Some middle-aged women like to travel alone. What is their psychology?

Middle-aged women are in the period when they are old and young. They are so busy that they are about to lose themselves. When it comes to middle-aged women, they are always accompanied by the pain of being out of shape and losing their beautiful face. I am a travel practitioner, and I often encounter middle-aged women who sign up for group tours alone. As time went by, I more or less understood some of their thoughts and reasons for joining the group alone.

I can sum up the following psychological situations:

1. Some mothers have been unemployed and become housewives in order to take care of their children and family. When their children go to school and live in school, they suddenly have a lot of time. Women of this age are estimated to have good family conditions, and there is no need for them to find a place to work to supplement their family income. Moreover, since they have not worked for a long time, they are not used to working outside. Therefore, some middle-aged women with good family conditions choose to join a group tour to pass their time.

2. Some middle-aged women like to travel, but her husband is busy at work and has no time to accompany her, or her husband does not like to travel. Children of this age either don’t have time to go to school, or when they get older they would rather travel with their classmates than with their mother. At this time, these middle-aged women have no choice but to choose to travel by themselves.

3. A person is freer and does not have to accommodate others. Although it is fun to find a few friends to travel together, it is difficult for everyone to agree on the time to travel, the destinations they want to travel to, and the choice of high, high, and low-end tour groups. It is too troublesome to make do with these several situations and balance several aspects of the situation. It is better to sign up alone, choose your favorite route and meet many good new friends in the tour group, which will also be very lively.

4. There are also some middle-aged women who want to go out and relax when traveling. They may have a bad family relationship. The couple has long been estranged from each other, and they are traveling alone. Others may be middle-aged and widowed, and also want to travel alone to relax. Some are divorced and travel alone after being single. Traveling can make people feel better and temporarily forget their worries. The unbearable and sad life that once gave you will eventually become lighter and lighter.

5. Although some middle-aged women no longer look good, they are more calm, full of heart, understand life, and understand themselves. They have a happy family and a happy life, and they just need to do what they want to do. They don’t want to spend all their time around their families. This group of middle-aged women live more self-sufficiently and independently. Traveling, admiring flowers, taking photos, and seeing the great rivers and mountains of the motherland are all about finding yourself and living for yourself.

6. The reason why a middle-aged woman signs up for a group tour instead of going on an independent tour is probably because it saves her worries and safety. When traveling alone, especially to unfamiliar places, you will encounter unknown things. It's better to just find a tour group and travel with you. You don't need to worry about food, accommodation and entertainment by yourself. Since you choose to sign up for a group trip alone, there are a few things you need to pay attention to:

In short, it is good for people to go through vicissitudes in middle age and learn to settle. It is good to get out of the house and see the scenery outside.

I once met such an aunt during a trip. We were on a chartered bus from the hotel to the desert in Morocco, and she sat next to me. Wearing sunglasses, a delicate hairstyle, and beautiful traditional clothes bought from the local area, her oriental temperament unexpectedly matched the brown-red robe, making her stand out among the crowd.

The aunt noticed that I was looking at her and greeted me very kindly and gently. I was able to start a conversation with her. She told me that she has always liked to travel around the world after retirement, and her husband and children also support her. Because she felt that when she was young, she lived too much for others, and all she thought about every day was family and work. After finally having enough time in her old age, she likes to spend more time with herself and listen to the voice in her heart.

I think there are many middle-aged women like this aunt who travel alone for similar purposes.

They have become accustomed to giving to others. If they still have family and friends during the trip, they will still automatically and consciously choose to be a caregiver. Then they will still be unable to fully devote themselves to the trip, and they will even have psychological pressure to worry about not caring for others well. Only when they are alone can their attention be fully focused on themselves and their travels.

Some people may also ask: "If you go out with a few old sisters or husband and children, wouldn't you have a companion who can take care of each other?"

For such a question, I His point of view is: The independent travel market is currently developed. Unless you go to particularly remote areas in the world, you can book high-quality travel services for a fee anywhere, whether it is language translation, transportation services, or tour guides, etc., just You need to plan ahead so you don’t have to worry about travel inconveniences. Rather than "taking care of each other," the meaning of traveling companions is actually more psychological and spiritual.

Therefore, if a middle-aged woman regards traveling more as a way to relax her mind, relieve her mental pressure and separate herself from daily life, it is obvious that traveling alone to a place where there are no familiar things and The human environment can better achieve this goal.

If no one hinders me, I also want to travel alone. I like walking around without any purpose. I like the freedom and the time when I can focus on myself. Life is short, and I cherish every opportunity to travel. I don’t like to be in a group. The advantage of caring for each other offsets the freedom to let my dreams fly. I like to be alone in a strange world and walk into strange people, to find back the dream I had when I was young, to look forward to the ten thousand possibilities in life, to resurrect myself and move forward... Maybe this is a fifty-year-old aunt Is it one of the reasons why I still maintain enthusiasm for life and work?

