A Scholar Woman —— On the Importance of Reading for Women

When it comes to "reading", the first thing that reminds me is "book", and I miss my desire and enthusiasm for books in my student days. I buy a magazine every month, such as Yilin and readers. When I buy it, I will nest in the bed in the dormitory, lying down and watching, lying down and watching, or looking against the wall. Every article should be read carefully, and every punctuation mark will not be missed, even a small article. Every time I finish reading a book, I feel indescribable tranquility, vastness and comfort, but the magic of reading is not limited to this.

I remember that at that time, even the books in the class were filled with pictures of key contents with marks such as straight lines, wavy lines and small triangles as the teacher explained. What's more, an extra post-it note was pasted or painted with colored markers. However, with the passage of time, the growth of age and the changes of the times, the original "reading" mood has disappeared.

Second, regain "reading" and regain desire.

Personally, when I first stepped out of campus, I was under great pressure to find a job and paid more attention to recruitment and various exam information. Going out early and returning late, rushing to major recruitment venues, taking various recruitment exams from afar, and coping with various interview exams with trepidation; My heart has become impetuous, and I always feel that time is not enough. Then, there is no longer the pleasure and desire to acquire knowledge from books, and the distance from reading is getting farther and farther.

From the external social environment, the speed of development and progress of the times is beyond imagination, and the channels of reading come not only from books, but also from online media; There are more reading tools, from paper books to smart phones, tablets, PCs and so on. But so many channels can't awaken the passion of paper reading.

Now I have all kinds of information and want to see everything, but for myself, it is also the moment when my left eye enters and my right eye exits. I always feel that I am just browsing, and I have no impression in my mind. What I have seen has never been deeply thought over and summarized. Maybe there is too much information to think about, or it is covered by other information when I have no time to think. I miss the days when I gnawed at the Sahara desert with San Mao in my arms. I followed her happily, explored with her, was curious with her, and learned about people and things in a strange environment.

To put it simply, I woke up in time. No matter from my own point of view or external factors, my mood, time and mood are all under my control, so I shouldn't give myself an excuse to slack off studying. As the saying goes: time is like water in a sponge, there will always be a squeeze; Therefore, I want to study again, regain my thirst for knowledge and my passion for life.

Third, women: cherish "reading" and cherish yourself.

Reading can not only increase experience and knowledge, but also add personality charm, which is especially necessary for women. It is often said that "women are virtuous without talent" is a thing of the past. What is needed now is a woman with quick thinking, intelligence, cleverness, elegance, diligence, self-confidence and elegance; In a humorous way, modern women have to go to work, socialize, do housework, have children, take care of the elderly, deal with neighborhood relations, coordinate family relations and so on. Women nowadays are not made of water, but of cement!

Although the daily reading habit seems to be of little use, after years of persistence, it will be influenced, infected and edified everywhere, rooted in thought and infiltrated into action; There are many roles for women, and different objects need different coping styles, so the usual accumulation will come in handy.

1. The kindness of the daughter's parents is higher than the sky.

In front of parents, we are daughters, intimate little cotton-padded jackets, they raise us small and we raise them big; Parents are old, and what we can do is to take care of and accompany them in life. We read newspapers and tell them stories when they can't read clearly; When they repeat things over and over again, we shouldn't be tired of listening, because we repeat them more than when they were young. In ancient times, Huang Xiang's fine tradition of "warm in winter and cool in summer" is worthy of our inheritance and development.

2. Wife-share joys and sorrows, share joys and sorrows, and share * * *

In the eyes of my husband, we are lifelong partners, and we will shoulder the responsibilities and obligations entrusted to us by marriage. We will be filial to our parents, teach our children, respect and care for each other, trust and encourage each other, understand and give each other and care for each other. Whether in good times or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, young or old, we will all help each other. Everyday life is more dull than surprises, and simplicity is more luxurious. We should take the outstanding and advanced deeds in the "China Good People List" as an example, make our family more beautiful and harmonious, and be our husband's strong backing.

3. Mother-the first mentor in a child's life

In the eyes of children, mother is the most trustworthy and trustworthy. Most children and mothers say, "What do we eat today, what do I wear, how to answer this question, how to do it, and so on." But the most common sentence with dad is "Dad, where is mom?" . Mothers should not only give their children food and clothing, but also establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values, and have a happy attitude towards life. Learn to listen when you are happy, answer questions when you are confused, give encouragement when you are depressed, and eliminate emotions when you are anxious, which virtually requires a mother to have profound ideological connotations.

Said a lot, no matter from that point of view, as social people, we are inseparable from reading and books; Both men and women should take reading as a habit, because reading can not only gain knowledge, but also gain happiness and protect happiness. So, be a scholar-type woman. A smart and happy life warms others and enriches your own life.