An essay entitled "Only by comparison can we know the pros and cons"

Comparison, as the name implies, means comparison. In martial arts dramas, there are often two masters to compete. Who is the best in the world? We have to compare, this "world first" dispute will eventually have a result. In real life, there are comparisons everywhere, such as my score is higher than yours, your car is better than mine, and my grades are bigger than yours. Generally speaking, comparison is an indispensable part of life.

The importance of comparison is self-evident. Only by comparison can we know who is right and who is wrong, which is better and which is worse. For example, when shopping, because many merchants produce the same product, which one should I buy? As the saying goes: "I am not afraid of not knowing the goods, but I am afraid of comparing the goods." After comparison, their advantages and disadvantages are naturally exposed, and it is much easier to choose again. Recruiters in the talent market really make full use of comparison, and compare a lot of applicants one by one through recruiters, so as to survive the fittest. At this point, I think comparison is also important, that is, through comparison, we can know our own advantages and disadvantages, the gap between ourselves and others, and then improve ourselves purposefully, shape ourselves stronger, and then compare with others. If we fail, we must work harder. If you are honored as the Almighty, you will prove that you are only a temporary leader. What will happen after that is unpredictable, and you must continue to compare. In this way, we will certainly be able to let ourselves know ourselves and improve ourselves in comparison again and again. Then those who are unwilling to lag behind will continue to make progress, promote the progress of others, and then promote the progress of the country and society.

Of course, comparison is comparison, but not everything is suitable for comparison.

I remember a cartoon that shows an arrogant thumb making a crazy gesture to the other four fingers: Who is more useful to you than me? Not to mention the result of this comparison, this comparison attitude is incorrect. An isolated thumb and two hands can do nothing, which is definitely not suitable for comparison. It's just like comparing the beauty of roses with the medicinal value of peony, which is a foolish behavior that the cow's head is not right for the horse's mouth. There is another comparison that is meaningless: where did you buy these new shoes? What brand is it? ..... alas! Look at mine. I bought it in Nike store. It costs more than 500 yuan a pair! Much better than yours! There are many such things, and I think it is really meaningless to compare parents' hard-earned money with profligacy.

Comparisons should be made in an appropriate way. Sun Bin, a former scholar, is different from Pang Juan in erudition, but Sun Bin is better in administration. Pang Juan, who ranks second, persecuted Sun Bin by improper means, but after all, there is a difference. Pang Juan finally died tragically and was killed by an arrow. If Pang Juan can improve himself through proper means, and improve himself, the result will be another way if they improve together through comparison.

In this world, comparison is everywhere. It's not important to make proper comparisons by proper means and improve yourself through others' comparisons.

Keep agarwood

There is nothing wrong, we can't deny that in comparison, we can clarify our own advantages and disadvantages to a certain extent and improve ourselves. But have you ever thought how sad it is to always live in the shadow of others and you are always passive? That piece of "agarwood" originally belonged to you, because you are addicted to comparison and are lavished by you.

Now, please close your eyes and feel quietly There is an agarwood lingering in my heart. Yes, only for yourself. At this moment, if others have released agarwood, please don't envy and seriously reflect on yourself. God loves every one of his people. Your potential, potential and potential need to be explored and developed by yourself. After all, walking on the smooth road of others, although comfortable, is ultimately less fun to struggle. You have to make your own way, plant flowers along the way, and let your fragrance break through the sky.

If you are a snow lotus in Tianshan Mountain, the wind and snow of the years make your heart extremely strong; Years of cold weather have made your passion even hotter. You just need to burn yourself with the flame in your heart, melt yourself into a drop of happy snow water, and set off with the sacred fragrance of that mountain!

In trouble, I always feel that the road ahead is vast, but my feet are really on the earth. Although the road is rugged, the footprints are clear all the way. I firmly believe that I am a lotus with mud or a gorgeous and affectionate rose. As long as I have that kind of calm mind, I am not afraid of the bumps and thorns on the road, nor of the gossiping of passers-by. I hit a seemingly terrible rock again and again. I told them with beautiful waves that I was not afraid. I jumped high and shouted, "sea, I'm coming!" " "Yu Guangli, behind me, passionate and fragrant all the way.

Walking on the road of college entrance examination, I should do the same, with that calm and self-confidence. However, the impact again and again, always can't take a big step; Failing exams again and again seems to dim my agarwood. I was unmoved by watching my classmates release the fragrance to the fullest. Because I know that it is the most important thing to take your own path one step at a time. If I have the strength and confidence, my long-lasting fragrance will inevitably release more energy.

Indian philosopher Osho said, "A rose is a rose and a lotus is a lotus. Just look and don't compare. "

Now, I prefer to be a butterfly pupa, and let those broken butterflies compete for beauty. When I come out of the pupa, I will be amazed!

Now, I prefer to be a budding lotus or rose, and let those flowers that have already bloomed compete for spring. When I open them, they will smell good.

I'm glad I kept my agarwood.