Middle-aged woman, alone, traveling, with a group

What are the benefits of a few extremely ordinary words? What's weird?

A middle-aged woman’s children are grown and can take care of themselves, and her husband may be considerate or inconsiderate. If she has time, she can travel as long as she has some money and can afford it.

This sentence is long enough, and it is also the sorrow of women. When the children are grown, and the husband is inconsiderate, why is it so difficult for a woman to go out when she has time and money?

When I reach middle age, I finally meet all the conditions, but I can’t find a traveling companion. Every family has its own experience, and it’s difficult for my best friend’s family to keep in step, so I have to travel alone.

What makes people curious may be this point. Generally, most women will give up the trip if they can't find a companion. It is indeed a brave act to go alone like this. Worth a thumbs up.

It is also possible that a woman’s life is not going well and she strongly desires to change the environment and heal her pain. At this time, it is most convenient to leave everything and go traveling.

Joining a group? Does it mean that you have just started to want to run away from home, but you don’t have enough courage? Language barrier? As time went by and I gained more experience, I started wandering around the world alone.

It is beautiful to think about such an experience.

What is the psychology of a middle-aged woman who likes to travel alone? As a middle-aged woman, I have some personal opinions on this issue: middle-aged women have reached a subtle age both physically and mentally, especially when they can begin to release their psychological needs.

This need is first of all a new pursuit of life that is either satisfying or dissatisfying.

If you don’t have time to travel with you, then sign up for a group tour by yourself;

*Those who are not satisfied with their marriage and are trying their best to maintain it. Although they are dissatisfied with the situation but do not want or cannot change it, they start to hope Find a new way of living. She can release some negative things in the process.

*There is also a group of middle-aged single women. The reason why they sign up for a group tour alone is because they have no choice but it may also be a lifestyle that some people like.

The latter two are the people who are most likely to have some hope or to have what we call "a romantic encounter".

In fact, it is not difficult to understand that middle-aged women have lived a boring life for ten or twenty years. They do not have as many opportunities as young girls, and due to social and moral constraints, they cannot have any opportunities.

For the vast majority of people, traveling alone in a group is a very safe and economical way of traveling; for a small number of people, traveling alone in a group may also be An opportunity.

In tour groups, the situations I have met with middle-aged women who sign up for group tours by themselves are as follows:

First, middle-aged women who have retired and their significant other is still there They are working and not retired, so they cannot take time off to travel with their loved ones; they themselves trust the travel agency, which picks them up and delivers them to ensure the safety of tourists during the itinerary; therefore, they do not worry about safety issues when traveling alone in a group tour, and can go with the tour guide Itinerary is enough.

Second, I met an aunt when we were sharing a room. Her husband had passed away five years ago. She said that she had brought her grandson to five years old and wanted to go out and see it, so she signed up for a tour; the tour guide brought her and me It's good to be arranged to stay in a standard room; her situation does exist!

Third, there is another situation where the husband manages a factory or company, and the wife cooks and takes care of the children at home. The children go to college, and the wife signs up for a group tour alone because the husband has no successor yet and is still Busy with career.

On the tour bus, two boss-level figures in the front row were talking about things. They said: Leave the business to the son, and the daughter-in-law is responsible for taking care of the children. They cannot enter the workshop to take care of things, otherwise there will be no chaos in the factory; Li Ren can recruit outsiders, and he cannot let everyone in the family participate in the business. Therefore, the daughter-in-law has taken the children out, and when her children go to college, they will have time. It is normal for them to sign up for group tours.

Fourth, the lady I did a group tour with last time has her son go to college and her husband has to go to work. After she was laid off, she did some odd jobs, so she decided to join a group tour by chance. In 2020, due to the epidemic, travel agencies set very low prices, so ordinary people can afford to travel with low-priced groups.

I wish everyone a happy day! Have a nice trip!

Middle-aged people, regardless of gender, are actually quite tired. There are old people at the top and young people at the bottom. They have to make progress at work and take care of their families. If you encounter a particularly rebellious child or a sick old man, to be honest, sometimes you not only want to travel, but also want to go home.

Sometimes it is best not to accumulate some negative emotions, but to have an outlet to vent them and find a comfortable way to relax. Such as travel.

Then why not go out with your family?

No matter how harmonious and close the members of a family are, over time, they will sometimes want to be alone. This is normal.

