Dad asked someone to find me a job, five thousand yuan for two holidays, five insurances and one gold. Let me stop messing around, okay?

Share a story around you first. For example, when Fish went to college, there was a male classmate in his class, and everyone kindly called him General Tang. He is also a famous rich second generation in our class. In fact, he usually does not show off his wealth and is low-key, but in a liberal arts class, girls always have a keen sense of smell and love gossip.

The first time I speculated that Tang was always a rich second generation, it was not long after freshman year. When I went to Tomb-Sweeping Day, at that time, only students from the province usually took time off to go home. Some people are still too far away to go home, so they stay at school, but Tang is different. His home is in Hainan. Without saying anything, he bought a plane ticket and went back. At that time, there were many freshmen, so he didn't dare to skip classes at will, so he really only had three days off. Don is always the first day.

We thought he had something to do before he went home, but as a result, he just wanted to go home and play. Since then, whenever Mr. Tang has no classes and has a holiday for more than three days, he is allowed to go out to play by plane. We all envy him. He said, "Mr. Tang always has a private jet."

In addition to airplanes, the speed of dressing up and updating electronic equipment is also admirable.

But just don't show off and never say how much money your family has.

It's also my fault that our place is small, and some students have never seen the world, hahahaha, so every time I joke with Mr. Tang: Will he inherit the family property after graduation? Mr. Tang just smiled.

Sure enough, after graduation, Mr. Tang immediately flew back to Hainan to inherit his family business. It would be nice to have a reliable family, but I have to struggle less for many years, and I am envious.

According to his close relationship, Mr. Tang's family business is quite large. Now he is also starting from the grassroots level of the company, and his parents have also provided some help. More importantly, it depends on his personal development.

For ordinary students like us, there is no relationship at home and no company. I can only interview myself to find a job, find a job opportunity myself, and hit a wall everywhere.

Through this case, I want to tell the subject that if the family is not very superior, I am really confused at this stage, and my parents have given me some help. In fact, I can choose to listen to my parents and do the work of five insurances and one gold break.

This kind of work is not bad for a fresh graduate. And with the improvement of his ability, his salary will definitely rise in the future.

Because it's really hard to find a satisfactory job now. My parents have been there before. They just want you to avoid detours and live a stable life.

If Fish thinks you can try this job for a while before planning your future development, if you think this job is really not developing well, then you can also discuss with your father and communicate with him that this job may not really suit you. I think as a father, he should also understand that children are for their own good. Of course, if it develops well, everyone will be happy.

The above is a fish-like answer, I hope it will help you!

Not surprisingly, the job your father found for you is a state-owned enterprise, with two weekends, five insurances and one gold, with a salary of 5000 yuan, which is already a good level for ordinary people in the workplace.

However, whether you go or not depends on your real intention and your professional ability.

If you never like the working atmosphere of state-owned enterprises and prefer to pursue a personalized career that suits your hobbies, then you can not go.

However, this choice must have a premise, and you must be responsible for your choice. If you come to this village, there won't be such a store, and the pursuit of personalized work and career is definitely more in line with your own preferences. However, it's up to you whether you can support yourself and make you shoulder the heavy responsibility of making a living.

If you have strong professional ability, strong professional technical ability and good communication and coordination ability, you can choose your favorite company and your favorite career, live high, regardless of your father's advice, and live a wonderful life.

However, as before, your ability must be proved. If your so-called ability is only your own ability evaluation, and others think that your ability is weak, then you are actually deceiving yourself. Unfortunately, you can't believe in life itself. The cruelty of life will teach you everything.

As an outsider, Gray suggests that you go to this unit for the following reasons:

Ordinary people in the workplace should have their own consciousness. Not everyone can become an entrepreneur, and not everyone has the ability and determination to make efforts for their own cause that ordinary people can't match.

Most people want to relax and get a high salary. How can there be such an easy thing in the world? Therefore, for ordinary people in the workplace, it is very good to have a job with moderate salary and low work pressure. It is unrealistic to want to get rich from this ordinary job, but there are many people in the workplace who only want to get rich all day, but they don't even have a job to support their families.

It is probably not accidental that your father asked someone to help you find such a job, but he saw that your career was very unsatisfactory and had to help you. After all, you are his son, you are his relative, and he can't watch you fool around all day.

Know your son better than your father. Your father may know your weight better, so he will help you. I hope you can find a better job through their intervention.

