I am 35 years old. Is it too late to start studying hard to change your destiny and family life?

35 years old is nothing. Let me tell you something about being 42.

20 1 1 Working in a real estate company. H, the boss's full-time driver, is a veteran who dropped out of high school and knows Sanda and massage. He is actually the boss's bodyguard and masseur, so his monthly salary is the highest in the team, 6000 yuan (20 1 1 year is quite high).

One day, H came to me privately and said he wanted to leave. He has found a new home with a monthly salary of 8000 yuan. After careful inquiry, I learned that his old man was sick all the year round. Two children, a sophomore and a senior, and their lover is in poor health. He works in his hometown, and his family expenses depend on his 6000 yuan, which is hard to meet. He said that it was because of the large family expenses that he left the county animal husbandry bureau to work. Born in H 1969, 20 1 1 year, 42 years old.

I reported the situation to my boss on the same day. The boss said that H's monthly salary would be raised to 8,000 yuan, and that H must be kept. Later, I thought, passive retention is not the way. What should I do if I find a person with a monthly salary of 10000 next year and want to resign? Continue to passively raise wages? The mismatch between salary and position value is not a long-term solution. The next step is naturally to let H enhance his value.

Through in-depth understanding with H, I found that he is very suitable for purchasing. The most direct way is to let H upgrade his education and study a major related to the company's business-civil engineering. At the same time, save him a place in the purchasing department. As long as the boss doesn't go out, he works in the purchasing department, starting with purchasing office supplies.

After all, civil engineering is a very difficult major. H has only studied in high school for two years, and the high school diploma is 30 yuan (you need a high school diploma to apply for correspondence). However, H's drive and thirst for knowledge are much stronger than I expected. Although he is 40 years old, he has a good brain (now think about it, the high school from 1980 to the end of last century should be quite valuable).

He devoted himself to study and work. In the company, he often goes to the engineering department to learn professional knowledge. It may be that everyone thinks H is the boss's "close friend", or it may be moved by H's efforts, and colleagues are particularly enthusiastic and patient about asking for help.

Three years of correspondence passed quickly, and H successfully got the college diploma. The key point is not a certificate. In these three years, H has learned more knowledge in the company than in four years of civil engineering, and H has also grown rapidly in the purchasing department. In the year when he got his diploma, he was promoted to deputy manager of purchasing department in charge of non-engineering materials of the company. Although I can't do without the support of my boss, I think it's the opportunity that H got through his own efforts and hard work!

20 13 resigned. Have dinner with H after the Lunar New Year this year. He didn't leave his job, but also got his bachelor's degree by correspondence. I heard that the boss is going to send him to Tongji for EMBA. Now he is the deputy general manager in charge of the company's administration, logistics (managing drivers and staff canteens), personnel, finance, procurement and general manager's office! The annual salary is 600,000.

This is an example of 42-year-old vitality.

To sum up the example of H, three points are particularly important for the struggle of older people:

(1) Find strong motivation. Without motivation, it is easy to give up halfway and be unable to exercise self-discipline. The motivation of struggle must come from the financial pressure of specific goals. You can hold your dreams when you are not confused, but you can't talk about life and ideals.

(2) get rid of greed. If ordinary people want to succeed, they must get rid of the idea that they want to do everything and feel that they can do anything, focus on one field and avoid changing their career direction;

(3) Strong willpower and toughness. Persistence and resistance are the necessary guarantee for realizing dreams. Only the willpower of rain or shine, ten years' persistence and tenacity of repeated defeats and wars can reach the other side of success.

Finally, before the age of 30, life is the age of trial and error. After the age of 30, especially after the age of 35, life is the age of going forward in a set direction and never looking back. Therefore, setting goals should be pragmatic and combined with your own actual situation.

Never start from scratch unless you are gifted and brilliant; There is no shortcut or fast lane to change the status quo. The short time is one or two years, and the long time is three or five years. So, don't start full-time, try to work and study as much as possible, especially if it is suitable for all ages.

It's not too late to be 35, and there are still 25 years in your career! Act now! It's never too late to start!

Let me tell the story of my colleague LF. It's really called a counterattack against life. She was born in 1979, and this year is 4 1, but she looks like a girl in her early 30 s with a small mind. If she graduates from technical secondary school and is short. She joined Company C at the age of 22 and worked as an employee in the production line. Because of her serious and responsible work, she was promoted to deputy head for more than half a year. Not long after, Company C was acquired by a foreign group and became a subsidiary of a listed company. Then the human resources department of company C should be standardized according to the requirements of the group. The internal staff began to be in short supply, and some people just took maternity leave, so they borrowed people from the production department, requiring technical secondary school education or above, knowing a little computer and English. The manager of the production department thinks it is up to the human resources department to recruit people. He didn't want to be too perfunctory, so he recommended LF, which is short but reliable.

