Don't get yourself involved.

Many times when we are in a dilemma and don't know what to do, it is because we haven't positioned ourselves well and let ourselves get involved in right and wrong.

Yesterday, a teaching and research activity was held at Jinqiao Bilingual Primary School in Putian, Fuzhou. One of the links is to answer their questions about the curriculum reform. Sitting at the front desk, when the teacher asks questions, especially when I think my peers can share them well, I also have ideas but I can't get in touch. I think I can't feel too inferior, as if I have a feeling of contrast, which gives me a little more right to speak, so when many people face you, you don't have time to think about one question after another, so it's a bit confusing and unconvincing for you to say it again. It's like playing football. When you kicked it over and I kicked it over, director Liu made a move. I was particularly impressed by her wisdom and understanding. I wonder why she sees everything so clearly.

But when we were walking and chatting together last night, she told me that she didn't mean that she had experience in this field before, but that when we were answering questions back and forth, she kept thinking about how to solve this problem in her mind and quickly sorted out her own answers. Then he told me how to face this scene easily and indifferently. The most important thing is not to involve yourself. She gave a good example: just like a person knocking on a gong, when his gong keeps ringing, it will attract everyone's attention. When all eyes are on this place, sometimes you may lose your mind and others can't get a word in when they want to help. The most important way to deal with it is to let the companions express and show themselves as much as possible when there are companions on the stage, and then take this opportunity to sort out their own ideas and supplement their companions. If there is no perfect place, they can point out the wonderful place, which is not only polite, but also shows their high professional concept.

Yes, many times, I was involved in this whirlpool. It is estimated that I am very strong this time, including when carrying out teaching and research activities in our school. Sometimes, a person occupies the right to speak and always feels that what others say is worthless. In this case, I actually lost a lot to some extent. First of all, I didn't listen carefully and didn't integrate other people's ideas into my own thoughts. After all, my own ideas are narrow and not comprehensive enough. If I can listen to others' suggestions, it doesn't mean that I have to copy them completely, but I can expand some new ideas, change my thinking mode on the basis of others' suggestions, and look at the problem from different angles, so that we can see not only a part, but a whole. This method of solving problems can not only accommodate others, but also expand their own new ideas. Achieving others to improve themselves will not leave a strong impression on others, and the most important thing is that interpersonal communication will be better.

In fact, sometimes people are always like this. He was so obsessed with his own small circle that he was involved in a whirlpool. It is obvious to outsiders, but he is trapped in the present. It is a wise attitude towards life not to involve yourself, not to be trapped by things, not to be confused by others, and to be calm and open-minded. Give an inch of land to others and an acre to yourself. Why not?

More is less, and less is more. Sometimes it's easier to expose your shallowness by talking more and showing more. Talking less and thinking more are bound to be more essential. Can't it also prove your value? I want to be invaded by the ego's vanity and lose my way. I have a ego in my heart to support myself and move in the right direction!

Whatever you do, don't get yourself involved!