I believe that no father will persuade his children to give up such a good job and find a job with a flat salary when he sees that their children are doing well and receiving good pay. Perhaps, it is precisely because your previous professional experience was completely unreliable, difficult and unsatisfactory that your father was anxious and asked him to find you such a stable job.

As I said before, if you want to get better professional development, you must have the corresponding professional ability. If you don't have this ability, but want to pursue this result, then you can only waste your best time in the gap and contradiction.

To sum up, in the face of a stable but slightly ordinary job, how we choose depends on your own mentality and your own conditions. With a strong heart, of course, you can not go to such an ordinary unit to pursue the career you want; But if there is nothing you can do, then you must adapt to the reality and compromise. After all, this is still a good unit.

For most people in the workplace, in fact, who doesn't have lofty dreams and who doesn't have a bright future, but the reality is so cruel, in a word: surviving is the most important thing!

If you haven't seen the hope of success, I suggest you find a job according to the wishes of your family. It should be possible to work and live in a smaller city with a monthly salary of 5000 yuan, two holidays, five insurances and one gold.

An ideal person should also proceed from reality, accumulate wealth, experience and contacts through work, and lay a foundation for future tossing.

Learn to do things before tossing. When you work in a company, you can learn to do things first with the help and cooperation of your colleagues. No matter what you choose to do in the future, you should start with some small things, be familiar with the process of doing things and master the methods of doing things. Be sure to test the water depth before swimming to avoid choking.

I remember a friend who soon opened a small restaurant after learning to be a chef himself. After six months of aggressive surgery, he lost everything, and he really couldn't go on. I have no choice but to give the shop to someone else. Then I found a job for others myself, worked for another three years, secretly and silently studied hotel management, reopened a hotel, and the business slowly improved.

Accumulate contacts before tossing. Working in the unit, there will be many colleagues in the unit, and there will be many foreign units and social partners in the work. There are contacts at work, and then there will be relationships, and more and more contacts can be accumulated. Maybe these people don't need it for the time being, but they may get their help when they are tossing around, starting their own business and needing others to solve their own difficulties and problems.

Accumulate experience before tossing. No matter what happens, there are certain rules to follow. These experiences are not innate, but are gradually learned in work and life, or they are all obtained at a certain price. If you don't study before you start a business, you may pay a certain price in the process of starting a business. It is better to study under the management of others than to experience setbacks. At the same time, I also exercise myself through tempering at work and improve my ability in the precipitation of time.

Five insurances and one gold are complete, and the salary is 5000. It's easy to have a weekend. This kind of work is better than civil servants. Why not go?

Xiao Li is a township civil servant. After graduating from 20 10 university, I passed the examinations at different levels before becoming a civil servant. So far, I have been working for 10 years. Although he has worked for 10 years, Xiao Li's salary has not increased much with the increase of length of service. At present, his salary is 4200 yuan after deducting five insurances and one gold.

Although civil servants also have weekends, township civil servants basically have no weekends and often go to work on weekends. Entering the village, uploading and distributing, very busy. Xiao Li has worked for so many years that he has little time to really rest. He works in the village most of the time.

Compared with Xiao Li, you can easily find a job with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, five insurances and one gold, and you should cherish it.

First, with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, five insurances and one gold, there are really not many jobs like this! For most people, a monthly salary of 5000 yuan is an enviable salary. Especially the working class, many people's wages are around 4000 yuan. 5000 yuan has always been a small goal.

In order to reduce the cost of human resources, many enterprises choose to avoid five insurances and one gold, not pay five insurances and one gold, or pay less or pay flexibly. There are really few conscientious enterprises that can pay all five insurances and one gold.

In terms of treatment, you can have two weekends, which must be an 8-hour working system, and you can rest normally on legal holidays. You usually have a lot of free time, and you have a lot of time to master and use by yourself. This is also a valuable asset. You can do what you like and spend time with your family.

Generally speaking, the salary of this job is quite good in all aspects. I believe that if this job is put on the recruitment website, there will be many people competing.

Second, this enterprise is a relatively formal enterprise with good future prospects. We can judge that this enterprise is a very formal enterprise by the salary it gives you. It is in line with the provisions of the labor law to be able to pay employees five insurances and one gold to ensure their normal rest time. Unlike some other enterprises, they always like to argue with their employees and try their best to reduce their welfare benefits.

