Give yourself an inspiring word: you can say "you are tired", but you can never say "no"

1, we are all the same, running in the heavy rain and looking for it in the dark. Even if the hope is blown away by the wind, or the dream is interrupted by thunder, we must always adhere to a belief that we will always reach that distant place.

2, don't think how important you are, in my heart you are not even as good as sand.

3. "Facing the irreversible collapse of life, the only thing we can do is to understand it."

4. In the face of mistakes made by others, don't blame blindly, please choose to forgive ... In the face of your own mistakes, you should dare to bear and don't escape. ...

You can say "you are tired", but you must never say "no"

6. I am a lonely person, so I no longer expect companionship and warmth; I will welcome you when you come, rain or shine; I will send you away, no matter how painful it is.

7. Don't be afraid of failure when you are young, and don't rely too much on being a man.

8, love is love, whether happy or sad, at least experienced. When I am old, I have no feeling of heartbeat except my physiological instinct.

9. Try to touch yourself and struggle.

10, I don't know the loss until the end; I don't know how to cherish until I lose it.

1 1, passionate, single-minded, not hiding one's edge, taking dreams as horses and building a better life together! Such a party is young.

12 is not a question of whether it is worth it, but what you believe.

13, Qiang is just someone else's one-man show. God knows how many tears you have swallowed behind your back, how many struggles you can't mention, and the helplessness that no one can understand.

14, there are always things that make people forget the time. There are always some things that must be put aside, because there is still tomorrow.

15, the road I take is the most beautiful wind and rain.

Workplace rule: You can be the boss's confidant, but you must not invite pets.

Workplace rule: You can be the boss's confidant, but you must not be invited to the company as a pet. The boss is the person who can directly decide your fate. So now people in the workplace are shouting everywhere: it is better to be a man than to do things.

Getting the boss's appreciation and attention, and then becoming the boss's right-hand man, may be one of the things that every employee desires most. Because this is not only the boss's affirmation of his work ability, but also expands his professional life space, laying a solid foundation for his further development and winning a good development platform.

In the traditional concept of China people, the word cronies has a very obvious derogatory color. Because in the traditional language environment of China, cronies are always associated with court struggles, nepotism and so on, which is despised by people. Of course, even so, the role of cronies is still immeasurable. Throughout history, many princes and princes have strengthened their power by gathering a group of cronies around them and sweeping away dissidents.

In modern society, workplace cronies can refer to the core relationship layer that is most closely United around the boss. If you want to feel at home in the workplace, becoming the boss's confidant is undoubtedly the only way to succeed in the workplace.

The word confidant, literally speaking, means to kiss before believing. Believe before you speak, because you believe this man and you believe his words. Believe what a person does because he recognizes it. In the modern workplace, the word confidant contains multiple meanings such as exquisiteness, trust, recognition and appreciation, all of which contain positive energy and represent a superior relationship that transcends the general boss and subordinates. The so-called cronies are those whom the boss fully trusts. They can make the boss feel comfortable and at ease.

Coleman, an American human resource management scientist, said: Whether employees can be promoted depends largely on whether they work hard or not, but on the degree of recognition from their superiors. It can be seen that if any employee wants to achieve greater development in the team, he must first become the boss's confidant, win the boss's goodwill, gain the boss's trust, and establish a tacit relationship with the boss that transcends ordinary superiors and subordinates. Only in this way can you stand out among many subordinates and establish a unique position in the boss's mind.

As the saying goes, when you get the boss's approval, establish a good and harmonious relationship with you, and then become a confidant, it is bound to be the easiest to be reused. If you can win the appreciation and reuse of your boss, then he will become a booster for your success; On the contrary, he will be a stumbling block to your success.

In short, the boss is the person who holds the lifeblood of your career. Therefore, understanding the nature of the boss, understanding the boss's psychology, and then getting on well with the boss is a compulsory course for everyone who wants to get a brilliant career. However, it is not easy to win the boss's favor and become his most trusted confidant. You need to know how to conquer the boss skillfully and master the way to get along with the boss.

To gain the trust of others, we need not only honest products, but also efficient execution ability and perfect work habits. No matter how good a person is, if he is indecisive, unclear, lacking agile wrist and decisive decision-making ability, he can't maintain his credit. Once you get this job, the first thing you have to do is to be competent. If you can't even do such a basic thing for your boss, where will you start to make great achievements in the future? Therefore, to be the boss's confidant, the first rule is to be the boss's best assistant.