"Biqi"

Now you have to compare everything before you can rest assured. Housewives always shop around to be practical; When three friends and four friends meet again, they can't help but compare their income and situation; Students have nothing to eat and wear, and professors like to be shorter and meaner than people. I didn't know that when the word "Bi" was opened, it became two daggers, one on the chest, and both of them died.

"Bi" can be really scary sometimes. Yan Ying's "two peaches kill three scholars" is through the power of "comparison": there are only two peaches, but there are three people. What shall we do? A man said, I killed a tiger, so I ate one. Another person said that our family chopped jiaozi and saved the king, so we also ate one; The third man said angrily, I attacked the city and defended the border, but I couldn't even eat a peach. I was so angry that I committed suicide. When they saw it, they regretted it and were busy committing suicide. Coincidentally, according to legend, there were two warriors in the Warring States Period who wanted to be braver than others, so they sat down with each other and I cut each other's flesh. As a result, neither of them refused to accept the other until they died. This fully shows that "ratio" will derive another thing-qi. Some people are angry, so they are angry with themselves; Some people are arrogant, so they are arrogant and eventually bury themselves; Some people sigh, so they lose courage and sink into the bottom of the lake; There are people more angry than others. I killed each other, but I also killed myself. The result is that my eyes are full of "everywhere" and "dead people everywhere". It hurts! It is because literati are "compared" that they despise each other.

Hegel Ceng Yun: "The same substance often has amazing opposites." "Comparison" will not only produce negative emotions, arrogance, anger and frustration, but also temper courage, ambition, backbone and righteousness. When the two armies confront each other, the brave one wins, and this brave one wins by competition. On the life path of peers, people with thousands of miles of ambition laugh at the end, and this laughter is supported by ambition. Life is full of setbacks and difficulties, and those who are full of iron bones become the mainstay, relying on the spirit of hard bones. When the breath of the times is surging, justice is famous in the history of the chest, relying on the righteousness of swallowing mountains and rivers.

Don't run away from comparison. Where can we make progress without comparison? China was humiliated for a hundred years because he didn't want to compare with others at first. Later, in the Opium War, he wanted to compare with others, but finally he found himself behind and was doomed to be beaten.

"Bi" gas, like ignition and smoking, appears at the same time and is inevitable. We should avoid negativity, arrogance, anger and depression, than calmness, than liberation, than courage, than ambition, than backbone and than righteousness.

The philosopher Socrates said, "He who thinks great will embark on a great road." Life is a long road, please use it carefully and make good use of the crutches of life.

Stamens are released

I'm in a bad mood recently

Since I entered high school, I am no longer that carefree and curious little girl. Instead, it is a trace of sadness on the face, a wrinkle on the brow, and a wipe at the moment. Yes, the fierce competition in study sometimes makes me breathless. I want to care about my grades, my grades, and what university I want to go to in the future.

All this comes from the ubiquitous "comparison". Because of comparison, it is better than "people are superior" and "people are inferior". Who will willingly be inferior? If you don't care about this comparison, you will be said that you are not motivated. But I am a person with strong self-esteem, and backwardness is a devastating blow to me, so I struggle endlessly.

The scores that failed the exam hurt my heart again and again. I cried alone on the balcony holding the test paper with dazzling red strokes. I don't want my family to see my difficulties. I want to be the best in their mind forever. However, I clearly vaguely felt my mother patting my trembling back behind my back. "What's the matter? What's wrong? " I fought back my tears, but my eyes got wet and said, "No, it's okay." My heart seems to jump out and my hands are cold and stiff. Mom seems to know what I'm thinking. She said, "Put down the paper and let's go out to play." I nodded yes.

Walking in sparsely populated on the boulevard, my mother asked me, "What tree do you like?" I said, "Willow." "So the cloud? You seem to enjoy watching them? " I replied, "Yes, they are all beautiful." So mother said meaningfully, "In fact, in the eyes of mother tree and mother cloud, all children are the best." . Similarly, you are the most beautiful and excellent daughter in my mother's mind. "I was moved to tears. I said, "But mom, I'm not good at school. I can't compare with those students with good grades. " My mother patted me on the head and said, "Why compare? Didn't you also say that the clouds in the sky are the most beautiful? Things do not measure the value and significance of their existence by comparison. Maybe you are so insignificant and insignificant in the eyes of some strangers, but in the eyes of our relatives, you are a treasure, a gold, and you are a person worth caring for with love. Don't compare with others, just try your best. Mom believes you. "

I suddenly feel that I am truly and worthily alive as never before. I shouldn't care about those comparisons that make people feel inferior, because they are meaningless. Mom said I was a blooming flower, and no one could compare with me.

Roses have sharp thorns, burning petals and tangy stamens, lotuses have straight stems, hollow stems and pink, peonies have gorgeous faces, and sunflowers have golden faces. I am also one of these blooming flowers, a budding flower, but I will not compete with them, I will bloom silently. In the end, only I will bloom most brilliantly.