How do I know what I like to do?

Everyone's situation is different. No personal experience, no empathy.

Everyone's education, family environment, personality and hobbies are different.

Judging from other people's methods.

Does "the job that suits you" really suit you?

We always like to label ourselves.

I don't think I'm fit to do this or that.

Because of introversion, it is not suitable for jobs that need to contact and communicate with people.

Because you hypnotize yourself every day, plus the advice you see on various platforms, you believe this more.

People say what you should do, but they don't ask you.

what do you want to do?

what do you want to do?

There is actually no way to answer this question.

Because every stage of life is different.

The job you want to do is different, too

Give a chestnut:

When you were young, the teacher asked you what you wanted to be when you grew up.

You answer without thinking:

"Teachers, scientists, entrepreneurs!"

Do you want to be a bus driver, a shop cashier or a restaurant waiter?

There is no intention to belittle these occupations here.

When you grow up and go to college.

You have changed your goal from:

Change the whole world, the world is better because of me.

It has become: "Change yourself and go to the peak of life."

What you have to do at this time is:

Corporate executives, company bosses, civil servants.

A few years later, you find yourself unable to reach the desired state.

At this time, what you want to do is simpler and more realistic.

You just want to be an ordinary office worker and be able to support yourself! As long as I can afford the mortgage and car loan.

It can be seen that our life goals are different at different stages.

So I strongly suggest that you find out before asking this question:

What is your goal in life?

In fact, if you figure this out, it is equivalent to solving the problem of "what are you suitable for?"

Because I believe that a person with 16 education actually has some professional and talented jobs.

Basically, most other jobs can be done after a period of study.

The point is the purpose of your career choice.

I really like it, I know it very well, and I still have love after knowing the ups and downs of this job, so I chose it.

Or is it because of family arrangements, friends' encouragement and social needs?

Or because I have a long-term plan, this career is just a foreshadowing of my future career.

Love? Money? Grow up?

When you want to know what the purpose of your career choice is, you can further screen!