How to attach importance to important days, anniversaries and festivals of lovers?

Wedding anniversary, partner's birthday, engagement anniversary and so on are all important days in the history of husband and wife's love. When the time comes, take appropriate forms to commemorate it, so that both sides can feel that the other side has deep love for themselves, which will play a great role in consolidating the feelings of husband and wife.

There is such a touching story:

When she married him, she had no family. Apart from the place where she lives, she borrowed a bed, not to mention other furniture. However, she spent all her money to buy a beautiful lamp to hang in the middle of the room. He asked her why she spent so much money on a luxurious lamp. She smiled and said, "A bright lamp can light up a bright future." He dismissed it and laughed at her for believing some nonsense.

Gradually, life got better. They moved into their new house, but she was reluctant to throw away the lamp, carefully wrapped it in paper and collected it.

Soon, he resigned and went to sea, and gained millions of wealth after working hard in the shopping mall. Like all rich people, he first hired a beautiful female secretary, and soon she became his lover. He began to go out under various excuses, and then he simply didn't go home at night without explaining. She tried every means to persuade him to keep him, to no avail.

It's his birthday, and his wife told him to go home for his birthday anyway. He agreed, but remembered the request of a beautiful lover. After some hesitation, he decided to spend his birthday with his lover and then go home.

A lover's birthday present is a delicate tie. He casually put it aside, he had drunk too much. At midnight, he remembered his wife's words and hurried home.

Far away, he saw a place as bright as day in a quiet and dark building. He saw that this was his home, and a distant and cordial feeling rose in his heart. That's how she waits for him to come back with the light on every night.

Pushing open the door, she sat at the sumptuous dining table in tears, without any tiredness. When she saw him come back, she was neither happy nor angry. She just said, "The food is cold. I will heat it up again. "

He didn't stop her because he knew her pain. When everything was ready, she took out a paper box and gave it to him as a birthday present. He turned on the lamp. It was a delicate lamp. She said with tears: "At that time, my family was poor, so I bought a good lamp to illuminate your way home;" Now I send you a lamp to tell you that I hope you are still a bright light in my heart. It can light up my life. "

He was finally moved. A woman chooses to send a lamp to her man. How much sustenance and hope it contains! He is ashamed of the brightness of this lamp.

He finally returned to her, chose his wife and gave up his lover. Because he learned that love is a lamp, whether it can illuminate his future or not, it will certainly illuminate a person's way home. Because this lamp was lit from the bottom of my heart by a woman with the love of her life. In fact, there are at least two or more opportunities a year, and you can give him exquisite and unique gifts to make your lover ecstatic and excited. These opportunities include your lover's birthday, your wedding anniversary and so on. If necessary, you can also send a message from the depths of your soul to the other party at any other time. I believe this message will excite the other party.

So what kind of gift should I buy? Refuse to buy all toys, cartoons and season cards. For example, if you send a beautiful greeting card, remember that there should be sincere and sensitive handwritten words on the greeting card, giving people a feeling of handwriting. The title of the greeting card is listed in detail according to the content and theme of the card, such as: "Dearest, why do I love you", "My life has changed since the day I met you", "I have always dreamed of meeting someone like you", "Please forgive me", "I miss our intimacy so much" and "How can I thank you enough".

Two more suggestions:

First of all, what a wonderful feeling it is to buy a card one month before the special anniversary, with a beautiful card in the briefcase, and anxiously look forward to the day when the card is sent and the warm welcome this carefully selected card has received.

Secondly, before signing, write a few short words at the bottom of the greeting card. Although the congratulatory message printed on the greeting card has expressed your meaning quite beautifully, writing a few words of your own will make the greeting card more meaningful.

It doesn't cost much to let the other person know how much you miss her (or him). On an ordinary day, a carefully selected card will make the other person feel great love and understanding, which is only a small effort for you, but it is of great significance to the other person.

Speaking of it, if you want to make these special days full of romance and warmth, as long as you do it with your heart, sometimes even a special meal will enhance the relationship between husband and wife and make life full of sweetness and warmth.

I once heard a very true story from a friend:

My friend is from Shanxi. He opened a small restaurant in Fujiazhuang, Xinfadi Bridge. Most of the renters living in Zhuangzi are from heshun county, Shanxi. This restaurant is very small. Beer and cold dishes are served in summer. There are also hot dishes when the weather is cold, but they are all simple dishes, mainly sold in Daoxiao Noodles. Daoxiao Noodles's practice is very skillful. Eating it with egg white is not only delicious, but also makes people feel weak. Cut it into a pot with boiling water with a paring knife. When the water turns over the flowers again, take it out and pour it into the cooked broth. In addition to vegetables, there are some pieces of meat in it, and half a spoonful of red pepper oil is poured on it. Make sure you have good color, smell and price. It's two yuan and fifty cents a bowl.

