How long has everyone settled down after graduation? What state is "stable" for you?

Everyone has a different time to settle down after graduation, and there is no absolute standard. Here are some states that may be stable for me:

1. career development: a stable state for me includes finding a satisfactory and stable job and having a good career development prospect. This means stable income, opportunities for continuous learning and growth, and the possibility of recognition and promotion.

2. Economic independence: A stable country needs economic independence and self-sufficiency. This means that you can pay your living expenses, rent or mortgage, and have some savings and the ability to deal with emergencies.

3. Family life: A stable state also includes establishing a stable family life. This may mean finding a suitable partner, having a stable marriage, and planning and raising children.

4. Mental health: A stable state needs the support of mental health. This means being able to keep a positive attitude, cope with the pressure and setbacks in life, and have good psychological adjustment ability.

5. Social relations: A stable state also includes establishing healthy social relations. This means being able to maintain good interaction and contact with relatives and friends and having a certain number of social circles.

6. Healthy lifestyle: A stable state requires a healthy lifestyle. This means paying attention to health, keeping proper exercise and eating habits, and having regular health checks.

In short, a stable state is a state that comprehensively considers all aspects, including career development, economic independence, family life, mental health, social relations and a healthy lifestyle. Everyone may have a different definition of stability, but these factors are usually considered as important aspects of a person's stability. A stable state not only refers to economic independence and career success, but also includes the stability of interpersonal relationships, the balance of mental health and a healthy lifestyle. In the final analysis, a stable state is the embodiment of a person's subjective feelings, which depends on the degree to which a person's life is satisfied and balanced in different aspects.