In the history of Microsoft, Li Wanjun is the youngest middle-level manager. Many people don't understand why he was promoted to middle management because he is a rookie and has no work experience. This position is what ordinary people need to struggle for seven or eight years to be competent! In fact, this needs to start from the beginning:

1998, a 22-year-old graduate of Li Wanjun University, applied to Microsoft Technical Support Center as a network engineer. At a young age, he was very self-motivated and mature at work, and soon became one of the boss's most effective assistants. Two months after joining the company, he found that there were many shortcomings in the reporting system used in the company's assessment: the assessment report was not sent to the manager until the end of each month, and the manager could not deploy and supervise the employees in time, and the employees could not be effectively supervised and improved; At the same time, under the current circumstances, once the business volume suddenly increases or employees leave, it may delay a lot of work and even cause great losses for the newly developed Shanghai Technical Support Center.

In view of this, Li Wanjun used ASp (a script on Microsoft server) during the weekend break to write a report applet he expected and sent it to Tang Jun, then the general manager of Microsoft Shanghai. A month later, this report system replaced the Excel report copied by Microsoft headquarters and was put into use on the internal website in Shanghai. What makes Li Wanjun feel more gratified is that the report he designed for staying up late not only achieved the expected effect of motivating employees, but also expanded the application scope of the system by adding the report function every month. After half a year, it will be applied throughout Microsoft Europe.

Because of his outstanding performance and outstanding achievements in his work, Tang Jun took a fancy to the potential quality of his thinking from the perspective of managers, so just two years later, he was appointed as a middle-level manager, responsible for setting up the on-site support department in Asia, becoming the youngest middle-level in Microsoft history.

There is no shortcut to success. The more you give, the more you gain. A diligent and efficient assistant who can solve problems for the boss at a critical moment can not only become his cronies, but also win his respect.

Someone once analyzed the top celebrities around the CEOs of the top ten domestic enterprises. In this analysis, ten trustworthy bosses have different genders, different ages, different educational levels and different ways of doing things, but the final analysis shows that they have a very obvious similarity: loyalty. It is their common belief to unite closely around the boss and be highly loyal to the boss and the company, and it is also the most basic code of conduct at work.

Both enterprises and units have a core layer. Usually, people at this level benefit the most, and the core figure is the boss's cronies. In the professional field, people with certain ambitions really want to enter the core layer. Since it is called the core layer, it is naturally a small group, and the number of people who can squeeze in is very limited. The admission ticket at this level is not position, performance, contribution, knowledge, but loyalty. Senior managers may not be able to enter this level. Some senior managers, who are in high positions, may be the object of supervision by the boss, and his every move is secretly monitored at any time. On the contrary, a humble little person may be an important member of this core layer.

Five years ago, Liu Ming and Xu Hai were college classmates. After graduation, they went to the south together and went to a computer software company through a job fair to be responsible for the design and development of some office software. We entered a start-up IT company together, and it is difficult to compete with those powerful companies. Three months later, Liu Ming wavered. He advised Xu Hai not to do it either. There are many good companies. Why did he hang himself from a tree?

At first, Xu Hai was a little shaken, but seeing the boss running around day and night and sincere eyes, he couldn't bear to speak again. Who doesn't know the hardships of starting a business! The boss is also forced. Shortly after Liu Ming left, the company's capital chain broke and was on the verge of despair. A few people left, leaving only Xu Hai and the boss. Looking at the boss's young and haggard eyes and lonely and firm back, Xu Hai strengthened his will instead. He is a man who is unwilling to give up. At this time, his sense of mission to the company is no different from that of the boss. He thinks that what he can do is to be loyal to the company, to be loyal to the boss, to help each other in the same boat, to give full play to his talents, to strive for perfection and to make good products.

For a long time, Xu Hai lived with his boss and became a real friend in need. After half a year, the boss raised new funds and the company resumed operations. Because of the good quality of products, buyers are willing to pay first and then ask for goods, and the company's situation has begun to turn around. In a negotiation, they successfully persuaded a powerful investment company to buy a new type of office software, which they had long thought had a broad market prospect. Six months later, the new products went on the market, and the demand was in short supply. They finally found their first bucket of gold. Next, the company began to recruit and grow, and in just a few years, it became a well-known software company in the industry.

After the company started, Xu Hai was promoted to vice president and technical director with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan. In order to thank Xu Hai for bringing him light, hope and courage in the darkest days, the boss gave him 20% shares! Liu Ming, who left his job at the beginning, still retains a salary of three or four thousand yuan, and complains about being his junior programmer.

Those cronies who can follow the boss for a long time and gain broader development space are bound to be highly loyal to the boss. They should think more about their boss and unite with him, because loyalty represents reliability and trustworthiness, which is the most worthy virtue in the workplace. If you were the boss, would you let a disloyal person near you? The closest person, once unfaithful, has the best chance to hurt you. People who confide in their bosses to solve problems, and people who are loyal to their bosses and share the same fate, are often more likely to win the trust of their bosses, be entrusted with heavy responsibilities by their bosses, and achieve career success.

