging, Liu Bei devoted himself to the Han Dynasty and always cared about the people. He was famous for his benevolence, righteousness and courtesy. Liu Bei looked at Zhuge Liang's grass three times and invited Kong Ming to come out based on his determination and etiquette. Then in the Battle of Changsha, the famous generals Guan Yu and Huang Zhong fought. After the defeat, Huang Zhong was deeply moved by the courtesy treated by Guan Yu and Liu Bei, and then he devoted himself to Liu Bei's use. It can be seen that courtesy is practiced in the world. That's true.

Nowadays, I have also heard a story about courtesy. A company is recruiting employees, and among the hundreds of people interviewed, only one can be successfully admitted. Of course, everyone is trying their best to get this position. And this company finally found that among the outstanding talents, it was difficult to decide who was qualified to transfer. The planner sent a message to the group - Sorry, you were not admitted. After this message was sent, only one interviewer responded - thank you! Because of this, this success led to this coveted job. It can be seen that one knows etiquette and practices it throughout the world.

What we lack is not etiquette, but the heart to present etiquette. Everyone has their own protective colors, and they often hurt others because of their own protective colors. Maybe they don't really mean it. And from this point of view, we do not lack etiquette. Since ancient times, what we have inherited is the "ritual" that is deeply engraved in our hearts. In the face of other people's unintentional harm, why can't we just say it's okay; in the face of others' rejection , why can’t we say thank you; when facing other people’s opinions, why can’t we listen carefully first? Everything shows that we do not lack etiquette, but lack the heart to show etiquette.

Perhaps due to social changes, in this ever-changing society, your understanding of etiquette may be said to be "pretending" by others, and in such an environment, etiquette becomes more and more irrelevant. The further away. However, we need to vent, and we need to be accompanied by etiquette. Now that we are lacking positive energy, I would like to appeal loudly. If etiquette is in your heart, it will work in the world!

The author is a student of Kunming No. 10 Middle School