I have an aunt who is very kind to me and helps me with my children. How do I usually get along with her?

I have an aunt who is very kind to me and helps me with my children. How do I usually get along with her? How can a middle-aged woman with two children at home and extremely busy work save her life on her own? Someone who can help you with your children!

In the first three months after my baby Xiaofagao was born, our family experienced a particularly sad winter. Dabao rice cakes were recruited by viruses and influenza viruses in turn, the big ones should be taken care of and the small ones should be isolated. The weight of the whole family has dropped significantly.

At that time, we made an important decision: invite an aunt.

More important than looking at the eyes is to do a good job in the interview and recite the tone.

These days, a good nanny with experience with children is definitely a scarce resource.

If you send a circle of friends to ask who has a reliable aunt introduction, it will be naive, and there will definitely be a bunch of sincere news to tell you:

Who has a reliable aunt? Why don't you keep it for yourself?

Fortunately, I have an innate advantage in finding an aunt-my hometown is Quzhou, Zhejiang, and the nanny in Quzhou has a good reputation in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai.

Our family invited this foster sister-in-law, who my father helped find in his hometown.

The preliminary work I did was interviews and detailed callbacks.

When we first met, I didn't invite my aunt to my home, but at Starbucks. I also told her bluntly:

"I will ask more questions and find some people to understand the situation before starting the cooperative relationship. Please don't feel bored. "

Be direct and honest. This is my principle.

So, what can I ask in the interview?

When many mothers hire a nanny, they feel that they can only ask if they have any experience with their children and see if their aunts have tidied up properly, or they can't explain the "eye relationship".

In fact, the reasons for interviewing aunts at home and employees in enterprises are the same. In addition to the basic situation, the part involving her work content can only help you make an overall judgment by asking more details.

For example, ask "can you make complementary food for your baby?" This is a general question. Who will say no when applying for a job?

The more detailed question is, "What complementary food did your baby give him before? How to make a small steamed bun for the baby? "

For example, I asked my aunt, "What can you play with the child if he wakes up and drinks milk now?"

These questions can only be said if they have really been done and have their own materials.