How do graduates ease their daily stress when they first enter the workplace?

I have experienced the same confusion as the subject. As an excellent employee, hard work has been recognized and rewarded. Full of confidence in the future, often think that they have the ability to do well. After the actual work, I found that the work results are no longer obtained by myself, but the efforts of subordinates. Another kind of feeling that you can't make it with your strength, punching on cotton. From the perspective of an experienced person, if you work hard in three aspects, you will definitely adjust in a short time. Please see the analysis below.

First, find a job that suits you, especially your major. When college students don't graduate, there are all kinds of job advertisements all over the street, and they are generally not worried about whether they can find a job after graduation. Once after graduation, I went to see them personally, and found that these jobs either failed to meet my salary expectations or the environment was unsatisfactory. It is even difficult to find a job that matches the major: many people's wages are very low, and the competition among a few people is fierce. In short, it is difficult to satisfy.

Second, the pressure to start a family. After a person works hard, he really wants to have someone to rely on or talk to. But when I was in college, so many members of the opposite sex seemed to disappear after graduation ―― all over the world, struggling for jobs, and it was difficult to find a like-minded person. Some people may want to settle down in their jobs first, but who knows that they have settled down, but they have passed the best period of marriage.

Third, the housing problem. For housing prices, all kinds of media are full of articles saying that they will fall this year and next. The analysis is thorough and reasonable, which makes people feel as if they are going to collapse. With such a vision, college graduates have embarked on the society, but what they are waiting for is not the decline of house prices, but the increase year by year, step by step. "The money saved this year is almost the same, wait until next year." Who knows that TD will be even worse!

In a word, I think metropolises will encounter such problems in addition to the good health of college graduates and rich accumulation of parents, right?