Is the person you like still with you?

Of course, it is by my side, not only by my side, but also by my husband, the father of my child. Yes, we got married two years ago. It was our first love, except that we had no emotional history.

We met in the first year of high school, and we were at the front and back tables. After more than half a year, we have changed from simple acquaintance to good friends who talk about everything (because we are not as open as boys and girls now, and many boys and girls ignore each other). Because they are not the kind of naughty students, the topic together is to discuss those who don't understand the problem. Over time, they naturally became very good friends. But high school is a period of intense study, so we are just friends and have never had other ideas.

We spent three years of intense and meaningful high school life together. Although the classmates around us have been gossiping about us in the past three years, we don't have that idea and always regard each other as good friends.

After the college entrance examination ended and the universities were selected, he asked me to go to the county seat, because we were going to separate soon, so it was necessary for good friends to meet. I kept my appointment as scheduled, and he seemed to have been waiting there. We asked each other where the university was enrolled and when it started, and then we tried to find a topic to chat with. Once we didn't know what to say, and it was embarrassing. Although we are good friends, after all, when men and women are alone, something always feels wrong.

After chatting for about an hour, I finally have nothing to say. The whole air smelled of embarrassment, and I tried to think of something that could be used as a topic, but I failed. He suddenly spoke and said, in fact, I like you for a long time, but I was nervous at that time and didn't dare to delay your study. But now, we have received the admission notice, and now I am not as nervous as before. Can you be my girlfriend? In the face of his sudden confession, I was helpless. I only felt irritable on my face and didn't know how to answer him.

He saw that you ignored me, so he went on to say, if you don't hate me, just try to have sex. Hearing him say this, I relaxed a little and nodded. In this way, we decided to contact for a period of time first, because we are very familiar with each other and have known each other for a long time, so it is impossible to say that we have no good feelings. But our universities are not in the same city, which means that we will face geographical separation as soon as we are together. We chose to try a long-distance relationship and explore our feelings by the way.

The long-distance love for the next four years was not as painful as everyone said, and we also quarreled, but after each quarrel, we found that our feelings seemed to be deeper. We talk on the phone every day, telling each other what happened that day, or sharing happy things, or unhappy things, or chatting about gossip stories of former classmates ... We just don't want to hang up and let each other's voices disappear. That feeling is sweet to think about now.

We have withstood the test of different places, and our feelings have become stronger in a few years. We want to find a job in the same city after graduation. Unfortunately, we were all attracted by the campus job fair and stayed in the city where our university is located. We are still in a long-distance relationship. When will it end? We really wanted to meet every day like other lovers, but we compromised for our career.

After working for more than a year, we decided to draw a satisfactory end to our five or six years of love: getting a marriage certificate. We have achieved positive results and withstood the test of life in two cities. Sometimes we are grateful for those long-distance relationships. It is long-distance love that makes us grow up and learn to understand each other. I'm glad that our lover is always by my side.