Don't bow to fate, be brave.

There is such a China wisdom in Caigen Tan:

The meaning of this passage is: when others are rich, I still stick to the heart of kindness. I still stick to the principle of benevolence and righteousness when others are high officials and generous. A noble gentleman will not be bound and bought by wealth and reputation.

Man can conquer nature, and as long as he works hard, he will certainly overcome fate. If his mind and will concentrate on one aspect, his feelings will shift, so a talented and virtuous gentleman will never be subject to fate and will never bow to it.

Different people have different interpretations and understandings of the word "fate".

Some people think that people are doomed at birth, and there is a view that "life must do something, and there is no need to force it". Everything goes with the flow and cannot be forced.

Some people think that my fate is not decided by heaven, but is in my own hands. As long as I work hard, I can change my destiny.

Many successful people always like to use "good luck" to describe their success.

And more unhappy people complain about their "fate", unfair fate and social inequality.

In fact, life is alive, how can it be smooth sailing. The so-called good luck of successful people is only superficial, and the sadness and efforts behind it are unknown. Only those who work hard know that it is not easy, and there is no casual success, which is the condensation of sweat and tears.

Therefore, in the process of growth and success, we will always encounter all kinds of failures and helplessness, which requires us to open the closed door of our hearts, face bravely and accept all the goodness and misfortunes that life has given us.

Whether we are an elf who laughs at the sky or a mediocre clown on land depends on ourselves.

After all, God only gave us looks, our appearance, but our destiny is in our own hands. As long as we set our own goals in our hearts, work hard for them and pursue them unremittingly, we will certainly be able to break through the cocoon of difficulties in life and turn pupae into butterflies.

Many people in our life just want to enjoy the flowers and applause of success, but they can't stand the pain and suffering behind failure.

Therefore, in the face of difficulties and challenges, we should be brave enough to accept them, and we should try whether it is successful or not. As the saying goes, "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?"

Only by conquering ourselves and accepting the baptism of fate can we learn from failure and find the shadow of success in unremitting persistence.

Silampa once said: "The first condition of all victories is to defeat yourself."

I once saw a news on the Internet that Cao Xiaojie, a poor girl in Sichuan, failed the college entrance examination twice. Because she didn't bow to fate, through her unremitting efforts, she was finally recognized by the three companies.

Cao Xiaojie was born in a small mountain village in Lin Yu Town, Luzhou City, Sichuan Province. Her parents are both out-and-out farmers with poor families. The family's income only depends on a few acres of land to maintain their lives. It is such a girl from a poor family who has suffered two college entrance examinations.

If you were someone else, you might have given up the idea of studying long ago, or your family would advise you: "You are not cut out for reading, forget it!" "

However, Cao Xiaojie still didn't give up studying, and neither did her parents. Her choice may be related to her parents' cognition. Because of poverty, Cao Xiaojie's parents deeply realized that only by studying and going to college can Xiaojie's fate be changed.

"When I was a child, my family's economic conditions were not good, and the tens of yuan tuition fees with my brother were often not paid. But no matter how difficult it is, my parents never let me drop out of school. " Cao Xiaojie said.

Thanks to the full support of her family and Cao Xiaojie's perseverance, even if she fails in the college entrance examination, her life will not fail. She chose a junior college to continue her studies.

She believes that diligence can make up for it. With a struggle against fate, she spent all the time when others were playing and the rest time when others were studying, and almost the whole person was immersed in the joy of learning. It is impossible for such students not to be excellent.

It was her hard work and unremitting pursuit, plus courage and strong self-confidence, and finally the three companies crossed the company and threw an olive branch to her.

Cao Xiaojie's experience tells us that it is not terrible to fail in the college entrance examination, but to lose the courage to become excellent.

Whether a junior college student or an undergraduate student, what really determines your future success is not your academic qualifications, but your positive attitude and indomitable spirit of not bowing to fate.