We can also judge that the prospect of this enterprise is better. The starting salary of new employees can reach 5000 yuan, which is equivalent to the salary of probation period, which is relatively high. I believe that after a period of time, after the probation period, your salary will continue to rise.

What are you hesitating about when you meet such a formal and promising enterprise?

Third, we should cherish the hard-won work. Your father found this job for you by looking for a relationship, and paid a lot of effort and cost. You should think it over. In the current severe employment situation, it is not easy to find a good job, which should be cherished.

Of course, you may not like this unpaid job. I don't like to rely on my family to find a job. This is an enterprise, not an administrative institution. As long as the enterprise is willing to use you, go boldly. If you have real skills, then work hard, do your job well, do it differently and do it brilliantly.

To sum up, you should seriously consider this job, which is hard-won.

I have a deep understanding of this, because that's how I came when I just graduated.

I think the topic can be tried, but it is really inappropriate, and then we can make a plan.

When I graduated from Kloc-0/4, my dad always wanted me to go back to my hometown to develop, so he asked my cousin to keep an eye on the enterprise for me, because my cousin is from the county labor bureau and he knows what a good enterprise is.

As expected, in half a month, my cousin helped me find a good job, with two weekends, five insurances and one gold, and 4500 yuan a month. I also went to the interview at that time. The leader was quite satisfied with my education and major and agreed to let me go to work.

During that time, my dad was very happy, because I could develop in my hometown, which was his greatest expectation. However, after I went to work in that enterprise for a month, I had the urge to resign. Why?

Because my post is a front-line operator, somewhat similar to that of an oil company, and I need to change shifts. Doing repetitive work every day, except recording data and observing whether the equipment is abnormal, is completely uncreative.

In this month, I feel that it is the most confused and anxious time in my life. I feel that the future is bleak. On the one hand, it is mechanical work, on the other hand, it is the expectation of parents. I am on the horns of a dilemma.

A month later, I figured it out, and I still chose to resign. I spent half a month working as a parent and submitting my resume for half a month.

Finally, I chose my favorite job-recipe engineer. So far, I have been doing it for five years, and I am very happy. I think this is the job I want.

So, back to the main question, in this case, I suggest that we can do this:

1. Since the work is arranged by your parents, don't disappoint your parents' kindness. After all, the salary is not low. You can try it first. Maybe you like it?

If I don't like it after trying, I still suggest following my inner thoughts. However, I have to do my parents' work first, and then make arrangements. After all, I can't break my parents' hearts, but I have to speak my mind. Otherwise, I will be unhappy and depressed every day. Are you happy?

Congratulations on having a good father and finding you a good job. You can really stop fooling around. The main reasons for this good job are as follows.

First, the work is relatively stable. According to common sense, if your father personally helps you find a job outside, he will definitely go to a stable unit or enterprise, so your job is generally stable. And depending on your treatment, you have a weekend that others dream of, you have a full set of five insurances and one gold, and everything, so the benefits of this enterprise are definitely good and the work is relatively stable.

Second, the treatment is ok. Although you only have 5000 yuan, you can get a double break, and at the same time, five insurances and one gold will give you full protection. According to the relevant proportion, if paid in full, the five insurances and one gold should be about 30%~40% of the total salary. After this conversion, your salary may actually have reached around seven or eight thousand. This level has exceeded the national average wage.

Third, there is enough time to study. According to the job your father is looking for, you can control the rest of your time except normal working hours. If you have lofty ideals and ambitions, you can also use this time to study, take the postgraduate entrance examination and do research. If you want to develop in a certain field, you can also learn relevant professional and technical knowledge. It's really late when you have a skill.

I hope it helps you. Welcome to discuss!

Teacher Donkey thinks that the most important measure is your city.

If you are in a small county or a small county on the 18 line like Teacher Donkey;

What are you waiting for? I'd love to. Let's go

But everyone has everyone's plans and ideas, if you are a young man who just graduated;

You might as well try to work for a few years first, which is also an experience for yourself, and at the same time you can live up to your parents' kindness.

If you have bigger goals and ambitions, you can disobey your father's wishes. Young people need to toss and turn, make unremitting efforts and stick to their own path. If there is no result, it is better to have a stable job. This is the cruel side of society.

Let me share an example of my family first. My cousin was sent to England by his parents for a master's degree in finance three years ago. The purpose is to return to China and enter the four major banks so that he can be stable and decent. Although he is a master among returnees, it is quite thrilling for my cousin to participate in the highly competitive campus recruitment. In addition to passing the written test, there is also a round of interview.

