What if I can't hold on to every job?

My experience is just the opposite. I have been in my present job for nine years. I am a network operator. I have been in the same company for nine years after graduation. Because I have no job-hopping experience, my work experience can sum up the reasons why I have been able to persist.

I am a journalism major. When I graduated, I caught up with a very difficult year of employment, and the number of graduates was far greater than the number of corporate recruits. The choices of students around me are legendary. One second I was studying in the classroom to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, and the next second I was selected by state-owned enterprises to go back to my hometown as a civil servant. Of course, this lucky thing didn't happen to me. When the classmates around me have already arranged, I am still looking for a job in Haitou. Until March, I got an internship in an Internet company. Through hard work, I passed the internship examination and became a regular employee. Then I went through a six-month probation period and worked until now.

Many people think that the threshold of Internet operation is very low, and it seems that any professional can enter this industry. I am a fresh graduate, and I have a fresh attitude towards the Internet. I am very willing to study deeply in the industry. My parents very much hope that I can go back to my hometown to work. There is a simple reason. Food, clothing, housing and transportation can take care of themselves, and I am not at ease in Beijing alone. But I refused. I don't want to rely on my family's support anymore. In my first job, what I need is a stable and stable source of income, learning opportunities, certain economic strength, and slowly accumulating my own energy.

In the third year of work, I began to have the idea of job-hopping, because the internal promotion channels were not very clear, and I felt a bottleneck, and the fastest way to raise my salary online was through job-hopping. But in this year, I got married and got pregnant immediately, which upset my job-hopping plan. Then I gave birth to a second child. Five years later, with a flick of a finger. The current mentality wants to pursue stability.

My experience must not be the direction of a strong woman in the workplace, but the "Buddhist system" that everyone said. Someone joked, am I going to an internet company to support the elderly? Many people say that after working in the same company for seven years, the possibility of job-hopping will become weaker and weaker. I also have fear in my heart. After all, with a meager salary, the pressure of life in the future is getting bigger and bigger. I don't know what will be "the last straw to crush a camel".

In the company's career, I have been inexplicably involved in the workplace struggle, experienced the occasional reversal of right and wrong, met a life mentor, had underestimated, had brilliant moments, had countless times to give up, had 1000 reasons to give up, and had 101 moments to give up. Personally, I have to consider family, work and whether I like the content of work. These are not the first factors I consider.

Again, in my opinion, why not stick to a job?

The first is economic factors. If the financial strength is strong, not to mention wealth, at least parents can be willing to support them with money, then they can be willful in naked resignation. You can try as many different jobs as possible. Imagine that if you quit your job and have to sleep on the street, and the economic pressure is very great, most people will still compromise and keep their current jobs first.

Follow the right person or do the right thing. I hope everyone can verify their current work according to these two standards. If you are in a big company with a sound system, you may not be in the core position of the core department, then you can try to develop into key businesses and key projects. In a big company, you can still learn a lot from the company system and cultural atmosphere. If you are in a small company, you can also exercise your ability to handle different things. Don't take every job as a handyman lightly. Small things and different attitudes will still lead to completely different results. If you are lucky enough to follow a competent leader with strong business ability, learn the essence of business and behave yourself, then you are lucky and have many friends around you. Wherever the leader goes, he follows and develops well. Or if you leave the leadership, you can start your career and hold up a sky. This is a bit of luck in the workplace.

If you really can't stick to a job, I hope you can seriously sum up the reasons, which are external factors, such as poor company efficiency, layoffs, difficult leadership and colleagues, and bad environment. Or internal factors, dislike, career planning changes, etc. Suggest finding a good way out for yourself and don't resign impulsively. Life is long. If you can find your love and pursue it all your life, you are lucky. In the workplace, people can't help themselves, so we should keep learning and enrich ourselves. If they don't change, they should have enough strength.

A few days ago, I saw a circle of friends like this:

18 year old food delivery student, security guard, computer maintenance, cashier;

19 years old real estate sales;

2 1 year-old insurance company, asset management;

22-year-old real estate agent and driver;

23-year-old insurance company and asset management;

24-year-old lobby manager and asset management;

25-year-old physical examination center, real estate planning, insurance company;

26-year-old training lecturer;

27-year-old dyeing factory documentary.

I also saw several familiar friends commenting on "rich resume" below. I wonder how you feel when you see this circle of friends? My first feeling is: at the age of 27, I have accomplished nothing, which is embarrassing. The word "rich resume" is full of sadness and helplessness.