If possible, I would also like to go out for a walk alone. Even for a few days, I am not someone’s wife, not the mother of my child, not an employee of my company, but just myself. See the scenery you want to see, eat the food you like, meet the friends you want to see, and say what you want to say. There is no need to please anyone, just like cleaning up excess memory regularly, releasing it, going home, and facing the complicated life again.

If you go out alone for a few days, the sky will not fall. Even the most loving couple will get tired after a long time, so being away for a few days is not a bad thing. If a middle-aged woman signs up for a group trip alone for a few days, and her husband at home feels that he is in crisis, it must be that there is a problem in your marriage, not the traveling alone.

A middle-aged woman is already very miserable. It’s just a simple thing to relax herself appropriately!

Some middle-aged women like to travel alone. What kind of psychology is this? They have become accustomed to giving to others. If they still have family and friends during the trip, they will still automatically and consciously choose to be a caregiver. Then they will still be unable to fully devote themselves to the trip, and they will even have psychological pressure to worry about not caring for others well. So they like to travel alone.

There are several reasons.

The first reason is that a person with a relatively introverted personality likes to be alone.

The second reason is because The pressure in life may come from your husband, your children, or your grandchildren, so I want to go out for a walk and relax, so I signed up for a group tour

Chapter 1 In the third case, the husband is working and cannot take time off to accompany his lover and travel together, so the middle-aged woman signs up for a group tour alone...

In the fourth case, her family and relatives do not have time to accompany her on the trip, but When traveling with other friends, because we all have different hobbies and opinions, it is easy to have conflicts and avoid embarrassing situations, so I like to travel alone!

Wait, there are many reasons why I like to travel alone and relax.

In fact, middle-aged women are under a lot of pressure. There are elderly people at home who need to be supported, including their parents, father-in-law and mother-in-law! At the same time, middle-aged women often have children who are in high school or college. The children have just gotten married, or have just given birth to grandchildren, and they need to be taken care of by middle-aged women! How difficult it is to be able to travel occasionally!

When encountering problems, worries or difficulties in life, everyone has the desire to talk to them. When people reach middle age, all kinds of problems and worries gather together and appear in a concentrated manner, as if they have been arranged. In front of people, health, work, life, children's education, parents' care for the elderly often make middle-aged people feel breathless. But I can’t find anyone to talk to! So I wanted to go on a solo trip to relax, calm down, regroup, and face everything in life!

Therefore, traveling is one of the best ways to adjust your mood.

Here, let’s popularize tourism knowledge:

“Travel” is travel, going out, that is, the process of traveling from point A to point B in space in order to achieve a certain purpose; "Travel" refers to outings, sightseeing, and entertainment, that is, travel to achieve these purposes. The combination of the two is tourism. Therefore, travel focuses on travel, and tourism not only has the meaning of "travel", but also has the meaning of sightseeing and entertainment.

Tourism is the sum of phenomena and relationships arising from the travel and temporary stay of non-settlers. These people do not therefore stay permanently and are not primarily engaged in money-making activities, but rather as consumers, to the tourist city and its residents. Bringing all kinds of business opportunities!

The three elements that generally define tourism are the purpose of travel, the distance of travel, and the time of stay.

Here is a quote from a classic. > Travel and sightseeing, Liang Chenyue of the Southern Dynasties, "Sorrowful Journey": "Traveling charms the spring of the year, and the spring of the year charms the tourists. "Ode to Cold Pines at the Bottom of a Stream" by Wang Bo of the Tang Dynasty: "In the eighth month of the year, Renzi traveled to Shu to look for the Maoxi stream. "Volume 1 of the Song Dynasty's "Unknown Stories": "Huang Sheng, a painter in Linchuan, traveled to Guangchang, went to Zhibazhai, and died in Changlang Rock Hall. "Wu Chengen's "Book" of Ming Dynasty: "Dongyuan Gong of the early Jin Dynasty Qiqiao, Kaiman Ling, today is a high banquet... There will be Jinghua Tourism Huaihailang Scholars, who are happy to hear it. "

It means living in a foreign country for a long time. Tang Jia Dao's poem "Shanggu Night Travel": "Travel in the world is so difficult to hate, and the dragon bell is especially for the poor autumn. My hometown is full of tears for thousands of miles, and I am sad all night long with the sound of neighbor’s pestle. Tang Shangyan's poem "Autumn Thoughts on the River": "Who has been on the river for a long time, who has no desire to travel?" There is no autumn letter in the homeland, and there is a night anvil next door. "Mingwen Zhengming's poem "Hearing the Rain on the Pillow and Feeling Feelings in Yixing Hang Daoqing" poem: "It should be said that people cannot sleep when traveling, and it is so desolate that they don't go to the small building. "Lenglu Miscellaneous Knowledge·Kong You's Letter to Sima" written by Qinglu Yitian: "In the 20th year of Hanjiang Road, walking on the Hanjiang Road is worth the autumn... What's the matter with traveling? Wandering and asking the sand gulls. ”

On September 27, 1970, the International Federation of Official Tourism (the predecessor of the World Tourism Organization) adopted the charter for the establishment of the World Tourism Organization at a special congress held in Mexico City. World Tourism Day is A holiday for tourism workers and tourists determined by the World Tourism Organization.