It was in this opportunity that LF entered the Human Resources Department and started her counterattack. After entering the human resources department, LF cherishes the hard-won opportunity, and it is her normal state to work overtime for free. Because there are so many things she doesn't understand, it always takes her several times to get familiar with them at first. 20 12 when I joined the company, she was 32 years old and her children were over 3 years old. She has just worked in company C for 10 years, and has worked in the recruitment group, training group, salary and welfare group and entertainment planning group of human resources department successively, with rich experience. At that time, the boss gave her many opportunities, and then the position level rose from a first-class employee to a seventh-class supervisor. Calculate, basically once every two years! ! You know, it may be difficult to be a Commissioner in the human resources department of a foreign-funded enterprise for several years!

I was lucky enough to be selected by LF in the interview. She chose me because she thought I was born in the countryside and should be able to bear hardships. Later, she became my direct boss and mentor.

Although she was a supervisor at that time, she was still worried about her secondary school education, distressed that her English was not good enough, and lamented that her development in Company C had come to an end. By the way, it is not difficult for you to take the college entrance examination yourself, and it is also admitted. Later, she really went to find information and started to apply online. She is a very diligent person, and she insists on reading self-taught books to do problems almost every night after entering the business. It took her two years to complete the college entrance examination, and then she continued to apply for the undergraduate course of administration of Sun Yat-sen University, and won it in three years.

In the years of her exams, her work was not easy and smooth at all, but it never affected her exams. I have been employed for half a year, and Company C will be merged into another subsidiary of the Group, Company D, and Company C will face layoffs and dissolution. LF and I were temporarily arranged to work in C and D companies in turn, and were picked up by the company car. We participated in the layoffs and dissolution of company C for half a year, and finally merged into company D. When we arrived at company D, business was also sluggish. The bosses who have been protecting us have been laid off one after another, and the former colleagues of Company C feel excluded and leave without development. Everyone is nervous, but LF keeps telling me not to be distracted and do my job well, and the new boss will see our efforts. But in fact, every new boss has suffered a lot for us, and he has been scolded countless times, so he has developed a set of skills to protect himself. Every time, if you come with us. 20 18 left his job, and LF was already the senior director of the human resources department of company d. ..

In her, we can see the qualities of studious, diligent, self-disciplined and enterprising. If you want to change your destiny and realize wealth appreciation, you must first have good quality and study habits.

LF, from the production staff to the senior supervisor, from the technical secondary school to the self-taught undergraduate course, has a lot of aristocratic luck, but more is her own efforts. Whether life can go against the sky depends on how hard you work. The harder you work, the luckier you may be and seize more opportunities!

To tell the truth, I am a person who is too lazy to type, but after seeing your question, I decided to spend some time writing my story, hoping to help you!

20 15, from sales to administration. After work, people become idle and their wages are stable, but people become anxious and have a low sense of time value. In order to kill time, I began to read. At first, my reading efficiency was very poor, about two books a month. At that time, I set myself the goal of reading 12 books a year. In fact, to be honest, I was not sure if I could achieve this goal at that time.

Fortunately, I persisted for three months, and I found that my reading speed and efficiency have improved a lot, and the angle and depth of thinking have also changed greatly. More importantly, I started to do time management and got up at 4: 30 in the morning to read, just like the book said. Now I have been doing it for more than 900 days, and I began to do knowledge management, using impression notes and mind maps.

In 20 17, I set myself a goal, going to the bookstore once a week and doing it 50 times a year. As a result, I did it. Now I have read more than 100 books, started my knowledge entrepreneurship, and got an investment of 1.75 million.

It's never too late to get back to the problem and change your destiny and family life. The key is to see what way. Some people choose to keep changing jobs, some choose to start a business, and some choose their own jobs. Sideline, but these are all changed through the external environment. Now, under the competitive environment of social incentives, most people are still standing still.

Reading is a method of another dimension. By investing in yourself and improving your self-worth, there may not be a big change in a short time, but I think as long as you can read, keep reading, keep learning and keep practicing, five years 10 will definitely increase exponentially.

It is not only reading that can change people's destiny. People can learn some skills suitable for the public, or start a business, and then know how to innovate, and they will live well. People, regardless of age, are not interested in age, so don't worry about age, but treat people with a wise eye.