Everyone has a dream, but in the process of realizing it, difficulties and setbacks are always with us, so we should face it bravely, overcome it, never bow to fate, and be brave to be ourselves.

We are all familiar with Jay Chou. He can be described as a musical genius.

However, his fame is a history of hard work and tears. Even this genius, when he first debuted, received an infinite cold reception, which can be described as down and out.

However, this musical genius who was once down and out has now become a national idol. This is inseparable from his persistence and efforts.

When I was a child, Jay Chou's study was not satisfactory. But he is very interested in music.

Jay Chou failed many times because of his serious partiality, so he didn't go to college. After leaving high school for more than a year, he took two college music exams, both of which ended in failure.

At that time, Jay Chou's family was not very rich, so it was impossible to support him to go directly to the road of singing. In desperation, Jay Chou, who was only 17 years old, chose to enter the society to make money, first solving the survival problem and then considering the next development.

1June 1996, Jay Chou, who graduated from high school, chose to work in a restaurant. The work in a small restaurant is very simple. She handed the cook's food to the waitress, and then the waitress gave the food to the guests.

Even so, he didn't leave his music world, took a walkman and listened to songs while working. So once I was fined 2000 Taiwan dollars by my boss because I accidentally poured a pot of soup on the waitress.

In order to improve the quality of the restaurant, the boss decided to put a piano in the lobby, but he could not interview several pianists in succession.

Jay Chou secretly tried it in his spare time, and the sound of the piano shocked many colleagues, including the boss, so he could play the piano for two hours every day without running errands. This is the second turning point in his life.

Working in a restaurant and playing the piano gave Jay Chou the opportunity to perform in public and gradually accumulated his own audience. 1September, 997, Jay Chou's cousin secretly helped Jay Chou sign up for the entertainment program Super Newcomer King in Wu Zongxian.

Jay Chou is too shy to even sing her own songs on the stage. He found a friend to sing, and he accompanied him on the piano. The performance of the two was terrible and they were booed.

Coincidentally, when Wu Zongxian, the host, passed by the piano, he was surprised to find that the young man sitting next to the piano who was afraid to lift the piano wrote a very complicated tune.

So after the show, he went to Jay Chou and asked, "Are you interested in joining my record company as a music production assistant?" This is the third turning point in his life.

As an assistant record producer, Jay Chou finally saved the country and really stepped onto the main stage of the record industry. However, it was not smooth sailing at first.

During his six months in the record company, he wrote many songs, but because of his strange style, although he recommended many, no singer was willing to accept them. These include Andy Lau who rejected Tears Don't Cry and May who rejected Nunchaku.

Wu Zongxian was in a hurry, and decided to give Jay Chou, a young man, some blows. He asked Jay Chou to come to his office and tell him that his songs were terrible. With a calm face, he crumpled up his music and threw it into the wastebasket.

Jay Chou turned to leave in silence. The next day, the third day, until the seventh day, Wu Zongxian can see Jay Chou's new songs on his desk every day.

It was this persistence that moved Wu Zongxian, who decided to give Jay Chou a chance. 1one day in February, 999, Wu Zongxian called Jay Chou to his room and said, if you can write 50 new songs in 10 days, I will take out 10 songs and make an album to help you release them.

After 10 days, Jay Chou quietly took out 50 songs, and Wu Zongxian kept his promise and selected 10 songs to make a music album, which was released in June 2000 under the name of "Jielun". This album made Jay Chou famous in one fell swoop, and from then on, she became an Asian superstar.

No one's success is achieved overnight, and Jay Chou is getting better and better step by step with his own talent and efforts.

Therefore, the harder you work, the luckier you are. It is not that hard-working people are luckier, but that hard-working people can seize opportunities and achieve their goals in life when they encounter opportunities.

Never yield to fate, never yield to life. Adversity is the only way in life, and those who dare to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger. May everyone break through adversity, ride the wind and waves and become stronger and stronger. "One day, I will ride the long wind, break through the stormy waves, sail straight and build a bridge on the deep sea."