As an HR who has worked for many years, I don't recommend frequent job hopping. Because any job requires the accumulation of experience, some people say that it takes three years to understand the basic logic of an industry. If you have a deep understanding, seven years and eight years is not enough. People who frequently change jobs often choose to leave after doing a job for less than a year, change to a brand-new industry and start from scratch.

First, why do you change jobs frequently? 1, impetuous, unable to settle down to work.

Most of them are young people. Nowadays, impetuous social atmosphere makes young people more impatient. They always think that the next one will be better, so they are addicted to job hopping.

2. I have no career plan for myself and don't know my future direction.

About 80% people have no clear career plan. Many people don't like their current jobs, but due to economic pressure, they have to "find a job first" and wait until they have a good job. But these people have no standards for a good job, so they frequently jump ship and look forward to that "good job".

3, underestimate the work, just can operate independently, began to complain about "no challenge"

This kind of person looks very motivated and always pursues the challenge of work, but in fact any work is repetitive. The real master is to make simple and repetitive works to make himself stand out.

Fu Sheng, the founder of Cheetah, used to work in a company in Zhou. At first, he was assigned to take minutes of the meeting. Many people will despise this kind of work and complain, but Fu Sheng is a master. He learned Zhou's way of thinking in the process of making meeting minutes, and thus grew rapidly.

Fu Sheng's minutes of the meeting were not simply listed like others. He is thinking about the seemingly scattered minutes of the meeting: Why did General Manager Zhou say this sentence? Why did he jump from this topic to a new one? What is the logic behind this? After repeated scrutiny and polishing, Fu Sheng gradually sorted out the logic that Zhou did not directly say, that is, the boss's thinking mode.

Most work is repetitive, but experts can make new achievements by learning new knowledge repeatedly.

Second, the frequency replacement work, what should I do? 1, give your life a profound "physical examination", find your own advantages and disadvantages, and make your own career plan.

"Why can compasses draw a circle? Because the feet are walking, the heart remains the same. Why can't you draw a circle? Because the heart is uncertain, the foot does not move. " Career planning is to draw a circle on the "heart", so the most important thing for us is to find the pros and cons and do a good job in career planning.

Here, I recommend SWOT analysis, which is to list all your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats in the external market, analyze them carefully and find the direction that suits you. For example, my advantage is that I like reading and writing; The disadvantage is that you can't get along and kiss up; The external opportunity is the Internet era, which has caught up with the media. The disadvantage is inexperience, and the competitive pressure from the media industry is too great.

Comprehensive analysis, I can be a learning blogger, and then make further plans to achieve it.

2, guard against arrogance and rashness, and cultivate your patience and endurance.

Do any work, there is a process of accumulation, so be patient, stick to it, what you want, years will eventually give you. If you still have no confidence in yourself, stick to it from 100, give yourself a small reward after 100, and then challenge the second and third goals. ...

3. Keeping a good attitude can make repetitive work gain new value.

Think more and do more at work. Don't always think about challenging more difficult jobs. How can you do complicated work if you haven't done simple work well?

Setting your goals too high will usually make you feel more painful when you fall, so it is very important to maintain a good work attitude.

You can't insist on every job. In fact, the problem lies in your own refreshing choice of this job. You don't like this job, so once you encounter certain setbacks, you won't insist and choose to give up!

Because I am engaged in insurance, I have worked in an insurance company for nearly 20 years and just started to apply for an insurance company. My purpose is only to buy insurance for myself, and I want to know more about insurance. I also joined the company because I got a commission on insurance, and it can be much cheaper!

But with the understanding of the whole system and operation of insurance companies, I feel that I am very suitable for this job. I will work hard on my own, regardless of others' faces. I gradually fell in love with this industry, and then I went from 200 1 to now.

The selection work generally includes the following steps:

1, know yourself

We should be clear about our strengths and weaknesses, so that we can understand what kind of industry or job we can engage in. What an outstanding advantage! Hide your shortcomings! Learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses in order to survive in society!

2, understand the work

When choosing a job, you should first look at whether you like the job, whether you can give full play to your personal potential and whether there is room for development in the future. If you are unhappy at work or have no room for future development, then you should not go.

3. Understand the industry

When choosing an industry, you must have a clear understanding and detailed understanding of this industry! See if he can give full play to your personal potential, and you can have a broad space, so that if you bully others again, you will be full of strength at work.

