How to be generous and decent in an interview

(A) played down the sense of success or failure of the interview. Before an interview, an interviewer feels that he is better than others in all aspects, so he feels that he can rest easy. Who knows that the examiner surprised him in the interview and asked a question he had never heard of. Suddenly, he seems to have lost his soul and his mood is very low. When the examiner asked some simple questions again, he still couldn't get out of the failure just now, and he finally fell into Sun Shan. Candidates should first pay attention to downplaying the success or failure of the interview, and have a detached attitude of "not being happy with things, not being sad for yourself". If you have such a mentality during the interview, you will be calm. If you only think of success and don't think of failure, you will panic and fail in an interview if you encounter an unexpected situation.

(2) Maintain self-confidence. Candidates have established their self-confidence before the interview, and they should always maintain their self-confidence during the interview. Only by maintaining self-confidence can we always maintain a high degree of attention, careful thinking, keen judgment and abundant energy in the interview and win the defense.

(3) Maintain a cheerful mental state. A cheerful mental state can fully reflect people's mental outlook. Therefore, as a candidate, if you keep a happy mental state, your facial expressions will be harmonious and natural, and your language will be appropriate and fluent. On the contrary, it will give people a feeling of depression and lack of vigor and vitality, and then it will first give the examiner or host an impression of a bad mental state. It can be seen that we must pay attention to maintaining a pleasant mental state during the interview.

(4) Establish the awareness of the other party. Candidates are always in a passive position, and examiners or examiners are always in an active position. He asks you to answer, ask and answer. Because of this, candidates should pay attention to building the awareness of each other. First of all, we should respect each other and be polite to the examiner, especially when the examiner asks some difficult questions. Candidates should not show ugly expressions on their faces, or even complain about the examiner or the host. Of course, respecting each other does not mean blindly catering to each other and acting according to each other's face. Respecting the examiner means respecting his personality; Secondly, don't blindly mention my level, my knowledge, my diploma, my ambition and my requirements in the interview. Too many words "I" will give the examiner a sense of arrogance. So we should use the word "I" as little as possible and put another unit in as much as possible. "Your unit has always attached importance to talents, and everyone knows it. This time so many people came to compete to illustrate this point. " This kind of words is not only appropriate, but also establishes the strong consciousness of the other party, which is very popular with the examiner; Again, the examiner asks questions before you answer. Don't let the examiner talk without asking questions. Let the examiner or moderator wait for you to stop and ask questions. This will not only delay time, but also bring unhappiness to the examiner or moderator. In addition, don't forget to say "thank you" and "goodbye" to the examiner or host after the interview.

(5) The interview language should be concise and fluent. There are strict time limits for interviews. So the interview language should be boring and to the point. At the same time, the language should be organized and logical, pay attention to the sense of rhythm and ensure the fluency of the language. Don't be vague and hesitant, which will leave a bad impression on the examiner or the host and lead to the failure of the interview. Therefore, candidates must pay attention to the conciseness and fluency of the interview language.

(6) Don't be nervous. Some candidates are nervous as soon as they enter the interview room, even though they are fully prepared before the interview. Some candidates get nervous immediately when they get stuck in their defense. How to solve the psychological tension in these two situations? We should analyze the causes of tension. This extreme tension is caused by the candidate's timidity and eagerness to win. Therefore, as soon as candidates enter the interview room, they must get rid of the consciousness of "inferiority" and establish the consciousness of "everyone is similar, and my level is the same as others". With this awareness, the tension will be reduced by more than half, and with the start of the interview, the tension may disappear completely. If you are nervous when you are stuck, if you hold the attitude of "winning is the best, it doesn't matter if you can't win", the nervousness will disappear immediately, and you will soon enter the normal interview state, and there may be a state of "another village". Therefore, candidates must be careful not to be nervous during the interview.

(7) generous behavior. It is inappropriate to dress appropriately, be bold, avant-garde and make up heavily, especially for men with rings and long hair, which is inconsistent with the identity of office workers and will leave a bad impression on examiners. After taking a seat, candidates should try not to shake their legs, play with pens, touch their heads and stick out their tongues, which will easily give the examiner a naive and frivolous feeling. Generally speaking, the dress should be dignified and generous, and can be slightly modified. Men can blow their hair neatly, their shoes can be cleaned, and women can wear elegant professional makeup. In short, we should give the examiner the impression of being natural, generous and capable.

In short, when interviewing, you must get rid of these bad habits, and you should be polite, supercilious, generous, decent and lively from beginning to end. This can not only greatly enhance your image, but also often greatly increase your chances of success.