Will it be shameful for a man in his 4 s to go to a job fair to find a job? Does this mean that this person's life is like this?

Although you are over 4 years old, even though the streets are full of young post-9s, even though you have to compete with them, you have not chosen to be devastated. Instead, you are actively looking for a job, which shows that you are looking for a way out and a change. This is the most reliable foundation for your life.

Although everyone's situation is different, I want to tell the story of a relative of mine, hoping to bring you some strength.

I have a cousin who will be 5 years old this year.

She came to Shenzhen from her hometown in her twenties and stayed there for more than twenty years. As an uneducated woman with poor economic conditions at home, she is not competitive in this big city of Shenzhen.

after coming to Shenzhen, she first worked in a factory, and after several years, her job closed down. She went to another factory for five or six years.

Later, I met my cousin's brother-in-law, and after getting along for several years, they got married. A year later, they had a child, a nephew of mine.

Cousin's brother-in-law is also an honest man who doesn't study and is not smart, and he is also working for others.

After the baby was born, life became even more difficult. It happened that shortly after the baby was born, she couldn't find a job either. Just relying on her cousin's meager salary, there was no way to support a family's expenses.

at that time, they were in their thirties.

In order to earn more money, they went to Sha Tau Kok, Shenzhen to bring goods to others, that is, they brought goods from Hong Kong to Shenzhen and sold them to shops.

depending on the value of the goods, each product they bring out can be superimposed with a price ranging from ten to dozens. At that time, the entry and exit control at the customs port was very strict. The two of them left their children in a friend's house to be taken care of, and they could earn one or two hundred yuan a day for a trip.

After a few years, the children are getting bigger and bigger, and the family expenses are only a lot more. So, they thought of a way to sell lunch boxes near the entry and exit ports.

It is common for them to get up early every day and work for more than ten hours a day. Life must be hard, but in order to survive, they can only stick to it.

they have been doing this for many years, and now they are almost 5 years old, and they are still selling lunch boxes, but now they have contracted a company canteen to cook meals for the employees of the company regularly every day, including three meals a day.

life is not easy, but as long as you don't give up and face it actively, it must be a road that never shuts off. Maybe my relative's example is very different from yours, but one thing remains the same.

Although life is a dime a dozen, it's not a shame that you are motivated and really look for a way out.

wordy, I hope I can encourage you. Come on.