"Aunt, I'm not suitable for your son. I have no potential to be a nanny! " Should a daughter-in-law be a nanny?

My boyfriend and I met at work. He is a salesman of our cooperative company. After graduating from college, I worked as a financial officer in a foreign trade company. My boyfriend comes to check the accounts with us several times a month, and I am in charge of this matter. I had more contact with him, and gradually fell in love with each other and came together.

My boyfriend is four years older than me, tall, mature and steady, especially at work, meticulous. I'm a little careless. My boyfriend took good care of me when I was with him. I used to be a little curious. The boyfriend's salary is not low, and his appearance and height are also quite good. Why doesn't he get married when he is almost 30 years old?

My boyfriend told me that he and his ex-girlfriend had a good relationship for more than three years, but they broke up when they got married. The boyfriend said that the woman wanted a bride price all over the sky, and the two families parted ways without talking. Anyway, I don't care about his past, just be nice to me in the future.

Boyfriend's home is in the countryside, and the conditions are average. At first, my parents didn't approve of us being together. My family condition is quite good, my father also has his own company, and my mother is a university professor. I have a brother who is married and works in my father's company. My parents asked me to find a local in the city so that I can go home often when I am close to home.

I have taken my boyfriend to my house several times. My boyfriend has a glib mouth. He can accompany my father to drink and play chess, talk about state affairs and social situation, and also talk about entertainment gossip and fashion news with my mother. In this way, my parents saw that my boyfriend was honest and reliable and took good care of me, so they nodded and agreed to our marriage.

After dating for more than a year, my boyfriend didn't take me home. When asked, he said it was inconvenient to go back to his house, for fear that I would not be used to it. Now we want to settle the marriage first, so we must sit down and discuss the details. I decided to go to his house with my boyfriend first to see what was going on at his house.

It was the weekend, so I specially dressed up, bought some nutrition and followed my boyfriend. His home is not far, it only takes two hours by car. After entering the door, my boyfriend's parents are still very enthusiastic about me. My house is a self-built tile house, but it is spacious and doesn't have much decoration. Furniture and home appliances are very simple and old. I'm a little puzzled. Boyfriends are also people with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan. It is not difficult to add some furniture to the home.

The boyfriend explained in a low voice that his parents are used to living in the countryside and are very frugal. As long as they can make do with it, they won't change it. At lunch, my boyfriend's father cooked three dishes, all of which were stir-fried without meat foam. Really frugal. I didn't say anything. I just said I was full after a few bites.

After dinner, when it comes to getting married, my boyfriend and mother said, my son has been praising you, and we asked him to take you home. Now it seems that my son has a good eye. But if you want to come into our house, there are some things I have to tell you. I looked at my boyfriend, and he bowed his head and said nothing. Maybe he already knows what his mother is going to say.

My boyfriend and mother sat next to me, holding my hand and saying, daughter, after marriage, it will be our family. Washing clothes, cooking and cleaning the house are the minimum. The son is an old man and a man who does great things. These chores must not make him get his hands dirty. As a girl, family is the most important thing. The most important thing is to serve your husband and in-laws well and have a baby as soon as possible after marriage. ...

My head is getting bigger and bigger after listening to a few words. Boyfriend and mom are still talking. Why should I hand in my salary card? I have to get her permission to buy things. I can't wear makeup when I go out ... I'm depressed. It's too generous. You told me this for the first time. Really don't treat me like an outsider. Look at my boyfriend. He is playing with his mobile phone leisurely.

I am very angry. This is not the standard for a daughter-in-law. Is this the maid recruited by Lafayette Cixi? I couldn't help cursing her. I said, aunt, your request is amazing. This is not looking for a wife. Are you looking for a free nanny? After listening to my words, my boyfriend and mother immediately turned against each other. Call me rude and rude, and why does my son like you so much?

I got angry directly, patting the table and yelling, I'm not suitable for your son, and I don't have the potential to be a nanny! Then he grabbed my Baotou and left without looking back. Who is this? Now I probably know why his ex-girlfriend broke up with him, and I guess I've met his mother.

Call your boyfriend to say goodbye when you come back. My boyfriend called me ill-bred and shouldn't do this to his mother. After talking a lot about how hard it is, I want to scold her What does it matter to me that your mother is not easy? If I marry you foolishly, I will have a hard time!

I didn't see it before, but my boyfriend is still a mother-in-law boy, which is completely different from his gentle appearance before. I really regret not coming to his house earlier, but I'm glad I came here. I can't enjoy this family. You'd better find a nanny!