Step 4 adjust your mentality

You are a recruit when you go to work in any company. You should learn to straighten your position and adjust your mentality. You should learn to adapt to the environment. First of all, you should regard life as survival before you develop it. If you can't survive and stay, everything else is empty talk.

Finally, give you some advice. No matter what you do, you must first like it and be willing to do it, so that you can find a job that really suits you! One more thing to remember, we must learn to persist in everything, and persistence is victory.

First of all, we should analyze the reasons why we can't persist, and then find a solution. The following are several reasons and solutions for your reference.

Reason one: I just graduated and haven't found my own direction, so I can't concentrate on a post.

The second reason: the heart is higher than the sky. When you arrive at a company, you can't adapt. The more you jump, the more addictive you become.

Reason three: too bad. It's really a pit for several companies. This is a big pit, and it really can't be sustained.

If it belongs to the first reason, I suggest you settle down first and find a medium-sized unit with a good leader. Nice is not a good temper, but a person who is willing to cultivate you. Research shows that most employees who leave their jobs are due to superior leaders. Therefore, having a good leader is an important factor for the smooth development and success of the cause.

If it belongs to the second reason, then you have to adjust your thinking. It is precisely because you have paid low patience to every job that you can't see the achievements and joy that can be brought by sticking to a job. Any company has holes, big or small. If you don't believe me, you can keep dancing. I suggest you give yourself a challenge, change your mind and stick to your present job for two years.

If it belongs to the third reason, it means that you are really weak, but it also means that your vision of choosing a company needs to be improved. How to judge whether a company is reliable? Look at the time of establishment, company size, industry and job requirements, and finally check.

Hello, brother! People who have ideas in their hearts should be young and feel that they have capital! Seeing your question reminds me of my past idleness. Now I think I looked like a fool, but I still felt awesome. I really regret it! Brother, when you think you can't hold on, I'll give you three suggestions! First, think about our parents. They have worked hard to raise us just to get ahead, and we can't live up to their good intentions! Second, if you have a wife and children at home, just think about them. How can they live a happy life without hard work? Third, look at the friends around you. They live a luxurious life, but we don't have enough to eat. Without comparison, there will be no harm. Seeing that they are better than us, will we have greater motivation? So, brother, while you are young, toss your life into what you want! I hope my answer is helpful to you, thank you!

Answer: If you can't do it any more, it's because you have no patience. I think it may be the following reasons:

First, maybe you are tired of many years' career, and everyone's overstaffing and hypocrisy;

Second, maybe I have experienced too many ups and downs, but my heart is arrogant. After leaving the industry that I have struggled for many years, I suddenly found myself single, out, and the difficulty became lower;

Third, perhaps after years of operation, you have been heavily in debt, and it is difficult to find opportunities under the current circumstances. Ideal and reality are too far apart to return.

If you are unlucky, I suggest you calm yourself down first, do a swot analysis, find out the real reason why you can't persist and get out of the cycle as soon as possible. Because in the days when more and more people say "I am so difficult", everyone is insisting? !

I suggest you reflect on yourself first and find out why you don't want to continue. First, if you don't want to work, you should consider whether you have the funds, experience and ability to support entrepreneurship. Second, if the salary is too low, then reflect on your work experience and ability, and whether the education is worthy of the salary. You can also go to the recruitment website when you are free to find out what your salary is with similar experience and education. Third, you can't get along with your colleagues. If you work several times because you can't get along with your colleagues, it's probably your character, and you have problems with people and things. Whatever the reason, it's probably because of your own shortcomings or not knowing what you really want and what you want in the future. I suggest that I continue to study and improve my ability.

If your requirements or returns are relatively high, you might as well try to start your own business. Only when you have done it yourself will you know that it is not easy.

If you can't stick to every job, you have to reflect on yourself. The problem lies in yourself. Is the job unsuitable? You just found a job you don't like.

Remember: choice is greater than hard work, and choosing your favorite job can last for a long time.

Hello, I don't think every industry is smooth sailing. Without experience, there will be no growth. Only after experiencing difficulties will we try our best to solve the problem. Growth lies in the process of solving problems. Of course, if you don't think this job is what you like, consider it according to your actual personality and ability. Will you stick to it when you encounter difficulties? Hold on, hold on. . . . . . I have been away for many years. I wish you can find a suitable industry and stick to it. [Smile] [Smile]