In September 1979, the Third Congress of the World Tourism Organization officially designated September 27 as World Tourism Day.

China officially became a member of the World Tourism Organization in 1983. Since 1985, one province, autonomous region or municipality has been designated as the main venue for World Tourism Day celebrations every year.

The pioneers of tourism were merchants, and the first people to travel were the Phoenicians, a sea people.

Travel as a social behavior has existed since ancient times. China is one of the ancient civilizations in the world. The rise of travel activities is also at the forefront of the world. China has it as early as the 22nd century BC. The most typical traveler at that time was probably Dayu. He visited great rivers and mountains in order to dredge the eighteen rivers in Jiujiang. After that, there were Laozi and Confucius during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. I preached and rode a green ox to the west. Confucius traveled around the world giving lectures. During the Han Dynasty, Zhang Qian was sent as an envoy to the Western Regions, reaching as far away as Persia, present-day Iran and Syria. During the Tang Dynasty, Xuanzang went to India for Buddhist scriptures. During the Ming Dynasty, Zheng He made seven voyages to the Western Ocean, reaching as far as the coast of East Africa. The great traveler Xu Xiake also wrote a travelogue.

So, if you have time, your health allows, and you are financially well-off, you can leave home, travel, see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, breathe the outside air, adjust your mood, and let How great it is to become younger and more energetic!

There are three key words in this question: middle-aged woman, alone, traveling in a group.

For middle-aged women, the minimum age is 40 years old and upwards. According to the latest classification of the United Nations, middle-aged women start at the age of 45. Psychologically speaking, women of this age have rich perceptual knowledge, deep emotions and are very sensitive. Due to their rich life experiences, their thoughts are not conservative and they can express their emotions unrestrainedly. Physiologically speaking, a woman at this age is like a flower blooming at its peak. Although the physiological indicators have declined, the physical characteristics have reached the most charming stage in life. In terms of life, the optimization of the family structure, including stable family income, grown-up children, etc., frees middle-aged women from hard work, and the sudden emptiness requires more emotional care.

Traveling alone, neither with family nor friends, with no familiar people around, and in a temporary unfamiliar environment, no one knows her true situation, and no one knows her true situation. It will reveal her situation during the trip, so she can enjoy the fun of travel most freely, chat without worries, and vent her emotions to the maximum extent.

Signing up for group travel shows that these women are not very bold and lack a sense of security. They dare to go to an unfamiliar environment only if they are in a group.

To sum up, due to physical changes and psychological differences, middle-aged women need to find a way to vent their pent-up frustrations if they do not receive the most timely and considerate care from their families, especially their husbands. Travel is A very effective way. Choosing to sign up for a group by yourself not only ensures your own safety, but also allows you to say whatever you want and play how you want without any scruples, which is the most effective way to vent your emotions.

Some people worry that women of this age will have problems such as cheating when traveling. Although this concern is reasonable, in fact, if you sign up for a group tour, the chance of this will be greatly reduced. If a person does not sign up for a group tour, he will be everywhere If you run, the chance of problems will greatly increase. There is a mother who is a female classmate. After her daughter went to college, she started traveling alone. She was a real person. She left as soon as she wanted and took the wrong path. In the end, she got divorced and was enjoying life. But Home is gone.

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I am over 60 years old and have had several experiences of traveling alone. The reasons are as follows: I like traveling first. I feel extremely happy when I walk on the road. Looking at the humanities and beautiful scenery of tourist destinations can radiate infinite reverie and appreciate the scenery and beauty of the motherland. Secondly, most of the people in our age group are old and young. Not many people have time to travel, so there are few opportunities to travel together, so we can only travel alone. Third, even if people of the same age can have time to travel, it still depends on whether they are angry, because some people find faults when they go out, eat poorly, live in uncomfortable places, etc. It is better to go out with such people than to play alone. I had so much fun, so I traveled alone. The fourth person's time is easy to decide. I can sign up for a group tour wherever I want to go today. It's very casual.

After several personal outings, it felt great. Everyone was unfamiliar with each other on the first day, but became familiar with each other the next day. In addition, I think most people who love traveling are open-minded, high-quality people, and easy to socialize with. So I meet new people every time. very good.