Why are more and more people's WeChat circle of friends visible for three days?

I have more than 4000 friends on WeChat. You can see all kinds of updates every time you brush your circle of friends. Sometimes you can't finish it for hours, and then you can't finish it.

The circle of friends is really a good place for us to show ourselves and get a glimpse of other people's lives.

Someone screens the screen 24 hours a day, just like a city is always brightly lit. Everyone is laughing and chatting, always commenting and praising.

They sing and feast every day;

They are rich and willful, always changing their orientation and traveling everywhere;

They are diligent, discussing the company's listing every day and planning the A or B round of financing;

Their glasses are full and their smiles are sweet. There are always many interesting things in their lives.

Compared with them, I always feel less passion, less motivation, less hot blood, less happiness and ecstasy in my life.

Repeat your life at 3: 0 1 every day. I write something to the computer every day that I don't know who to talk to. When I am lonely, I will go to the terrace for a drink alone. If I want to go out to play, I will take my bag and book a plane ticket to walk around.

Seriously, I think my life is quite monotonous, not half as lively and happy as theirs.

02。

A while ago, I couldn't sleep as usual, so I brushed Weibo with my mobile phone. A friend I haven't contacted for a long time sent me a message saying that he envied me.

I said, drunk? Want to return to the field and live a forbearing earthly life? I have nothing to envy. He said, I think your life is very real and free and easy.

I said, obviously you have a better life than me, the company went public smoothly, the family is harmonious and happy, and friends are high-end and extensive.

Even those places you have been to, to be honest, I have never heard of them. I have always regarded you as my goal. I feel that if I live like you, there is nothing to expect in my life.

He gave a wry smile. He said where did you know these things?

I said, look at your circle of friends. Your circle of friends is located around the world, and the internal map of Dubai Yacht Hotel is 654.38+ 10,000 yuan a night. If it weren't for your blessing, I would only have seen it in the pictures on the Internet. Really, I envy your life.

He kept showing that he was typing, but nothing was sent. Finally, he only said to me:

I thought you would understand this seemingly endless and exhausting life. I thought you were a writer, more careful than others, and would understand that I was sheltered from the wind and rain.

"Forget it, it's nothing. You have worked hard. Go to bed early." This is the last sentence of our conversation.

I looked at this sentence that day, flipped through his circle of friends, looked back at mine, and suddenly felt as if I understood something. 、

03。

Return to your circle of friends.

I seem to be very happy every day, taking pictures of food, streets, night scenes, wine glasses, myself and scenery.

In every photo, I smiled sweetly and dressed beautifully. I am a fairy, free and easy, sunny and youthful, and I am the embodiment of infinite vitality in my circle of friends.

However, in real life, I spend almost half my time writing at home, dragging my feet and worrying.

There are many kinds of snacks on the table, but I dare not eat them at all for the sake of fitness. If I am too hot, I can only dig cold watermelons regardless of my image, hold my mobile phone in a daze and be the most loyal girl with internet addiction.

I am in a circle of friends, which is the ideal state I hope to achieve in my heart.

In real life, I am like a passer-by who is in a mess after the lights are dim, ordinary, simple, simple and realistic.

The so-called talented girl is actually disappointing.

04。

I like drinking, I like the dizzy feeling brought by alcohol, and I like the pleasure of swallowing all the unspeakable difficulties in one gulp, so I can always see the helpless and lonely power behind all kinds of people's hearts on the wine table.

Drinking wine, the friend across the street complained that life was too stressful recently. My girlfriend is almost thirty, and her family are urging her to get married, but she hasn't been able to buy a house yet. Mother-in-law didn't want her daughter to suffer with him, and threatened him that she couldn't pay the down payment at the end of the year.

A big project just collapsed at work, which caused great losses to the company. The leader pointed his finger at his nose in front of more than 20 people and scolded him, leaving a sentence, "If you can't, get out."

He said this, his eyes were red, and then he picked up his glass and took a long drink.

While listening to him, I flipped through his circle of friends that day, and all I saw was a happy photo of him and his girlfriend that day. The title above is "You are in charge of beauty, and I earn money to support my family."

The lights are flashing and the sound is noisy. Obviously, we didn't continue to talk, but I don't know why, I always feel that I vaguely heard his inner crying.

I looked at his face flushed by the stage, and compared with his happy and romantic circle of friends, I suddenly felt that life was so difficult.

"People will always be happy before, and they will always be lonely after." This seems to be the biggest feeling that my adult life has brought me.

Later, you simply didn't send anything, just closed your circle of friends and set it to be visible for three days.

We are always so concerned about other people's feelings that we dare not completely close our circle of friends. We are afraid that people will misunderstand who is blocked by single deletion, and that the embarrassing horizontal line will become an insurmountable gap in interpersonal communication.

Friends circle is only visible for three days. Think about it, how disillusioned it is.