To be on the safe side, I found some family connections during the interview and successfully entered CCB. The family was so happy that they finally entered a glamorous good unit, the iron rice bowl. Cousin is also very happy. The students who came back together were not so lucky to enter the bank and were as happy as their families.

After less than a year's work, he resolutely resigned behind his family's back because of his inadaptability to the banking system and the fact that the industry itself valued resources over ability. He knew it was very risky to take this step. On the one hand, he can't let his family know. After all, he used contacts. It will be disappointing to be known by relatives. At the same time, I haven't figured out what to do next, and my heart is full of anxiety and worry.

After taking a risky move, my cousin spent three months thinking carefully and was good at successfully joining a multinational English training institution and a listed company according to his hobbies. It was not until he became a regular employee three months after he joined the company that he dared to inform his family to quit. Although his family still didn't understand why he gave up such a "good" job in the bank, he just laughed it off and couldn't explain it clearly.

First, do you want to listen to the work arranged by your parents? If you happen to like this job, take it. What if you don't like it? The problem is not so much acceptance as how to persuade parents to agree to do what they want. For example:

1. Talk to your parents calmly.

You need to give reasons why you want to go to a big city or take up a job, and carefully explain to your parents what your plan is and what kind of person you will become in the future, so that parents can know that you made your decision after careful consideration, not following the crowd or acting on impulse.

2. Listen to your parents' reasons, because parents still want you to have a good life.

My parents have worked hard for half their lives. Compared with those of us who haven't graduated, they have certain connections and social resources, and it is understandable to want to arrange jobs for us directly.

Many times parents choose to help us arrange directly, but they don't want us to be too far away from home and want us to go home and work. But many people don't think so. They want to be as far away from their parents as possible. For those with good economic conditions, parents may respect your choice and let you be willful for two or three years to see if you can make a career outside. Once there is no possibility of any progress, I will advise you to come back and accept their arrangement. At this time, after hitting a wall outside, the mentality of choosing to come back is different.

3. How to choose a big city and hometown?

It depends on what kind of job you want. For example, if you want to join an Internet company, then big cities such as Beijing, Shenzhen and Hangzhou are your first choice. Basically, big companies such as BAT have branches or sales offices in these places.

Students who want to enter financial enterprises want to work in high-end financial institutions such as securities and investment banks, so it is better to go to first-tier cities. If you want to enter banks, insurance and other financial institutions, you can go back to your hometown.

2. What do you need to do to turn your interest into a career? Many college students will especially envy those students after graduation. They can support themselves by photography before graduation, and they don't have to worry about not finding a job. They can do their favorite jobs as soon as they graduate! Perfect!

Yes, the perfect job in the world is to play hard and earn money in the field you love. While admiring the perfection of other people's careers, have you ever wondered why other people's interests always turn into sideline, career or even lifelong career? But my interest can only become empty talk after all, and I don't even have a decent interest.

In fact, interest, like all living things, needs to be cultivated. Different interests have different training methods, and different training methods also determine how high your interest can grow.

1. What kind of interest can develop into a career?

This problem can be judged from two angles.

But hobbies like sleeping, eating and playing games are just satisfying themselves. If you don't meet the needs of others, you can't become a career. Unless you can attach other knowledge to these hobbies and make them valuable. For example, loving food, studying the practice of food and becoming a master cook can turn these hobbies into something valuable to others.

Some hobbies may decline with the development of the times, such as unpopular and sunset occupations, which will not die out immediately, but there will not be much room for future development, which is not a good choice.

The megatrend is very important in an individual's career, and its role even exceeds the individual's efforts in most cases. As the saying goes, "it is futile to work hard in the wrong direction", so it is difficult for ordinary people to go against the trend, so we must believe this. When you are young, it is inevitable to rebel. I want to prove that I am different and capable. However, time cost is the biggest cost. When you make a mistake, you often have to pay the price for many years and lose your own interests.

2. What is the process from interest to career?

If you can quickly find ways to make money and form a good mechanism, you may soon be able to develop your interest into a career. If the development is slow, it may take several years. However, it is also possible to make mistakes in the middle and then correct them. Finally, it will take more than ten years. The time is not necessarily, but the process is almost what I said.