After becoming the boss's cronies, many people think that they have the capital to please the boss's pet, get carried away, lose the accurate positioning of their identity and role, forget their identity and role in the company, and think that they and the boss are one of their own, which will lead to the boss's resentment and distrust.

Others, while accepting the important task entrusted by the boss, are complacent, thinking that they have done a great thing for the boss and made great contributions to the company's development, so they began to ask the boss to spoil in front of everyone. As the saying goes, there are no fathers and sons in the mall. In a profit-oriented enterprise, especially a modern enterprise with clear property rights, the boss and you are two parallel lines that never intersect. The boss is the absolute leader, and the employees are the object of the boss's management. Even if they are close to the boss, they are still managed, and the two sides are always antagonistic to some extent. Employees should be clear about their own position and position, have strict boundaries and restrictions on this relationship, regard the boss as the closest person in their work attitude and responsibility, and keep their duties well, instead of relying on their own pets to win credit.

Once you are proud of yourself, be a hero in front of your boss, or hint at a promotion and salary increase, even if your boss doesn't say anything, your trust in you will be greatly reduced, and even you will be disgusted. It's hard to say whether I will regard you as a confidant in the future.

It is better to be rewarded for meritorious service than to give for it. Duties don't need extra help. As a true confidant, you should know how to think of the boss and the company from the boss's point of view, instead of just relying on this intimate relationship to seek any benefits for yourself. When you establish an irreplaceable position in the boss's mind, the boss will naturally give you generous treatment and protection in return. Once you become the boss's most irreplaceable confidant, your dream career success is not far away.

9 others can only influence you, but they can never decide.

1, there are always many unfairness in life: some people are sincere for truth, and some people are sincere for sadness.

There are always some contradictions in life: too honest when you are young, and too dishonest when you grow up.

As a man, you should learn to listen. Listening to the wise can enlighten wisdom, and listening to criticism can reflect on yourself.

4, carefree is not not not trying, but after trying, no matter whether the result is good or bad, you will face it with peace of mind.

Everyone who has been in love knows that sometimes pretending not to love someone is more painful than breaking up.

6, your own way, go by yourself, others can only influence you, never decide you.

7. Remember these two points when dealing with people: First, others are important; Second, it's important to be yourself-it's good for you to spend some time looking at others from an equal perspective.

8, impatient heart, can not smell the calm and elegant flowers; Aggressive people may step on their own mines step by step.

9. You can't take what others think is important as the basis for achieving your goals. Only through your own practical experience and careful thinking can you know what is best for you and what is most important to you.

50 classic funny quotations, laughing to death.

1, living alone, people can only waste; Wives and concubines in groups make people know how to be frugal. But now, I am eager to be frugal in waste all day.

Being single is very painful. Being single for a long time is more painful. A few days ago, I saw a sow. I think its eyes are very good. ...

I am in a bad mood today. I only have four words to say. Including this sentence and the first two sentences. I finished ...

4. I just found out that the way to attract a man is to make him not get it; The way to attract a woman is just the opposite, that is, to satisfy her.

If happiness is a cloud, if pain is like a star. Then my life is really cloudless and full of stars in Wan Li …

6. In life, you can't hang yourself on a tree, but try to die several times on several nearby trees.

7. The cat greets the cow. The cow teased the cat and said, You have a beard so young! The cat was very angry and said, why don't you wear a bra when you are so old?

8. Someone asked me, are you handsome? I said I was not handsome. He hit me and told you to lie.

9. Two drunks were driving like crazy. A: "Be careful! There is a sharp turn ahead. " B: "What? Aren't you driving? "

10, generally, boys are not allowed to go to the girls' building, and they must leave before 8 pm, otherwise the aunt at 8 pm will shout loudly: girls, Fujian.

1 1. Foreigners who have learned some Mandarin. Say hello to the secretary in the morning. "How are you?" The young lady stared at him. He paused and immediately said to her, "Hello, Mom!" " "

12. A farmer's daughter was so ugly that he had to let her be a scarecrow in the corn field to scare crows. As a result, not only did she scare away the crows, but even three crows were scared to send some corn back.

13. If marriage is the grave of love, the model couple is only a' model graveyard' at best.

14, the father said sternly to his daughter's boyfriend, "can't you just take my daughter to the movies every day?" The young man was surprised and happy: "You mean you can do other things?"

15, salary is dead. If the salary is worthy of going to work, you have to go to work less.

16, a stutterer invigilated and found a student peeking. He shouted angrily: "You, you, you, you dare to cheat, stand up for me!" " Five students stood up.

17, a couple went to register for marriage. "Have you ever had a premarital examination?" "Yes, his house and car are complete." "I'm going to the hospital." The young woman blushed and whispered, "Yes, it's a boy."