Everything is inferior, only reading is high. This sentence is not only used by us to educate and encourage children to read more books, but also as a motto to enrich themselves. This sentence should be the distinction between age and level, and also the attitude towards study and life. Of course, reading is not our only way out, but reading more and studying more will help us find more ways out. In addition, we have an old saying in China that it is never too old to learn. 35 years old, there is no time, and it is too late. Only through learning can we show an attitude towards life and learning. Even if we study the current situation of the family, it still hasn't changed, but at least we have made efforts and made changes to the current problems. How can God not reward us for such an attitude?

I'm glad to answer your question: it's never too late to study hard and become stronger. As long as you work hard, everything will be in time.

I said some time ago, I was watching TV. In Mamma Mia, a woman in her forties has an autistic son. In order to encourage her children to treat diseases and set an example for them, she began to learn pole dancing. At first, she just encouraged her children to see how hard their mothers worked, how brave they were in learning, and how brave they were to dance pole dancing in public to make money and treat their children. In the process of learning pole dancing, her mother's head is in the process of learning pole dancing. There is a hole in the bone, and this is just one of them. According to the teacher of this lady, during the two years of studying pole dancing, this lady suffered many fractures and injuries in various parts of her body, but she still insisted on learning pole dancing until she had the opportunity to participate in the world competition in the third year. This lady also signed up for the competition, which reminds me of a sentence. Success is reserved for those who are prepared, and this lady is here. Her child's autism has improved a lot since she won the first prize in the world competition. Children who were afraid to go out before are now learning pole dancing.

So everyone's learning potential is different. As long as you are willing to study hard, you will reach the other side you want to reach! You are only 35 years old. You can learn anything in time. I support you and will definitely change your destiny through hard work.

It's never too late to study. The key is whether you are willing to act at once.

I am thirty-five years old. I'm over thirty years old. I know where I am now. No one can read all the books before the age of 35? Nobody dares to brag. At the age of 35, you can know the whole world.

As long as you want to do something, it's not too late to be thirty-five. This is the most mature stage of your mind. You know your own shortcomings and start to find time to study at once. You will feel happy, strong and confident, and the more you live, the happier you will be!

The book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own golden house.

I firmly believe that reading makes me smart. It is even more inevitable to change your destiny by reading.

Everyone doesn't want to be a person hiding in a bottle.

If you are 35 years old and want to change your destiny and your family's life through reading, then you should read professionally and utilitarianism. Instead of reading for fun.

Reading for pleasure means reading some books on literature, history and culture, which can increase your knowledge, but it is not helpful to your work. Because reading these books only improves my self-cultivation. Of course, you can also read these books while reading utilitarianism, but reading utilitarianism is more important.

Utilitarian learning is based on obtaining academic degrees and qualification certificates. For example, if you are interested in English, you can learn English while working, and you'd better go to night school or something. This way, you can get a degree, and secondly, you can study systematically. Then I can also take the translation certificate. Study hard for a few years, get a degree and qualification certificate, and you can find a better job.

Thirty-five years old is a watershed for a person, and many enterprises do not recruit people over 35 years old. If you have to submit your resume in the job market at the age of 35, then your life will be a failure. If you want to improve your competitiveness, the best way is naturally to study. But for many people, learning is just empty talk. If you want to learn, you must have a system. Take learning English as an example. You systematically study all kinds of books for English majors and recite thousands of English words. Then you can master English. If you just fish for three days and dry the net for two days, it's just a waste of time and you can't learn anything at all. This kind of learning is inefficient and it is impossible to improve one's competitiveness. If you lose your job, it's hard to find a good job.

I am 35 years old. Is it too late to start studying hard to change your destiny and family life? My advice is not to simply study and do nothing else. In other words, study while working.

There is a simple reason.

1. No one can live in a vacuum. At the age of 35, he may have got married and started a family. In the face of the old and the young, and the huge pressure of life, it is absolutely impossible without a certain economic foundation.

My opinion is to study while working. Work is to solve life problems, and reading is an important way to change your destiny. Of course, reading here should be in a broad sense, such as learning a skill, or taking an accounting certificate or a chef's certificate. You don't necessarily change your destiny through the "college entrance examination" like high school students.

As the saying goes, if you are good at learning and willing to study, you may make great achievements in every industry. Therefore, it is more important to be good at learning at work and be willing to study hard, so that you will become a leader in a certain industry. This is also the way to change your destiny by reading.

My opinion is still the same sentence: study while working.