Third, is it to pursue a stable basic salary or challenge the current high salary? If you are a girl in a second-and third-tier city who likes to take care of her husband and educate her children's family life, stability is the best choice. If you are a person who likes novelty and adventure and pays attention to the realization of self-worth, a high salary must also be a good choice. If you are a boy, don't have that big ambition, and your family has made all the preparations for your local life and marriage, then choose a stable life and live a simple life without going through too many storms.

In fact, many people who drifted back to Beishangguang eventually returned to their hometown. Apart from their bumpy work experience, it seems that eating these hardships has not made him reap material and value returns. In the end, you may envy yourself for entering a stable marriage life without tossing, but they have to start again. It's not that you're not encouraged to go out and break in. In Beishangguang, where talented people come forth in large numbers, you only rely on your own blood to fight with your bare hands. In the end, you are all cannon fodder. Before you decide to go out, you must evaluate yourself. In addition to your enthusiasm, you must compete with powerful people. Think about the choice between high salary and stability!

In fact, the answer to this question is unclear and lacks preconditions. For example:

1. Is the high salary you mean really high, and under what conditions?

2. It does not mean that only private enterprises and small companies have high salaries, nor does it mean that state-owned enterprises are stable.

In fact, apart from the work within the system, there is no absolute stability in society, and there are no absolute good jobs and bad jobs. When it comes to salaries, companies such as Internet giant Huawei, Google and Facebook also have high salaries. Reaching the director level is also much higher than the annual salary of million base+stock. If it is not a high salary, it means instability. As long as your ability is achieved, it will be stable naturally. Because you can do it and enjoy it.

Most small businesses say that the salary is in the range of 20-30k. They can hire some people in some large enterprises with a monthly salary of 10-20k. The monthly salary can be higher, but there are more opportunities and space, and the stability is relatively poor. If the company is not developing well, it needs to quit.

From this perspective, as an on-the-job worker, you should consider what you want. If you want opportunities and space, you should follow your heart instead of asking others for advice, so that you can know what you want most.

Whether you are in a private enterprise or a state-owned enterprise BAT, you may lose your job because of poor interpersonal relationship, inappropriate relationship with your boss, inability to adapt to the development of new enterprises, or inability to rush in because of old age, or layoffs due to changes in national policies. It is not that the bigger the company and the bigger the platform, you can sit back and relax. In the final analysis, it depends on your ability not to degenerate, or even to continuously improve.

For reference, the older generation likes to pursue stability. When I just graduated, my parents advised me not to work in other places all day and to find a local organization with five insurances and one gold. I was frustrated in the field and went back to my hometown to work as a temporary worker. Really stable, never work overtime, and go to work on time every day. But as I get older, I get more and more flustered, more and more.

Why panic? Why panic? Because with the growth of age, I found that the so-called stability is not really stable. After the restructuring of some units, temporary trade unions are facing dismissal, and I found that after 30 years old, there is no skill that can not find a job.

Your so-called stability is only an overdraft for your future difficulties, and stability does not exist. Watching college students mix for a few years, although it was very hard at first, now everyone is the general manager, and they are all managers. It is really not a taste to get together and even talk about the topic.

Maybe one day their company goes bankrupt, but with their ability, it is not difficult to make a comeback, but maybe one day I lose my job, and my only choice is to be a security guard. This is my biggest fear, and I can only get worse and worse.

Why do you regret it? When I was 27 or 8 years old, I began to fall in love. When I think of going out to eat with my beloved girl, I can only go to a roadside stall. If I want to take her to a concert, I can only buy the farthest ticket, so I feel a little shorter than others.

Maybe you will say that material girls are not desirable, but have you thought about your future? When you get married and have children, others use the best diapers, the best milk powder and go to the best kindergarten, but you can only buy discounted things for your children on the group buying website. In order to make children eat better, you are not willing to spend money or even give yourself a cup of milk tea.

If I had gritted my teeth and stuck to it, maybe life would have been different. Of course, you can say that you may be poorer than you are now, but at least you won't regret your original decision.

Finally, I said that there is no stable job, and only when you are strong can you give yourself a stable life. Two vacations, five insurances and one gold will really make you stable, but you will also be poor and stable.

I didn't work hard when I was young. When you are old, you will naturally regret your original choice.

There is nothing wrong with listening to your parents, but as an adult, you should have your own ideas and a plan for your future. If the job introduced by your parents can improve your ability, there is nothing wrong with doing it first, but if it is the kind of job that is stable and boring every day, as a young man, I suggest you go out to start a business more, which is better for your future.