Because there are many villagers living here, and he is also an authentic hometown dish, which is very affordable, so the villagers love to eat here. He does all the work of the boss and waiter alone. When the kitchen is ready, he will bring it to the guests. When there are no guests, he also cleans and buys raw materials.

No matter how busy the business is, he doesn't feel tired, because when he left his hometown, he proudly promised his girlfriend that he would make money to make her enjoy happiness.

Although his girlfriend cried and wouldn't let him leave her, she repeatedly stated that she didn't want his money, and she didn't dislike his lack of money, so she would feel very happy with him.

But how can he give her happiness without money?

People who come here to eat are usually three or two people, order three or four cold dishes and a bottle of Erguotou, and then drink loudly. After drinking a bottle of Erguotou, I won't be drunk, and then I will pour noodles. It won't cost 20 yuan altogether.

After a long time, he found that a man and a woman always came to eat noodles on Monday, which was very regular and came early. 1 1 in the morning, they came before the other guests came in. Sitting in the corner, then the man whispered to him and said softly, "Two bowls of Daoxiao Noodles!" "

Both of them are in their forties, their faces are dark and covered in oil. Neither of them likes to talk. They ate the Daoxiao Noodles he served quietly. They sweat when they eat, and then they will take a break before eating. At this time, the woman will take out the napkin from the tableware box on the table and wipe the sweat on the man's head. The movements are delicate and full of tenderness, and the man will stare at the woman with his eyes.

It's easy for you to feel happiness from that look in your eyes.

When eating, they will meet two or three people they know, say a few words, but not much, just say hello, and then bow their heads to eat.

For three or four months in a row. He also became curious about them, so he asked the villagers who talked to them and asked what they were doing.

The villagers said that they are husband and wife, and they are from Shunxian Township. It is said that the villagers are "rich" when they work in Beijing. After the Spring Festival this year, their son, who ran away from home, also came to Beijing. Both of them shined shoes under the Xinfadi overpass.

Time flies, and it's winter in a blink of an eye. The old father called him and said that the family had built a wedding room for him and asked him to go home and get married. His father said in the letter: "You are the oldest, and it's time to settle the marriage!" " At this point, he had a different idea from when he first came. When he first came, he wanted to earn money and get married at home. Now he has no intention of going back. He must buy a house in Beijing and marry his bride beautifully, because … money is everything, and he must give her happiness! So, he told his father that he would not go back, that he would make a lot of money here and buy a house, and then, "I want to get married in Beijing"!

He is determined to make money and change his life by making money.

It's another Monday morning, and I don't know what my mood is. Before 1 1 am, he kept looking out, hoping to see them. However, they didn't come again that day, and he felt very lost and didn't feel good all day.

At 1 1 the next morning, the couple came. This time, not only did they make an exception to come on Tuesday, but the man also made an exception to order two cold dishes and a bottle of Erguotou wine at two o'clock.

Food and wine were provided. The husband poured a little wine for his wife and the rest into his own cup. They held cups in their hands, raised their eyebrows, touched them and drank them. His wife's face is full of happy smiles. Soon, perhaps because of the wine, his wife's face flushed.

Seeing their happiness, he couldn't help being jealous. He took the opportunity to add boiling water to them and asked them, "Today, I want to drink water!" "

Men can't seem to drink too much, so they are slightly drunk after drinking less than two ounces of wine. Hearing his question, he looked up and said shyly, "Today … in the past … we got married at this time!" " "

He still understood his incoherent words. Today is their wedding anniversary.

Unexpected, really unexpected! Two shoeshine workers under the overpass will also go to the bar for a drink on their wedding anniversary to celebrate their holiday.

What's the accident? Later he asked himself. Can't the shoeshine man celebrate his wedding anniversary? Everyone has their own happiness and different lifestyles. Isn't it a kind of happiness to have a few drinks in a pub on our wedding anniversary?

He excitedly returned to the counter and arranged for the chef in the kitchen to cook two hot dishes. I came to them with a bottle of Erguotou and poured some for each of them: "Come, I wish you happiness!" " "

This afternoon, he called his girlfriend and told her that he would go back to get married at once: "I want to understand that happiness lies in two people caring about each other, not whether they have money!" " "

Now, not only is he married, but his children are going to school soon. Whenever he thinks about this, his friends will always say with emotion, "I often think of two shoeshine people." I really want to thank them! Without their inspiration, I don't know how many teenagers I need to enjoy this happy day! "