18, maintaining life lies in exercise, and creating life also lies in exercise. The difference is-under the bed.

19, you ask me, where is happiness? I tell you, if you stand on tiptoe, you can get closer to happiness. If you close your eyes, you can feel happiness. ...

20. If you blink, I will die. If you blink again, I will come back to life. If you keep blinking, I will die.

2 1, Xiaoming and Xiaohua go to the zoo to play. When they entered the door, Xiao Ming pointed to Xiaohua and said to the doorman, "Look clearly! Come out later, don't say I stole your monkey! "

22. No matter how high a woman stands, she can only wet the land under her feet; Men are amazing, stand higher and pee farther!

23. Teacher, just follow the old lady! After a long time ... teacher, please give me a break!

24. The mother bird burst into tears, and the male bird said angrily: How many times have I told you that this ring was worn by the bird research station, not a wedding ring! I'm not married!

25. During a military parade, the head of an army walked by with his head held high, saying "Hello comrades", "Hello head", "Comrades have worked hard", "Comrades are tanned" and "The head is black".

26. Someone met a friend in the street. When he first asked about his friend's wife, he suddenly remembered that she had passed away, so he changed his tune: "Is she still in the original cemetery?"

27. A man and his wife are often ambiguous, but they don't see it. Colleagues send a pair of couplets. Part I: As long as the days go by, part II: Even if the head is a little green, cross-examine: the ninja turtle.

28. Two birds saw a hunter aiming at them. One said, you protect the scene and I'll call the police!

29. You are very creative, and living is your courage; Ugliness is not your intention, but God has a little temper; Without you, you have to live bravely ... who will set off the beauty of the donkey!

30. Three small animals are chatting in the forest. Pig said: nicknames are popular now, so you can call me pig in the future. Rabbit: ok, I'll call it rabbit. Chicken face is unhappy: I have work to do, so I have to go first.

3 1, my dream life: I wake up naturally and count my money until my hands cramp. My real life: count the money until I wake up naturally and sleep until my hands cramp. ...

32. The depreciation rate of women is amazing. It only takes one night to change from a' new' mother to an' old' woman.

33, the effect of contraception: unsuccessful, it will become a' person'.

34. Looking at beautiful women in the street is appreciation if you look up, and hooligans if you look down.

35. Money treats me like dirt, and I treat money like dirt! It's all dirt. Who's afraid of who?

36. Lie on your back tonight, get up early tomorrow, lie prone tomorrow, and stay up late the day after tomorrow ... to exercise. Sometimes it's that simple.

37. I know I'm not a handsome guy, but someone saw my full moon photo and said my left nostril was idolized.

38. Before eating peanuts, monkeys should put peanuts in their buttocks before taking them out. The administrator explained: Someone once fed it peaches, but the peach core could not be pulled out. The monkey is afraid. You must measure it before eating now.

39. Don't call children rabbits, because from a genetic point of view, it is not good for parents.

40. Real steamed bread is everything. You can eat when you are hungry. If you want to eat cake, pat the steamed bread flat; If you want to eat noodles, comb the steamed bread with a comb; If you want a hamburger, cut the steamed bread and eat it. ...

4 1, the inner beauty that men say refers to the inside of the bra, not the heart.

42. But I read the so-called contemporary women's criteria for choosing a spouse: having a car and a house, and both parents are dead. Depressed. I wrote down the imaginary criteria for choosing a spouse: the family property is over 100 million yuan, the beauty is the best in the world, the goodness is gentle and sexy, and the father-in-law has terminal cancer. ...

43. My father asked me what kind of life I wanted. I answered money and beauty, and my father punched me in the face; I answered career and love, and my father touched my head appreciatively.

44. All the columns except one are well filled in. The column of "relationship" should be filled with "mother-in-law" instead of "nervous"

45. Life is really boring. Last month, a buddy of mine borrowed 4000 yuan from me, saying that he was going to have plastic surgery. Now I don't know what he has become.

46. I think I should lose weight. Last time I donated blood, I actually shed 100 ml of lard.

47. If marriage is the grave of love, then the annual wedding anniversary celebration is to sweep the grave.

48. A young lady walks at night, and there is a thief in Lu Yu: "Hand over the money!" The young lady replied, "No, even if you force me, I won't give it!" " "The robber looked at the young lady carefully and said," You think it is beautiful! "

49, men, the upper body is self-cultivation, the lower body is the essence; Women, the upper body is the bait, and the lower body is the trap.

50. On Valentine's Day, I turned around and found the phone number of a girl I secretly loved in middle school, and sent her a short message: If there is only one bowl of porridge, you drink half first, and I will put the rest in my arms to keep you warm ... A few minutes later, she replied with a short message: Who introduced you? 400 at a time and 700 at night.