Why are some things difficult to do well by yourself?

People do this, and they can never do a thing well. I think there are several reasons:

1. Self-ability problem

You know, not everyone can have superhuman abilities. Some people are just not good at doing something, so it is difficult to do it by themselves. Just like a person, if you ask him to do some housework, he just doesn't do it comprehensively enough, and he can only do some coping styles.

If his ability is not in this area, you just let him do it, and he just can't do it well. But if you let him do what he is good at, such as cooking, this is his interest and ability, maybe he can give you an unexpected surprise! When something is difficult for you to do well, don't be too entangled. It can only show that you are limited in this matter, but it can't completely deny that you are an incompetent person. You have other abilities.

2. Lack of willpower to persist

When a person lacks the willpower to persist, whatever he does may fall by the wayside. Anyway, he just doesn't want to insist, and he will choose to give up if he is a little difficult. Anyway, he just can't finish it alone.

My friend's view on losing weight is that as long as no one urges her, she just likes to find excuses to be lazy and not insist on running and exercising. Anyway, she always explains the day and today, but since she taught her boyfriend and asked her to run with her, she really keeps running to lose weight every day. To put it bluntly, if someone urges her, she can still lose weight well.

It's too difficult. We need other help.

Of course, in addition to their own subjective reasons, the objective problem of the difficulty of things also exists. For example, that thing is very difficult, and it is impossible for one person to complete it. It must be completed with the help of a team or others, so it is of course difficult for one person to do it well.

In the workplace, we will encounter such a problem that in some jobs, everyone is just a small role. From the beginning to the end, the whole thing needs the concerted efforts of Qi Xin in every link. If you just want to do it yourself, it must be difficult to do it well.

In short, learn to find out the reasons for some things that are difficult for you to do well, see what prevents you from doing well, and then overcome that difficulty, then the problem of things should be solved, and you can do these things well easily.